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Loss of sensation takes forever to cum

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CraneTrain

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An accident when I was a teen left me with diminished sensation in from the waist down. This post is specifically about my penis. And the fact that it takes me hours to cum. Can be a blessing and a curse. A lot of women love it but after a few hours we’re both ready for me to finish. Sometimes I just can’t. But I’m wondering if there is any kind of medication, topical lube or ANYTHING that will help me feel more from sex and ultimately help me finish within the first hour at least.
 
they do make sensitizing lubes, usually have like a warming or cooling effect. i think they’re made to increase blood flow to your junk. i deal with this a lot too, i’m on daily pregabalin for nerve pain and oxcarbazepine (which is also usually for nerve pain/seizures but i take it as a mood stabilizer.) and while my pregabalin helps my nerve pain, when your nerves are less sensitive to pain usually that’s not the only thing they’re less sensitive to. between that and the hormonal meds i’m on, i’m not nearly as sensitive as i used to be

i’ve used some of the sensitizing lubes i mentioned and they usually help a bit but not a crazy amount. certain supplements like zinc, ALCAR, L-Citrulline, and B vitamins can help with nerve health and blood flow too. in terms of toys- cock rings and vibrations can help. restricts blood flow and the fast, frequent sensations of vibrations can be sensitizing in the moment
 
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I suffer from anorgasmia, only 2 things have ever helped, the best by far is 2C-B, MDMA also works but causes delayed ejaculation so you will need to wait until the come down for the right balance of enhanced sensitivity and ability to cum.

please do your research on both of these drugs before considering if they are right for you and safe for you to take, also read about harm reduction before taking either, they are not without risk.

2C-B amplifies your sense of touch significantly, you can take enough of it that your feel like you're entire body is hyper sensitive to the extent that a mild gentle breeze has you feeling like you're buzzing with electricity, thankfully the intensity scales with dose (at least in my experience)
 
I can relate to having a slow as hell orgasm and how upsetting it can be. At the same time, for me ( ymmv) my trigger can get surprisingly fast if I'm in a situation where the mental stimuli is high for me. In other words kinks, for me ones relating to a sense of danger or " am I sure I ought to be doing this?". I'm not saying it can work for you @CraneTrain, but I think an awful lot of pleasure, stimulation, release happens in the brain, so consider what really turns you on and seek it out.
Also, I think the pressure of expectations, of feeling one "ought to come", "what is wrong with me?", that you are you being judged by your partner, can really fuck up the whole process.
 
placebonaut said:
you have no idea, 40+ fucking years, the frustration is incredible
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I feel for you brother!

chippermonk said:
I can relate to having a slow as hell orgasm and how upsetting it can be. At the same time, for me ( ymmv) my trigger can get surprisingly fast if I'm in a situation where the mental stimuli is high for me. In other words kinks, for me ones relating to a sense of danger or " am I sure I ought to be doing this?". I'm not saying it can work for you @CraneTrain, but I think an awful lot of pleasure, stimulation, release happens in the brain, so consider what really turns you on and seek it out.
Also, I think the pressure of expectations, of feeling one "ought to come", "what is wrong with me?", that you are you being judged by your partner, can really fuck up the whole process.
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Cumming isn't an issue for me, only get delays when I'm using something.

it's just not satisfying in any way, no intensity, the world definitely dose not move, it's not even a trunk driving past the house.

I have more rewarding shits.

Kinks, I've tried a lot, pretty much game for anything because you never know what might actually work, it's certainly better, and I'm kinky by nature I think anyway.

agree on the mental side, starting to be aware of what your partner wants/expects can just be a kiss of death to sexy time.

I have mental baggage as well, but never thought it played a factor, but honestly it might do, maybe that's why the MDMA helped, then the 2C-B sensitivity made the super wow moment, it's been 2 months since I last did mdma and I didn't roll on on (think because I was taking NAC), taking 2C-B hasn't worked as well, maybe I need a bit of mental soul searching with the MDMA 1st to help reset my brain a bit, ket doesn't seem to work as well as MDMA for this specifically though I prefer it generally for sorting my head out.
 
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