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AiryFairy

AiryFairy

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I plan to do this tomorrow, and i'm kind of nervous since it's HIS first time. Has anyone tried E with their lover? How did it go? Are guys able to get hard? Would sex be possible?
 
Has anyone tried E with their lover?
Yes

How did it go?
It went amazing. It's awesome rolling with your lover :)

Are guys able to get hard?
Yes

Would sex be possible?
Yes
 
Maybe I am just a purist but I would think that since its his first time that sex shouldn't be the goal. Just make sure that he has the best time possible. I know that for most dudes its very difficult to get and erection so don't get your hopes up. The above poster's answers are not typical...alot of dudes have difficulty :(

I would say go into the night just looking to have a good time and if sex come natrually then you can give a shot. Just don't go trying to force it.
 
my wife and i have been rolling for the past year and it did wonder for our relationship. Sex sometimes plays a part but not really, its really just about having fun and spending time together. hope you guys have fun
 
Earlier this year I did E with my boyfriend, it was his first time- and we had an amazing experience. Even though sex wasn't the goal, it just ended up happening because touching feels amazing. So if you love someone, and have a good sex life otherwise, I feel like its kind of inevitable. While peaking I found that it was a little more difficult for him to get hard, but not impossible, also, a cockring is a good thing in a situation like that. I'm sure you guys will have an amazing time- sex or no sex. The most fun about it is connecting with your partner and talking. I found it made our relationship stronger afterward- which hasn't worn off. It'll probably serve to make you guys closer.
 
OH ecstasy, i remember doing this stuff in the early 90s, all i can say is dont do it alone. I always did it with a partner, usually my girlfriend (now wife). So thats a bit of advice.
 
Just have fun.

I have rolled with my girlfriend many times and have found the experience to be extraordinary. I myself have extreme difficulty getting an erection on MDMA, but it's not important. And what I mean is that when we're both rolling we can connect on such a deep and intimate level, that sex isn't even necessary. I think you'll find as matt2012 said, that the best advice is to just go into it without any expectations.
 
Rolling with a boyfriend/girlfriend can be a double edged sword. Yes it can be amazing and an awe inspiring experince, but it can connect one person to the other person on a different level which the other person may not feel, atleast in my experince, and maybe even complicate the relationship.
 
citysmog said:
Rolling with a boyfriend/girlfriend can be a double edged sword. Yes it can be amazing and an awe inspiring experince, but it can connect one person to the other person on a different level which the other person may not feel, atleast in my experince, and maybe even complicate the relationship.
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Good point. I guess to be safe it's a good idea to evaluate your relationship beforehand. Rolling with a lover is tricky because so many times one person is more serious about the relationship than the other. In my case, my boyfriend and I have known each other for 4 years, so there's really no question how we feel- but if the relationship is newer it could certainly complicate things if one person isn't sure about it. You can get a false sense of bonding that one person may not feel once they sober up. I guess make sure your boyfriend knows what to expect as far as the emotional effects go. Though, I think good bonding experiences are usually more common. I bet you'll have an awesome time, just something to keep in mind.
 
AiryFairy said:
I plan to do this tomorrow, and i'm kind of nervous since it's HIS first time. Has anyone tried E with their lover? How did it go? Are guys able to get hard? Would sex be possible?
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Just did this with my Wife a little over a week ago for both of our first time. We had an amazing experience!

Our relationship was kinda rocky leading up to the roll, but something about it reallllly helped us feel re-connected and almost giddy in love like years ago when we first met.

As for the sex, she was SUPER horny and wanting it. I was good to please her (while peaking and such) but had very little interest in sex. On the comedown it was game on! It still felt amazing and I was able to keep him up and going for hours! Like the poster above mentioned a cock ring does help (tho I am not sure if it was NEEDED).

Create a badass set/setting for him and surround yourself with people you guys love (IF anyone else is going to be there) and you guys will have an amazing time! Good luck!
 
The sex thing- some guys have "tiny dick" syndrome on MDMA, so don't get too geared up and assume he will be able to perform....many guys have no problem, but if you do a search in the forum, you'll see threads about not being able to get erect or ejaculate on MDMA. Cuddling, foreplay, and all other physical activities besides intercourse will be amazzzzzing too, so you'll have plenty of fun regardless! =)
 
Bsiren said:
The sex thing- some guys have "tiny dick" syndrome on MDMA, so don't get too geared up and assume he will be able to perform....many guys have no problem, but if you do a search in the forum, you'll see threads about not being able to get erect or ejaculate on MDMA. Cuddling, foreplay, and all other physical activities besides intercourse will be amazzzzzing too, so you'll have plenty of fun regardless! =)
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lol mine wasn't so much "tiny". In fact when i do blow I get serious "TDS :p" however on MDMA I just had very little interest. I was more into massaging, listening to good music and looking at lights all while getting into deep conversation. Sex can be had sober and it feels amazing. Listening to Tiesto while getting a light show and giving/getting a massage is just not the same dead sober lol

Like I said, when I started to come down that all changed :p.
 
It's funny, even when I'm rolling and not interested in sex, I still feel this need to please and make others feel good... which my husband really likes. XD
 
Wow. I have no difficulty at all getting a hard on while rolling....so i dont know...I've never rolled with a "girlfriend" but i have rolled with many girls before and although sex is GREAT while rolling there are so many more things that you can be doing
 
jealous haha mdma + your significant other is the best use of the substance possible in my mind

Hope you have a good time =) I'm sure you will
 
boltfan909 said:
Just did this with my Wife a little over a week ago for both of our first time. We had an amazing experience!

Our relationship was kinda rocky leading up to the roll, but something about it reallllly helped us feel re-connected and almost giddy in love like years ago when we first met.

As for the sex, she was SUPER horny and wanting it. I was good to please her (while peaking and such) but had very little interest in sex. On the comedown it was game on! It still felt amazing and I was able to keep him up and going for hours! Like the poster above mentioned a cock ring does help (tho I am not sure if it was NEEDED).

Create a badass set/setting for him and surround yourself with people you guys love (IF anyone else is going to be there) and you guys will have an amazing time! Good luck!
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Yeah on the comedown there is definitely no cockring needed, and when coming up too, for us- at the peak things I find are usually good to go, unless he takes more than one pill. With one pill he can stay hard through the whole thing- more than that and there will be an hour or two where its difficult to maintain- but, where there's a will, there's a way :) We both find it impossible to achieve orgasm while rolling though. He can when we're almost down, but for me I usually can't until the next day, maybe 2 days.
 
I got about 500 boners while peaking on pure MDMA but i couldnt do the girl for separate reasons... I think its mostly the speed that inhibits hard-ons
 
I've been dating my gf for over 15 months.. once I started rolling with her, I couldn't imagine not rolling with her. No, its not difficult to get hard, but maybe because I'm a teenager. Climax? out of the question; but I like being able to go at it all night. Zero inhibitions and heightened sense of touch just makes it great
 
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