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MazDan

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Over the past few weeks I have had to deal with a customer that is totally blowing my mind. From my experience the behaviour is really really bizarre.

I just wanted to share and get your thoughts and also maybe you could in turn share any dealings you have had with odd people.

Some weeks ago i was asked by a mate to do some work at this guys place. They have just brought the house which is a multi million dollar home and they were pretty much renovating the whole thing.

I completed the work and gave the husband the invoice and he said he would pay it via his company.

I waited a month and still hadnt been payed so i rang him.

When I first got hold of him I was given a run down of how busy he was, the fact he was due in the supreme court for the next few days as he was being sued for 15 million dollars and in between he had to fly to Brisbane to do some million dollar business deals all the while trying to get his new company off the ground and also move into his brand new family home.

At this stage I had not even said anything other than hello.

The convo was had and was interrupted when the phone died.

We played phone tag a bit for a week and then finally he agreed to put things in writing which he did.

He had some greivances that really had absolutely nothing to do with us and it was all quite strange but thatsa not the weird part.

We spoke to each other via phone when he rang me last night and again, the first few minutes of the convo were him telling me all his plans for the next few days and how he was being sued for 15 mill and that he had a meeting today in Brisbane to seal a multi million dollar deal and had to make 4 interstate flights in the one day and he had just five minutes to talk to me.

Imsort of leaving out a fair bit as I quite simply cant remember it all.

Anyways eventually I got a word in and was able to bring the conversation to us getting paid.

He then took the attitude that maybe I didnt think we were going to be payed and so he started telling me how he was a multi multi (yes not just a multi but a multi multi) millionaire and how he owned te most expensive home in Glenhaven and that of course he could afford to pay me and that ............at this stage I butted in and tried to settle him down but then his attitude escalated mine and we had a bit of a argument for a few minutes which ended when he made the comment that I had no idea who I was dealing with and that he was a very successful businessman and that he was a multi millionaire and also that he had an IQ of 157. Then making the statement that I had no idea who I was dealing with.

Now by this stage I had absolutely had enough of this guy telling me how much money he had and how powerful he was and finally capped off with the IQ of 157.

I snapped and told him that I didnt give a flying fuck how much he was being sued for, how much his home was worth or how much he was worth or how powerful he thought he was or the fact he had an IQ of 157.............he then interrupted me and said and I quote.......... "What, so you think I am just another one of your sheep?"

I immediately answered Mate you mean nothing to me. Your just another human being that has come into my life.

Now at this point he seemed to settle right down and we actually got some discussion going and I am (hopefully) collecting a chq on Sat arvo.




I have had people show off a bit to me and specially been arround name droppers, Im sure everyone, myself included boast a wee bit about silly shit from time to time but this guy was like something i have never come across before.

It was a bit like he was a John Cleese character that was based on someone but taken to the absolute nenth degree except this guy was real.


Has anyone else ever encountered anything like that?
 
whoa.. never dealt with anyone like that... I'm looking forward to hearing how you go on saturday though... what a nut job.

I once worked on a job that got put off because the client - a motivational speaker - had a mental break-down :)
 
Dirty Liberal voter, they're all the same ;)


Did you get paid???
 
sounds just like the bloke who was managing our first place. he's old as hell so i gave him more leeway than i would normally, he'd go on and on about how great his business and how he was looking after me and shit, yet every month he'd be close to a month behind in giving me my rent. i ended up telling him off hard and sacking him early, on breached contract and not even a month later his business went into liquidation.

dickhead spent more time on talking so much shit, he forget how to actually do his job.
 
Wow crazy. Humility is a virtue hey? I hope you actually got your payment and not a second-by-second account of his multi-mulit-boring trip to Brisbane :/

I'd wager he is actually under financial stress and was unable or unwilling to pay you initially....
 
Well it appears we got our doe, just waiting for the finalization on internet banking. We got an internet bank reciept from them.

On the weekend he told me he spies on his 65 emmployees by giving them each a lap top and keeping tabs on there key strokes and what sites they use. He caught someone trying to use there own personal bank account according to him.

What a fucktard he is. No wonder he is being sued for all that money.



His wife had a whinge to me as well on the weekend and was telling me about some operation she had and the 12 inch scar on her belly.

She then undid her pants and part dropped them and started to lift her shirt. I covered my eyes and exclaimed Oh please.......do you mind. Im sorry but I dont want to see that.

I had a massive WTF moment and got the hell out with a promise I would be paid via internet.


I was telling the story to a mate of mine and he reckons this dude has some mental illness called narcissist syndrome.

i thought he was taking the piss but apparently its real and he says this dude is a text book case.

I dunno.................I jusdt dont ever wanna work for anyone like that again.




Lefty...........Sounds like you were smart to listen to the "warning will robinson danger danger".
 
You've heard of American Psycho this is Australian Psycho


Mega-lo-mania i think.
 
I have come across hundreds of guys like that Maz and they are all the same. Wealthy on face value but just ask him for a balance sheet.

You'll most likely see those $10m in assets secure $13m in mortgages, overdrafts, leases and various credit loans.

Honest to god wealthy people rarely speak out about their net worth, they usually let their position and work speak for itself.

This guy probably feels inadequate and craves your feeling of admiration - don't give it to him, let him crave it more and more until it eats him from within
 
Eggy I suspect your spot on correct............thats exactly what the little dude inside me said after the warning will robinson bit.

Funnily enough I am the last person in the world to be impressed by wealth.

I have always been easily impressed by whats in a persons heart though. I dont consider money buys happiness, in fact i know for a fact it doesnt.

While i was doing sports journalism i was able to interview some of the richest and most influencial sportsmen in the world. There just normal people with arms and legs and snot just like me and the little old lady I helped out with some electrical works today. I sort of learnt early on that we were all humans and that there was nobody higher or more important than anyone else in this world, and that includes kings queens and prime ministers. We are all equal.

I guess I just never came across anyone so violently opposite to how I feel before.

The good news is that his money came through...........woot.
 
^you know how it is, the louder you are on the outside, the less there's going on inside.

jessica lovejoy (to bart): do you ever think anything you don't say?

it's the sydney way!

i'll ficks you up, bro, don't worry, man. i'm like one o dem total professional cunts, yaknow.
 
good news on the payment, maz. well done. i'm still chasing several hunge from the dep fair trading. could've been worse. had we not sacked them it'd've been a few grand.
 
I wouldn't say I've come across people that extreme in their bragging (at least not often). But I've known my fair share of braggers.

I used to get caught up in it and get into one upping with them. But I realised that was stupid. Most people aren't at all impressed by bragging, because the tackyness of bragging usually overrides whatever the claimed accomplishment is.
 
^I one up people in my sleep. Beat that.

I've met a fair few braggers and name droppers. Usually it's just insecurity, but this guy sounds like nothing I've encountered before. It's also odd that his wife is as...strange as he is.
 
My partners ex-wife has narcissistic personality disorder....It fucked a huge part of his and her life up...I cant go into it but its basically not being able to see your own floors/downfalls, like this lady thinks she's perfect. Its hard to explain but it doesnt sound like the kind of thing I would like to deal with.

Never experienced anything like what your explaining though, thats just outright weird.
 
that's filthy rich for you. He probably thinks he's the most amazing person in the world and likes to share it with everybody and yes he sounds incredibly narcissistic. I have never met anyone like that before fortunately
 
Honest to god wealthy people rarely speak out about their net worth, they usually let their position and work speak for itself.

^I agree with this. They have no need to brag or show off.

A few years ago I was at a fundraiser for work and happened to end up speaking to a wealthy mine owner (I knew who he was as I had heard of his name and the name of his company before). I asked him how business was. He laughed and replied "Well I own a gold mine". Pretty much no further comment required.
 
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