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  • BDD Moderators: Keif’ Richards

How do I prevent myself from texting girls, and regretting it after, when high?

It sounds to me like you'll need to counter-balance all the stupid, corny shit you've said to these girls, you know, before they think you're a total pussy.

So, here's my advice to you: First, quit the uppers and stimulants for a while. I have no idea why it is, but uppers and stimulants put me into that same, heart-pouring mood as well. Next, you'll need to invite these girls over to your place and just let them have it. I mean really dig into them hard.

You might consider bringing it to everyone's attention that one of the girls has put a little weight on since you've last seen her. You might want to mention that a rumor has been going around about the incurable herpes one girl has recently acquired -- from her uncle. If she denies it, then ask her to prove it. (Remember, "prove it" is bullet-proof for off-the-wall comments like this one.)

They'll leave, and hell, they may even slap you. They won't call you for months or return your dumb, over-the-top text messages. (That's one problem solved.) You'll be free to enjoy your uppers and stimulants for months, maybe years, before these girls forgive you and begin talking to you again. By that time, they'll have already married and had children, so you can visit on weekends for coffee.
 
Fuck hiding my cell, I have a girlfriend so don't have to worry about texting any girls telling them my emotions and how I feel about it. I usually don't do this until I'm about to blackout but it feels good getting into fights. Until I wake up I'm all like "damnit, I actually liked that person"
 
I'm usually drunk when I post stuff to Bluelight and the next day I think, "Did I say something stupid, I'm a real ass OMG". Then I notice that nothing serious results from my behaviour, and everythings OK.

I don't use drugs that much but I drink often so guilt about my behaviour when drunk is something I'm used to.

When drunk/high, I have had urges to post messages to my former female high school classmates on Facebook, but fortunately I haven't done that and said something stupid.

Some people are real asses when high/drunk, while others seem completely sober at least in their writing even when fucked up.
 
Well I screwed up the particular one is question (whilst sober) so there goes that prob. Maybe texting while high would even have helped me. A charismatically dangerous man is he who texts whilst high. :D

I'm sure the archetypal 'badboy' doesn't question texting his girls whilst high.
 
I don't usually text anything I regret, but I do have a habit of sending "meth texts" to friends at early hours of the morning, and some of them get pretty annoyed by it! I'd recommend taking the battery out of your phone before you get high, so you're not tempted to pick up the phone and send a text. If that doesn't work, maybe take a good hard look at your drug usage!
 
Sweet P said:
I don't usually text anything I regret, but I do have a habit of sending "meth texts" to friends at early hours of the morning, and some of them get pretty annoyed by it! I'd recommend taking the battery out of your phone before you get high, so you're not tempted to pick up the phone and send a text. If that doesn't work, maybe take a good hard look at your drug usage!
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I think thats the answer for most of us =D
 
Mate just get a hold of yourself man!

If you do pick up your phone and write a text;

Read it over twice!

Out loud is best!

now listen to yourself and ask yourself these questions.....

1) Is the text content particularly over-sentimental, completely nonsensical, unecessarily rude or just especially uncharacteristic of you?

2) Is the person liable to take offence, be worried, intimidated, confused, unecessarily emotionally provoked, or just downright irritated?

3) Is there any chance you may regret sending this? if you read it out loud and realise that you sound just a bit of a twat but it'll probly be ok, then it probably won't!!

4) what is the text trying to achieve?
Does it achieve it effectively?
And is that something you really want to achieve?

only after you've considered all this should you hit send.
If you STILL regret that later then your retarded!
 
DJ 303 said:
Mate just get a hold of yourself man!

If you do pick up your phone and write a text;

Read it over twice!

Out loud is best!

now listen to yourself and ask yourself these questions.....

1) Is the text content particularly over-sentimental, completely nonsensical, unecessarily rude or just especially uncharacteristic of you?

2) Is the person liable to take offence, be worried, intimidated, confused, unecessarily emotionally provoked, or just downright irritated?

3) Is there any chance you may regret sending this? if you read it out loud and realise that you sound just a bit of a twat but it'll probly be ok, then it probably won't!!

4) what is the text trying to achieve?
Does it achieve it effectively?
And is that something you really want to achieve?

only after you've considered all this should you hit send.
If you STILL regret that later then your retarded!
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But usually when your drunk or high you don't have the right thought process to ask yourself these questions.
 
I deactivated my facebook cause of this kinda shit lol
 
pally pete said:
=D

Exactly!

Im actually terrified of my phone when im tripping,the thought of speaking to somebody in the 'real world' strikes fear into me.
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Tell me about it! Most awkward feeling in the world is trying to talk on the phone while tripping. I keep thinking of Andy Samberg's "throw it to the ground" song, specifically "My Dad's not a cell phone!!!" part. =D Maybe that's the hangup in my tripped out head.
 
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