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Just exploded on former "guy"

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gocards27

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I was basically friends with my guy for 20 years I am 28...he introduced me to opiates in 2008..recently I quit...thank god for loperamide.

2 months ago he got careless, to drugged up, and stupid and got set up by one of the guys he sold too, and caught a federal case.

he goes to his guy and gets more then decides not to pay him, blows all of that money at a casino over and over.

and gets cut off by the guy and wont answer his calls or see him.

So he comes to me and wants me to take him to NA...so I take him for a week or two, then he quits going...

and runs out of product and has to go threw all of that.

He sets up times for NA folks to play baseball and doesn't show or is late.

finally we don't talk for a few days....then 5 days ago I give him money, a decent amount because he has a kid he takes care of, the mother is a deadbeat and needs money.

I am way to big of a softy. I give it to him..says he will give it back by Sunday..

hasn't spoken to me since Saturday.

all of those times he fronted me shit and said it was all good....pay back whenever, then goes and blows his money and blows my tele up at 7 am the next day asking for the money, threatening to stop fronting, to cut me off.

all of the times I had to drive to god knows where to get shit, and wait, 20 min, 30, 1 hour...longer..get stood up.

Whatever last feelings of compassion I had are gone.

and they are replaced with rage and bitterness.

I called and text him to bring me my money by 5 or I am going to his parents, then his sisters, then his house to get it.

and will explain to them why you owe me this.

I am fucking done...then after I get my money back I will never see or speak to this person, well doesn't really matter I guess.

For anyone out there who thinks there buddy is there dealer, they are not your friend. Most of them are sick vile people.
 
It sounds like you wont get your money back, especially since you told him you were going to go to his house to get it. He will probably move it or spend it, you should have just showed up went in and took it.
 
Ryan11adidas said:
It sounds like you wont get your money back, especially since you told him you were going to go to his house to get it. He will probably move it or spend it, you should have just showed up went in and took it.
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Yeah, but he could be out somewhere which is normal.

I thought a threat like that would get a response. nothing yet.
 
Na if someone told me that I would just ignore them, or put the money in my bank and tell them I spent it.

Good luck to you man, it sucks that your friend of 20 years is being such a dick! You just gotta take his ass to rehab! Tell him they give him drugs to slowly ween him off what he is on, and then hopefully you guys can be friends again!
 
It's horrible to see someone who used to be known for being reliable, and that guy you can count on become this.
 
Yeah I know, a few of my friends lost their way to drugs. Mostly opiates and then to H they went! I tried to get them to stop and did everything I could, I even offered them Suboxone for their withdrawls but they wanted to get high instead of stop doing drugs. At that point you know there is nothing else you can do.
 
can you fight? or do you at least got tuff friends? go beat him up nd do it every week till he pays you.. or get your buddy's to come with you for a good beat down
 
it sounds dumb. I didn't read how much though but yea. I am as well a softy but wont take shit due to the fact I have people that owe me/my family in the four digits. Fuck all those slimes.
 
One life lesson I've learned - never loan money to ANYONE. Either give someone the money as a gift, or don't do anything at all.
 
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