Can a man be a slut?

[Catecholamine Cowboy]

Men chase women so the saying is a man will Get Lucky from time to time.

Women have men chase them so they can more or less get laid whenever they want.

The conventional idea of a woman being a slut is to dress in an almost shamelessly oversexualized or exhibitionist way and flirt with or lead on every man possible.

My experience with the type of woman that could meet the criteria for being a slut, is they are by far the best performers in bed.
They'll willing do explicit sexual acts almost effortlessly, acts prudent women may not even consider doing, and enjoy and embrace the concept of being slutty, from dress sense to behaviour to lifestyle.

I've seen the occasional dude who for a brief point in time and space, may find it relatively easy to get sex from a willing pool of women.

This is ridiculously less commonly occurring that is for women, but if the stars align and he's in great form with a great body, presentation and just everything is working well, he can make it happen.

Historically, the idea of a man being slutty typically applies more so in the homosexual sense, like dressing in women's underwear and being effeminate and promiscuous with other men.

How to start the conversation.......... have you ever known a man whom could be considered a slut, but with women?

 

[Robi]

Oh I thought all men where sluts,pardon.

 

[Ki3ly]

Yes, and their mother is a Whore !!

 

[Catecholamine Cowboy]

Oh I thought all men where sluts,pardon.

I know the word has questionable connotations historically.

But I consider women that have genuine slutty skills to have exactly that.

Skills!

I reminded of that scene from Superbad.



"Some women pride themselves on their dick taking abilities".

The follow up is pin point accurate and alludes directly to the thread topic.

Do men exist with dick giving abilities, such that they could actually be a male slut?

 

[DeathIndustrial88]

As a gay guy....

I'd say men are bigger sluts than women. But for some reason we stigmatized women for it while men get away with it because "they're guys & it's just how guys are".

I've never been able to find a male partner that can remain faithful in the close to 40 years of my life.

 

[atara]

If a slut is just someone who has sex with a lot of different people, then yeah, sure. Obviously. You could throw in lying about it, men do that a lot, too.

But another definition is that a slut is someone who uses sex to get something from others. This is unlikely, because, as Syndrome explained in The Incredibles, if everyone is a slut, then noone is. The market is saturated.

And a different factor is that a slut can be defined as someone who does sex acts which are stigmatized or shameful for them, again in a promiscuous manner. But there are many fewer sex acts which men are stigmatized for doing, and those that qualify aren't terribly popular. So this is pretty unlikely too.

Still another possible feature of the definition is that a slut puts themselves in dangerous situations. But women generally face more danger from men than the other way around. Men who are actually smaller and weaker than the average woman usually aren't desirable. Men like to tell stories where a guy discovers a lost island of eight-foot tall women who threaten him with death by snu-snu, but that doesn't seem very likely in the satellite era.

So there are some problems with the idea.

 

[kingsfont]

1% of males have sex with 150 partners or more while 1% of females have sex with 35 or more partners. So it would seem men are more promiscuous than females. Either for males or females both distributions are skewed by the 1% who account for the most sexual activity. Average is 6-14 partners for males and 3-4 partners for females. I'm a probably 2-3% (100-150 partners). Oddly enough my wife has had exactly 1 partner.

 

[M!$TER-ED]

Men are dicks but I know some women who are dicks too. Hmm men can be a number of things...all in all we are all a piece of work. Not necessarily a compliment

 

[ClementinesRevenge]

Oh I thought all men where sluts,pardon.

I too thought this and was going to pose a better question which is can a man not be a slut

 

[Catecholamine Cowboy]

If a slut is just someone who has sex with a lot of different people, then yeah, sure. Obviously. You could throw in lying about it, men do that a lot, too.

But another definition is that a slut is someone who uses sex to get something from others. This is unlikely, because, as Syndrome explained in The Incredibles, if everyone is a slut, then noone is. The market is saturated.

And a different factor is that a slut can be defined as someone who does sex acts which are stigmatized or shameful for them, again in a promiscuous manner. But there are many fewer sex acts which men are stigmatized for doing, and those that qualify aren't terribly popular. So this is pretty unlikely too.

Still another possible feature of the definition is that a slut puts themselves in dangerous situations. But women generally face more danger from men than the other way around. Men who are actually smaller and weaker than the average woman usually aren't desirable. Men like to tell stories where a guy discovers a lost island of eight-foot tall women who threaten him with death by snu-snu, but that doesn't seem very likely in the satellite era.

So there are some problems with the idea.

Another definition could be........ hot?

Slutty women are hot to me.

I would even say they're the very definition of hot.

But it takes a good amount of work and dedication to achieve and maintain slutty status.

Some women who try and fail end up being the opposite, tacky, cheap, predictable, and unappealing.

Got to keep their ass in shape, stomach firm, hair well groomed, outfit well selected and appropriately suggestive.

And more than anything it's the attitude.

Some women try for the slutty attitude and end up being toxic.

Men who try and become slutty may either go the effeminate route, or the bad boy route, and the latter is a disaster.

Hottest slutty women have the face of an angel, attitude of innocence, but ultra suggestive, sexualized, and do insanely hot things sexually like it's nothing to them.

 

[mentholmigraine]

Most men are quite easy. I told a man I would not grind on him so he tried to push his ass onto me. Therefore, most men are sluts.