so i have heard from friends and on here about guys that are straight rolling and ending up making out with or fucking their guy friends. i was wondering how common this is? because for me, even the first time i rolled i rolled fucking balls and it was me and 2 friends, and we held hands and hugged and shit i think my friend even kissed my hand at one point but we never did anything sexual. we just talked about how we were best friends and needed to stick together. so yea, im wondering what you guys experiences are with this?
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turning "gay" while rolling
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no dis but maybe you just got some closet gay friends.....
this has never happend in my circles with the exception of a hug maybe once or twice.... but no gayness bro...
but MDMA makes you look within yourself and express so like i said maybe they r closet homos or maybe they dont know it yet...
if my homie kissed my hand i just dont know how that would fly.... did yer butthole pucker while he slimed yer paw?
crunchymilk
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Uhh yea the guy who kissed your hand is possibly in the closet, that's what my lady friends do when they are rolling. There is no such thing as turning gay, you are gay or you're in the closet.
I think the best idea of what your sexuality is depends on the kind of porn you watch. When you are alone, you have nobody there to judge you, so if you watch gay porn, yea I think you're gay. I've had people tell me, "Yea I watched gay porn yesterday because I thought it was funny and you know doesn't make me gay i just watched it because I was curious".
.. Your ass is gay son!
I have nothing against homosexuals btw, I have issues with closet gays though. They say the biggest problem with gay rights are closet gays. The biggest proponents against gay rights have been later found to be gays themselves. It's real sad, these are the kinds of people that grow up being told gay is wrong, so they end up marrying a straight women and ruining her life because he was in denial.
I think the best idea of what your sexuality is depends on the kind of porn you watch. When you are alone, you have nobody there to judge you, so if you watch gay porn, yea I think you're gay. I've had people tell me, "Yea I watched gay porn yesterday because I thought it was funny and you know doesn't make me gay i just watched it because I was curious".
.. Your ass is gay son!
I have nothing against homosexuals btw, I have issues with closet gays though. They say the biggest problem with gay rights are closet gays. The biggest proponents against gay rights have been later found to be gays themselves. It's real sad, these are the kinds of people that grow up being told gay is wrong, so they end up marrying a straight women and ruining her life because he was in denial.
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crunchymilk
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^ Explain the context in detail, was he just like fucking around acting like he was kissing your hand OR was he kissing it to the point of caressing.
Rolling doesnt chane your sexual orientation and that's that. It does however lower your inhibitions and sometimes that leads people to do things that they normally wouldn't such as kiss someone of the same gender even though theyre heterosexual.
Your experience is actually a fairly common one and it doesn't mean either of you are gay. I am gay and I hug, hold hands with, and even give girls little pecks when I'm rolling to show that I care about them.
Your experience is actually a fairly common one and it doesn't mean either of you are gay. I am gay and I hug, hold hands with, and even give girls little pecks when I'm rolling to show that I care about them.
ok so all 3 of us had our shirts off pants on like just chillin on and off holding hands just talking. at one point my friend just grabbed my hand and kissed it just like a peck kiss but ya. i really dont think thats a big deal, i dont know maybe its just like the situation.
crunchymilk
Bluelighter
Did he give you a look too after he did it to see if it was ok? Try to remember the little things, those might be the biggest indications.
skip2my
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skip2my
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i don't care HOW much in the moment I am, i would never be in the right state of mind to grab another man's hand and kiss it, and to top it off, no shirts on? I dunno that's just my opinion haha.
ya man thats what im sayin
crunchymilk
Bluelighter
I'm gonna have to agree with skip2my
I've been in moments where I was sooo into the moment that I would hug anyone but I would never kiss another guys hand.
I've been in moments where I was sooo into the moment that I would hug anyone but I would never kiss another guys hand.
Bsiren
Bluelight Crew
I think MDMA de-sexualizes intimacy, and makes it much more meaningful. I see tons of straight guys getting ultra affectionate with friends at clubs while rolling. I think its sweet and beautiful to see people express love.
Very well said, and I agree with this fully.
burn2shine
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I have two straight friends that this happens too, Im like 90% sure one of them is gay and I'm 75% on the other. I also have a close friend who is gay who came out like a year ago and he acted like this while rolling, he's actually a lot funner to roll with now because it's all out in the open (no homo).
And there's a HUGE difference between showing your guy friends Love (no homo) and treating your guy friends like a girl youre trying to fuck. One says "you're my brother, man" one says "I wanna fuck you, man"
And there's a HUGE difference between showing your guy friends Love (no homo) and treating your guy friends like a girl youre trying to fuck. One says "you're my brother, man" one says "I wanna fuck you, man"
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