^ Yeh the dilated pupil thing is a subconscious physiological response of attraction, like rushing heart beat and facial flushing (all sympathetic ANS responses). This is why subconsciously (or consciously) it attracts the attention of the opposite sex (could be same sex as well I guess).
I have access to Rx eye drops if need be so I will try the phenylephrine drops as well as the OTC stuff. I can't believe I didn't think of anticholinergics before! I have bottles of atropine, ACH, noradrenaline, adrenaline ect which I could try. I need to find out the concentration to use (and make a dilution) before I do that though, however I don't want to loose my eyesight though so not 100% sure if I'm game.
Watching a TV show/movie with a girl you like while pleasantly happy on opiates while she is happy on booze in amazing. Once I fix the pupils magic will happen.