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GAD5

GAD5

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Hey guys, I have a long story, so please bare with me and read it, this is very urgent:p

Last year(15 y/o)- February 2010- Got caught smoking pot 3x in a week, I got VERY fucked for this by my parents. They didn't trust me for months, and still don't COMPLETELY trust me.

Now(16 y/o)- Saturday- My best friend was going to a party with my other friend. On the way there they crashed into a guardrail going 80MPH. No one was hurt, but they had a blunt and beer on them so threw the beer, hid the blunt in the car. This accident fucked my friends moms car up so he told his dad and his parents were PISSED. Anyway, he comes home because his dad made him do that, and he smokes the blunt at home.

His sister (lesbian) was home from college for a spring break. She smelled the smoke and somehow thought it smelled like cigarettes, not weed. She told on him, and that was it. The next day his parents yelled at him for smoking "cigarettes" and crashing the car. He said he was driving at 45mph when he crashed. He got grounded for only a week for this.

WEDNESDAY- His (lesbian) sister went on her girlfriends account and checked my bestfriends (her brother's) facebook account and saw a status about it saying that they crashed going 80 and had beer and weed on them. She told her mom and she yelled at her son (my best friend) and grounded him until summer, no driving privileges, he has to pay the damage, no electronics for a month (other than his phone), etc. His life sucks now.

FRIDAY-
Today, his douchebag mom decides to call the school and alert them that this all happen and the school threated my bestfriend with a drugtest. they said they'd give him a break this time and that was it. She then decided to go to my house (even though I had nothing to do with the accident or anything) and tell my parents all of this stuff. My parents were pissed as fuck but had to go out. My dad made it obvious he's mad at me. Anyway, my bestfriend texts me "yo dont text me dude, parents callled the cops on me). This makes me nervous. His moms a total bitch and called my parents, and told them something. I don't know what she told them though.


Anyway, I'm wondering how to make my parents believe me I don't smoke or drink. (even though I do. LAST TIME I SMOKED WAS 2 WEEEKS AGO EXACTLY! - i'd prob test negative on a DT). I'm thinking I'll tell them that I didn't want to tell them about the accident because they wouldn't let him drive me anymore. I'll also tell them to drug test me if they don't believe me that I don't smoke.



Sorry for rambling, this is mainly just for me to vent my anger. Anyway, do you guys know anything good to tell my parents? And BELIEVE ME! they won't believe me that weed is good (i tried for weeks to convince them of this last time I was caught- last year). So yeah, any suggestions are GREATLY appreciated.
 
Your friend is a fool for bragging on FB about his wreckless driving and posession of drugs.

You already lied to your parents and got caught so they don't trust you.

If instead they see your friend who crashed the car while high, distance yourself from him. Your parents will take this is a sign that you are trying to separate yourself from this bhavior.

It will take time to gain their trust again, there is no magic answer anyone can give you to fix your mistake overnight.

At your age, living under their roof it's their rules so don't try to convince them weed is good.
If you want to continue to smoke, be a little more discreet about it. They do not need to know everything you do.
 
lostNfound said:
Your friend is a fool for bragging on FB about his wreckless driving and posession of drugs.

You already lied to your parents and got caught so they don't trust you.

If instead they see your friend who crashed the car while high, distance yourself from him. Your parents will take this is a sign that you are trying to separate yourself from this bhavior.

It will take time to gain their trust again, there is no magic answer anyone can give you to fix your mistake overnight.

At your age, living under their roof it's their rules so don't try to convince them weed is good.
If you want to continue to smoke, be a little more discreet about it. They do not need to know everything you do.
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Thanks dude... I did all of that stuff last year and it worked.

This time though, the whole "distancing" thing will be more difficult, considering that he's literally my best friend and all the kids I chill with chill with him too.

Oh well, I suppose I'll ask my parents to drug test me to prove I'm "clean"
 
Yeah be discreet but dont go askin for a drug test if they dont insist. No neeed to distance yourself from you friends. Fuck if your parents dont trust you, your not doing anything wrong so dont feel like you are. Just try to be more perceptive of situations so you dont get caught up in shit you dont want to be in. What the fuck is this dykes problem telling on her brother and shit, shes acting like a damn 5 year old.
 
GodricNightfall said:
Yeah be discreet but dont go askin for a drug test if they dont insist. No neeed to distance yourself from you friends. Fuck if your parents dont trust you, your not doing anything wrong so dont feel like you are. Just try to be more perceptive of situations so you dont get caught up in shit you dont want to be in. What the fuck is this dykes problem telling on her brother and shit, shes acting like a damn 5 year old.
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Right dude? and it turns out they ended up not calling the cops, but they're sending him to rehab over WEED! the fuckk???

Fuck his mom. for reall
 
lostNfound said:
Your friend is a fool for bragging on FB about his wreckless driving and posession of drugs.

You already lied to your parents and got caught so they don't trust you.

If instead they see your friend who crashed the car while high, distance yourself from him. Your parents will take this is a sign that you are trying to separate yourself from this bhavior.

It will take time to gain their trust again, there is no magic answer anyone can give you to fix your mistake overnight.

At your age, living under their roof it's their rules so don't try to convince them weed is good.
If you want to continue to smoke, be a little more discreet about it. They do not need to know everything you do.
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^This
 
my question-as a 34 year old smoking hot lesbian,is this....what are you trying to convey in putting your friend's sister's sexual preference in parenthesis?. I am not offended, I am just curious if you felt that there is some stereotypical personality trait in all lesbians to spill the beans. lol
sure we lezbos can spin some drama but I am pretty sure this was a sibling rivalry sort of snitch. being gay doesn't automatically make you a narc-good thin too bc I am set in my ways and in the ways i use my rainbow of substances.lol

'as far as your parents are concerned,this is just part of where you are in life right now. continue to insist on the truth and tell them that your innocence will prove itself. you really didn't do anything wrong. but being a teenager sucks and communications w/ the rents can be hell. offer to take a drug test. tell them that you have accepted responsibility for the past incident and that if you were in anyway involved,you are man enough to admit it and deal with the consequences. most of all remember that you are almost 18. that is when life begins. and don't take this the wrong way but wait until you are my age. I love my 30s. life is tough and we are not owed anything. stay true to who you are and everything will work out.
good luck and take care.............skillz
 
skillz~4~thrillz said:
my question-as a 34 year old smoking hot lesbian,is this....what are you trying to convey in putting your friend's sister's sexual preference in parenthesis?. I am not offended, I am just curious if you felt that there is some stereotypical personality trait in all lesbians to spill the beans. lol
sure we lezbos can spin some drama but I am pretty sure this was a sibling rivalry sort of snitch. being gay doesn't automatically make you a narc-good thin too bc I am set in my ways and in the ways i use my rainbow of substances.lol

'as far as your parents are concerned,this is just part of where you are in life right now. continue to insist on the truth and tell them that your innocence will prove itself. you really didn't do anything wrong. but being a teenager sucks and communications w/ the rents can be hell. offer to take a drug test. tell them that you have accepted responsibility for the past incident and that if you were in anyway involved,you are man enough to admit it and deal with the consequences. most of all remember that you are almost 18. that is when life begins. and don't take this the wrong way but wait until you are my age. I love my 30s. life is tough and we are not owed anything. stay true to who you are and everything will work out.
good luck and take care.............skillz
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wasn't making fun of lesbians, I was just stating thats why she went on her girlfriends facebook account. I didn't want any confusion adding that part so I just stated she was lesbian.

EDIT: thanks a lot for your input BTW, I like this response the most. But thanks a lot to all you guys. I have a general idea of how I'm going to earn my trust back.
 
that is some 16 year old bs if i ever heard it

being of age >>>

being in a state where a blunt in a car is a ticket >>>
 
regfairfield said:
that is some 16 year old bs if i ever heard it

being of age >>>

being in a state where a blunt in a car is a ticket >>>
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Why the fuck would I waste my time making up a lie?
And who ever said cops were involved in said accident? It was on a barely used road, at about 12:00 AM in a small town. He didn't call the cops because he didn't want to get involved with them. Especially when driving with weed and beer with them....
 
GAD5 said:
Why the fuck would I waste my time making up a lie?
And who ever said cops were involved in said accident? It was on a barely used road, at about 12:00 AM in a small town. He didn't call the cops because he didn't want to get involved with them. Especially when driving with weed and beer with them....
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i meant bs like that shit happens when your 16...if no cops were gonna be involved why did he toss the beer and hide the blunt...im just saying where i live i could drive 100 mph with a fat sack in my pocket...and get a speeding ticket and a fine for the pot..
 
regfairfield said:
i meant bs like that shit happens when your 16...if no cops were gonna be involved why did he toss the beer and hide the blunt...im just saying where i live i could drive 100 mph with a fat sack in my pocket...and get a speeding ticket and a fine for the pot..
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Oh.. In New Jersey, you need a red sticker on your liscense plate to show you're 17 (a new driver) or else its a 250ish ticket. If they got that + beer + weed they'd be hardcore fucked - financially and legally.

That and a blunt is much easier to hide than 16 beers.

Also, the road they crashed on is a 5 minute drive from my friends house, so they were gonna get it back later. They were also panicking because it was his first accident too.
 
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GAD5 said:
Oh.. In New Jersey, you need a red sticker on your liscense plate to show you're 17 (a new driver) or else its a 250ish ticket. If they got that + beer + weed they'd be hardcore fucked - financially and legally.

That and a blunt is much easier to hide than 16 beers.

Also, the road they crashed on is a 5 minute drive from my friends house, so they were gonna get it back later. They were also panicking because it was his first accident too.
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damn man that sucks about that sticker shit.
wow first accident too. i remember mine i taped this drink guys bumper cause i was texting this kid ridin with a bottle full of blues to go make a transaction. i was scared as fuck and it was at a red light so i had to get out and talk to the guy. luckily i caught a break and he was drunk so i gave him some bs reason to get the fuck outta there and dipped. he took my license plate though and then came to my house like 4 hrs later and wanted money lmao.
 
lol wow, just wow. Dude if you have to hide smoking from your parents that much, just stop. Or if it is that important to you, then move out and tell your parents to fuck off. Get over it or join the rest of us. Sorry for not helping you lie to your parents and what not but really dude, come on.
 
BDD is here for specific harm reduction discussion regarding the effects of drug use and not how to lie to parents to cover up for you and your friends' irresponsibility. I would move this to another forum here if I knew ANY that would accept this but I don't. If you find another forum that you think this could fit in, either PM their staff and ask (provide them with a link to this closed thread) or PM me and I'll ask.
 
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