Stimulants No longer interested in sex....

[cripkeeper]

I don't use meth very often. It never did much for me personally and I am afraid of the cardiotoxitity. I did use it for sex, or tried to when I was allowed an erection on the stuff.

The other day I was stone sober, but was sleeping with this girl whom I love/hate. I like being with her and she is attractive but she is a straight up junkie and speedfreak.

We began dating even though I knew it wouldn't work (set myself up.) Yesterday we had a date planned, but she blew it off without even calling. I know it's because she got some dope. It really hurts my feelings although I should have known better. Man, fuck a bitch.

The question, the last few times I used speed (same source) I encountered none of the horny side effects. I even tried. I don't hate the drug but when I am high and think about sex it reminds me of her and I lose all interest right away which is fine with me for now.

Anybody experienced anything like that? I am really hurting and confused right now, I am such a stupid fuck. Thanks for any advice.

 

[GZero]

I think if you're using drugs in order to experience things that shouldn't require drugs, you need to seriously reevaluate your approach to these things. Has it now become habitual?

In the short term, have you tried GBL? I'm sure many of us has discovered (all too late!) that hamming the MDMA/Stims can give you the ol' "Pilly Willy". I've found that GBL + a vasodilator (a cigarette, amyl nitrate) can get you back in action within the hour.

Hate to say it though bro, junkies don't make good girlfriends... This bird worth it? Meth is one vicious drug. If you really care, you'll get her off it, if not, then you do you really want her in your life?

Gl man.

 

[cripkeeper]

Don't get me wrong, I never used speed to enhance sex. Speed is a drug I never go outta my way for, not my favorite. I don't even want to be with her, that's why I don't understand why I feel sad. I really shouldn't give a fuck.

 

[deadhead507461]

Since I have started using stims I never had any sexual desires.
The 5 times or so I have binged, and I still don't feel like wanting to even try to have sex with my girl.
I hope she doesn't get it somewhere else now haa.

If you want sex just stop the meth, I am sure itll come back soon enough.
Thats the reason I haven't done meth in a week lol. No sexual desires yet tho.

 

[GZero]

Hahaha oh man. Been there.

Women eh If only love was a logical thing...

And yeah, most stimulants are vasoconstrictors, and certain nessessary bits of your anatomy need that blood to flow free

Like I say, redosing on MDMA too many times can trigger what I have affectionatly called a "cockfail". So if you must insist on taking stimulants when you should be having sex (ie. your priorities are totaly fucked) then I've found a dose of GBL + an vasodilator like a cigarette or amyl nitrate (if you have it to hand) gets you horny as fuck and physically able to do something about it.

 

[onetwonine]

^
cigarettes are not vasodialtors.

 

[cripkeeper]

I think it's a blessing. The more I know about this bitch the less I like her. I still don't understand how a chick I hate could hurt my feelings like that, but she's not the one for me!

 

[Depressicaa]

She could have OD'ed while waiting for you to rescue her!
In all of seriousness though, people often get caught up in either sex, drugs, or money. You've associated the high with her, and therefore do not enjoy it. Try it with someone you like, and have fun doing it. I hope you will regain what you lost.

 

[ben2990]

the girl or the erection?

 

[sir_thizzalot]

It seems like if you're not really enjoying it then it's pretty stupid to do it(meth).

And, it sounds like you hate her plenty, so dump her and move on?

 

[cripkeeper]

Yeah I am done with her, it's just strange I feel sad about it, rejected a bit I guess. I don't know, but all your advice has made sense and I am for sure done with that ho.

 

[GZero]

^
cigarettes are not vasodialtors.

Hmm, oh well, misinformation from me Sorry!

 

[GZero]

And the subconcious is a powerful thing, it may not be the drugs causing the failure at take off...


If deep down you know you don't want this girl, it may bubble up...

 

[ranimal]

Don't get me wrong, I never used speed to enhance sex. Speed is a drug I never go outta my way for, not my favorite. I don't even want to be with her, that's why I don't understand why I feel sad. I really shouldn't give a fuck.

Meh, it's just your hormones f^cking with you, Speed does that. Plus, it's your hard wired desire to have a woman in your life being short circuited by your sketchy f^ck-buddy.

In my experience with women, which is a lot (for good or bad), you need to be the type of person that you'd want for yourself. Being with and being a regular drug user comes with a price.

I didn't finally meet the right one until I got a good job, a nice home and a respectable lifestyle for myself. I ultimately left all the recreational drug use behind me with the exception of my prescription; which in my own socially acceptable way is an addiction as well I suppose. It's just managed.

Get your life in order, and the right women will present herself and for God's sake, don't force these things. Let it come to you.

 

[cripkeeper]

Thanks homie, you know what your talking about. After having women it's really hard to stay alone, but your right. I'll never meet the right girl till I get my shit together. I feel a bit better now. She keeps calling but I sure as fuck do not want to hear her.

 

[Hugs & Drugs]

i think its all very subjective man, sometimes i feel extremely horny on speed, and other times im not interested in the least
and i definitely agree with the vasodilator comments that have been made - amyl, isobutyl and isopropyl nitrite is a great example
(just fuck off cigarettes, i doubt they're even vasodilators)


this bitch is a constant reminder of an undesirable relation to amphetamines, she has basically tainted your view on amphetamines
its the things that you least expect that get to you the worst, i doubt we will ever understand how our brain truly work
but mann, don't do something if its making you feel shitty, thats a terrible idea
and it will just further increase these negative feelings

don't worry about the women though, when the times right, you will find that special person - its just fate :D
don't go out searching, because you won't find them
keep up that care-free lifestyle, commitment isn't something that should be taken lightly and you just gotta think
"is it worth me getting into something that i dont think i can last in, or make work"

good luck bro,
let the good vibes roll, and fuck off those bad ones
peace.

 

[xxl]

I've noticed that with stims it matters a lot with whom and in what circumstances. If you combine your session with falling in love with someone new, the sex will be great. If you try to ressuscitate a waning attraction, it will fail miserably and you will wish you were alone during the high.

A very dirty situation, like an orgy, is also a very good setting for sex&drugs, but it is a risky one from a legal point of view unless you're a millionaire and can organize the party in a secluded mansion where no-one leaves the party before the next morning.

 

[cripkeeper]

Yeah it's probably all the above, mostly that ho though. I think the only reason I even spent any time with her was because it boosted my ego, I mean I never liked her, just like that she was hot, plenty more of those types to fuck wit.