LostWife
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- May 25, 2010
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I had an old thread on here- You may want to check it out before reading on so your not lost...
http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/showthread.php?t=505027&goto=newpost
I think now he's doing adderall... After i confronted him about it, he said he wanted to stop. he seemed to be pretty normal for about a month, but Two weeks ago i had to last minute go down to Florida because my grandma was dying...
It almost seemed like the second i walked out the door he went on a weekend bender... I talked to him a couple times while i was gone and he said he hadnt slept in two days and he was clearly messed up on something from the sound of his voice. He talked to my brother in law too, and my bro-IL said he knew within 5 seconds my husband was on something.
When he came down to Florida for my grandmas funeral he was being SO mean to me.. he was very irritable the whole time we were there.. Quiet, irritated, annoyed at everything, snappy etc... Idk if he was withdrawaling?? Not sure...
anyways- I know you alot of you lectured me about going into his phone and invading his privacy, but i couldnt help myself... I had to peek because i just KNEW he was up to something again...
Sure enough there were a few texts asking people in Florida (my cousin) to help him get some "adds" I'm assuming thats adderall as someone had stated before. That person told him no, then he texted someone else the same thing. They said no as well.. (he met me in FL and we were there for a total of 6 days together) as far as i know, he never found anything to use down there, but i was positive the moment we got home he'd be "going to the store"... But he didnt..(But we got in really late and didnt get home till after midnight) So i'm sure he's getting whatever it is today since he's been looking for them all week...
He also lied to me about his job.. He told my brother in law he got fired, and he told me he quit grrr....
ahhh Sooo how do i deal with this?? You all were SOO helpful last time.. I just dont know if i handled the situation incorrectly or what.. Or if he's just absolutely not wanting to stop and get help at all.. Who knows...
Why would someone want to take adderall?? Isnt that what college kids take to help them stay up and study? haha i have no clue.. Why would he go from the bupe to the adderall?? (he could be still using the subs, but didnt see any mention of that) ahh please help!!
http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/showthread.php?t=505027&goto=newpost
I think now he's doing adderall... After i confronted him about it, he said he wanted to stop. he seemed to be pretty normal for about a month, but Two weeks ago i had to last minute go down to Florida because my grandma was dying...
It almost seemed like the second i walked out the door he went on a weekend bender... I talked to him a couple times while i was gone and he said he hadnt slept in two days and he was clearly messed up on something from the sound of his voice. He talked to my brother in law too, and my bro-IL said he knew within 5 seconds my husband was on something.
When he came down to Florida for my grandmas funeral he was being SO mean to me.. he was very irritable the whole time we were there.. Quiet, irritated, annoyed at everything, snappy etc... Idk if he was withdrawaling?? Not sure...
anyways- I know you alot of you lectured me about going into his phone and invading his privacy, but i couldnt help myself... I had to peek because i just KNEW he was up to something again...
Sure enough there were a few texts asking people in Florida (my cousin) to help him get some "adds" I'm assuming thats adderall as someone had stated before. That person told him no, then he texted someone else the same thing. They said no as well.. (he met me in FL and we were there for a total of 6 days together) as far as i know, he never found anything to use down there, but i was positive the moment we got home he'd be "going to the store"... But he didnt..(But we got in really late and didnt get home till after midnight) So i'm sure he's getting whatever it is today since he's been looking for them all week...
He also lied to me about his job.. He told my brother in law he got fired, and he told me he quit grrr....
ahhh Sooo how do i deal with this?? You all were SOO helpful last time.. I just dont know if i handled the situation incorrectly or what.. Or if he's just absolutely not wanting to stop and get help at all.. Who knows...
Why would someone want to take adderall?? Isnt that what college kids take to help them stay up and study? haha i have no clue.. Why would he go from the bupe to the adderall?? (he could be still using the subs, but didnt see any mention of that) ahh please help!!