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Does size matter? (girls please)

Does size matter?

  • Yes

    Votes: 44 37.3%

  • No

    Votes: 36 30.5%

  • Maybe

    Votes: 16 13.6%

  • I'm still collecting data

    Votes: 22 18.6%
  • Total voters
    118
Lost Ego

Lost Ego

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Im sure there is already a topic similar but this one is more personal.

background im 16 and i have like 5 inches. i can honestly say that im confident. i have slept with 2 girls sober
1 of which was over a long period the other was a 1 night stand.
The first girl said she didnt care about the size and that i was good in bed.
The one night stand girl went around school telling the girls that i was small - shitty situation, a complete bitch.

Lets just say i made my own slogan - I may be hung like a 5 year old but atleast i get the job done.

If u got with a guy and he had 5 inches do u believe he could pleasure u? I sure do hope my ex was telling the truth, caus if not i fear that i may never be good in bed.
 
Wow, that's pretty shitty that she went around telling girls about you.

I don't consider 5 inches to be unusually small. Actually, 5 to 7 inches is my preferred size range ;)
 
thanks to pornos and insecure guys, most high school girls expect 6-10 inches even though 5 is average. when u look at 5 inches its not as big as it sounds especially when compared to my big figure. i just hope over the course of 2-3 years that i grow a good inch or 2
 
Hah what a ridiculous thing to worry about. "It's the one they gave you," no matter what.
 
No. A woman who is interested in you for you is not going to worry about your size. In regards to your 5 inch willy, that is a fine size. It is average and you have nothing to worry about. That girl was extremely immature for what she did, that is a very "high school" thing. Once you hop out of there you will realize that size DOESNT matter and that Performance does. A guy could have a 10 inch dick and not know how to use it. Also, many of these 8 inch D's and such are to bi for many woman and the thought of something that big in her vagina scares her. Chill out bro, learn what makes the womans biggest sex organ tingle, the brain.

I also recommend taking a Sexual Psychology course in college. It will help you understand sex more and be very comfortable with the subject in or out of the bedroom.
 
felix to tell you the truth, sex is the subject i am most comftorable with. u could ask me any question reguarding it and i wouldnt mind. the problem is that though i am 5 inches and still can be good, im at a disadvantage where an 8 incher could pleasure a girl more easily. so if my ex was lying when she said i was good in bed, then the only 2 good references i have towards my abilities point to me being bad = concern for me.

btrs the fact of the matter is that most girls do, or atleast in america they do.

clean she was called a slut, i still have my pride and im fine with the incident.
just the simple fact that i didnt pleasure her bothered me. it really gets me off when a girl has an orgasm, i would rather give her 5 orgasms and me not finish rather than finish b4 she has any orgasm
 
If it's the girl's pleasure you're concerned about then your size is probably the least important part of the equation.

Most women need manual or oral stimulation to cum, which has nothing whatsoever to do with penis size.
 
Your ex is telling the truth, the one night stand probably would have said things no matter what , some girls are just like that. I'ts not you that has a problem, it's the girl.

You stay confident.

Edit: FYI I am a woman, and five inches is totally normal. I'm almost 40 and I've seen a few in person, porn isn't realistic.
 
I remember reading somewhere that the average US penis is around five inches, and that almost all women are smaller than that before uh... a penis gets in and arouses them ;)

I think my bf is somewhere around there, and if he was any bigger, I think I'd be in trouble. I wouldn't worry about it.
 
first of all, you don't have a small dick.

secondly, you're going to get a lot of the "size doesn't matter" answers here.

i'll put it to you a different way.

just as there are a variety of body shapes and sizes around, there are a variety of reasons for why people have different traits that they are looking for in a partner. both psychologically and physically a girl can need a larger dick to be happy with her s/o. girls aren't all one generic size down there, and each one has a little bit of a preference as to what they like. each one also places a different amount of importance behind dick size. there are guys out there that like big breasts, small breasts, big butts, tight butts,.... hair color... eye color...etc. girls are the same way, and to speak for all of them regarding size issues would be giving faulty information.

basically what i'm getting at is size matters a lot to some chicks, to others its not an issue. the most important thing to know is that love is package deal. when you find the right girl, she's going to love your dick, your sense of humor, your intelligence...

the best advice i can give you is to build the emotional part of the relationship first. look for love :)
 
i don't believe in girls saying size don't matter
try inserting a 2 incher into a vagina and it'll scratch the pussy-lip :\
as long as you have longer than 4 inches then you should be fine
 
size does matter to me i have have had to use toys because they wasnt big enough I like them 10 to 12 inch
 
just the fact that it looks small kinda fucked the equation. lemme paint u a picture - im 5'9" i weigh about 200 lbs i bench press 255 i have big biceps, i squat 305 easy = big legs, big butt and then when im naked a 5 incher. it doesnt match u know? i mean it doesnt look right in my opinion.

thanks for the support but the fact still stands that in high school they expect a 10/12 incher and when they see a smaller one its another story. 1 night stands may never work for me and im already looking for love and i gotta go, ill continue this in another 2 days if necessary
 
i completely brushed off the fact that you're still in high school.

i'll tell you something that you won't believe right now, but you'll look back on and agree with years down the road. don't read this as me telling you you're just a kid, because you aren't. you're at the age where you start building yourself into an adult. its these types of situations that can actually be positive in the long run, as they give you better insight as to what you're looking for in a partner.

so on to the part you've probably heard before. as of right now, you have a ton of growing to do within yourself. by this, i mean you have a lot of "learning from experience" type situations to go through (the situation you're in is a prime example), you have a lot of people to meet, you have a lot of ideas to discover, and you have a lot of soul searching to do. who you are and what you want out of life now is only going to be a part of the bigger picture as it relates to who you'll be striving to be in your early twenties, then your late twenties, then your early thirties...

what i'm getting at is you can either accept that you have an average sized dick now, or develop a complex over it (millions of guys have, myself included) and live in fear surrounding what a girl might think of you for the rest of your life. i'll tell you from my own experience, its no way to live. it fucking sucks to hear a girl say that, i've had it said to me. there are certainly worse things in life, but as far as "things a guy doesn't want to hear from his girlfriend" goes, this has gotta be near the top of the list. force yourself to get over it(easier said than done). you know the statistics though and you aren't a medical anomaly. there are people out there that are in a way worse way when it comes to their health than you.

ditch the one night stands dude. they're shallow excuses for intimacy imo. you'll be left much more satisfied.......or hurt..... not sure which it is yet ; )
 
They can expect a 10-12 incher, but how many guys have a truly huge dick? A few percent? Most of the dicks they see will be between 5 and 7 inches. If you act confident and don't make it an issue, they will pick up on your confidence and be turned on by sex with you.
 
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