That IS the problem. What little there is to understand is not WORTH understanding.
and if i told you that what i understood was worth understanding, what would you conclude?
that i understood wrong, or that you guessed wrong?
A lot of them DO speak English. Especially the monks.
a lot!
i'm not sure. 1% maybe
english teachers don't speak english, for once
survival english is not conversation english
you may be generous with the monks, or may have met the good ones
I feel I have missed absolutely nothing
i feel i missed a lot during the whole life i had before discovering thailand
to each his taste
but don't you think that deserves reflection?
Don't let my criticism of a foreign country affect you personally because you like it
what foreign country?
there's one world, nothing less
my house is where i am right now
if tomorrow i'm somewhere else, that will be my house for tomorrow
i don't feel that any other country is more my country than thailand
Honestly, I have. Since buddhist monks and Kathoi are the two segments in Thai society that generally speak English, these are the ones I have had actual conversations with.
ok, sorry
- what kind of monks?
every thai man is monk at some point in his life
- you seem to be talking about working kathoeys
that means that for them, you're a walking wallet or a bit of fun, nothing else
as soon as you left, they looked for another prey
did you have gratifying conversations with them (not talking about them talking about their lives)
The people who put a bowl of rice outside their shops are about as "buddhist" as anyone who goes to church on sundays to eat the flesh and blood of their god and then forgets all about it all week
i don't agree with the "forgetting about it all week" for buddhists
much more than christianism, their religion influences their way of being in every instant
that means they don't have to think buddhism to actually act buddhism
No, it's that most of them have no clue what buddhism is. Just like most people worldwide with their respective religions, but more so in Thailand than anywhere else
i disagree
they have buddhism classes during their whole schooling
(= it's a subject. they get marks in buddhism)
the ministry of education passes bills on how to involve buddhism in all subjects
and teachers have to attend seminars on how to do
they know much more about buddhism than the average "christian" knows about christianity
You see, IMO, the very behaviour and evolution of Thai Society as a whole is counter to some very basic Buddhist teachings.
agreed
something went very wrong somewhere
but wetern society is way further from buddhism teaching
(it's not only a question of rich people taking advantage of the poor. other aspects of their behaviour are quite close to what i understand of buddhism)
ost of the shiny statues in Thailand are of Hindu gods
quite a few buddhas too
but as buddha is not a god, they take pretty much anything that comes along to please people of other reloigions, because those gods are not necessarily contradictory with buddhist teachings
Again, my observation is different. And language has nothing to do with it.
because you're interacted with thai in the way foreigners do
especially with people nationalist like thais, you don't get to know them if they don't communicate with you as with an equal but as with someone who's here on "long vacations"
there are profound messages delivered - but they fall on mostly deaf ears, ears that hunger for the warmth of a mobile phone.
that's not how i perceive it when i compare european students with thai students
The very fact that this applies to almost all other foreigners in Thailand (as you note) simply furthers my point.
come on
you know what 90% of foreigners in thailand are worth
first thing i was told by a friend when i arrived was "foreigners living in thailand are not the kind of people you'll want to associate with"
i can count on one had the ones i know who don't fit this description
what can you say about a tefl agency boss who's been here for years and years and can't count to ten in thai?
has he tried any kind of integration? or just to abuse the system?
Just because you managed to find something you like in Thailand, doesn't invalidate the fact that most people are revolted by it.
but when i hear their criticism, i can think exactly of the reason why they get this bad aspect of the country while others don't get it
sometimes, when everything seems wrong, the problem is not everything, but you
Language is not everything.
simple observation : here it transforms black into white
it's not everything, for sure, but it makes a damn huge difference
And the way these people act is repulsive at best.
with you
not with me
why?
got to sleep now