What is YOUR sexual fetish?

[highabdl]

Maybe you can guess from my username....

 

[fuckabout89]

I've never admitted this to anyone even on the internet. Well I've hinted around with other people that I know share the same fetish from time to time. But never from an username I use often. I've only ever done it anonymously. It's way more common than you might think there are even genres of porn and hentai dedicated to it. I avoid them because honestly I'm not a big fan of porn. Watching other people just doesn't get me off. Always been that way even back when all my pre-teen friends wanted to gather around a VCR and sneak a peek at porn while hiding it from our parents.

Sometime around the 6th or 7th grade I developed this odd fetish. I've always had it even before I first rubbed one out for the first time.

Basically, I'm into body swapping, mind swapping, shape shifting and that sort of thing. I guess I want a super power. It's a very common trope in all media especially media for children. Almost every cartoon and show aimed at children-teenagers has an episode where two characters will swap bodies and "walk in each others shoes for the day". I get off on the idea of having the ability to do that. Either through magic or some kind of mad scientist soul/mind swapping machine.

I do not have a desire to become the other sex IRL or anything like that. Well...I guess I do but I wouldn't want to be stuck like that or do it full time. I'm also not interested in anything gay like buttsex. I can get hard at the sight of a naked woman easily still. As far as anyone can tell IRL I'm a man and proud of it (I am proud of it). I dress and play the cards I was dealt. I've never had any trouble getting a woman into bed. Well at least with the ones that were interested in it.

It's not like I want to do anything sexual with someone while swapped to another body. I get off on the idea of fooling people, trying to not get caught. For example, if I were to swap with a woman the first thing I'd do was hit the closet and try on all that clothing I normally couldn't wear. I also don't cross dress because frankly I'd look awful in a skirt/dress. I simply do not have the hips, shoulders and boobs to pull it off. It just looks stupid.

I tried it once or twice and that wasn't for me. I'm not interested in cutting off my balls, taking hormones and attempting to pass in society as the other sex. Since I know it's a fool errand. No offense intended to anyone that's taken that path. More power to you. I want everyone to be happy and be proud of who they are and what they are. Which is why I've embraced my man hood since that's the hand I got dealt when I popped out of my mother.

I'm also not fully into the idea of just swapping with a woman. Although it would be very fun. I also fantasize about swapping with another man and trying to live his life for a day or so without getting caught by his spouse and associates.

When I take a girl to bed and she asks me what I like it's hard to say something like; "I wish we could swap places so I would wear the sexy clothing and play the role you're playing now. Maybe throw on the bunny or cat suit and strut would in knee high boots or a cute skirt. You get the idea.

As far as the sexual aspect I mostly fantasize about stuff like swapping with a woman then getting intimate with another woman (yuri in other words). I would maybe consider swapping bodies with a girl and her swapping with me. Then we'd get dressed up and go out into public just to see the difference in how people react and treat us.

I'm large and I guess look scary enough that sometimes people will cross the street just to avoid passing me on the sidewalk. As a man some people are afraid of me because of how I look since I look imposing I guess. I'd like to experience walking down the street as someone else to see how they react. Since people are less afraid of woman and usually pay them more attention and are more willing to talk to them if they're strangers.

This warped fetish extends to wanting to swap with characters from animated media. For example, it would be really fun if I could some how go through a dimensional portal to a world where the rules are different. I'll use the example of Sailor Moon since it's popular enough that most people have seen it. I would like to swap with one of the characters from a show like that for a day just to play out the role of being them and experiencing being a super hero like figure or going to school for a day wearing the school uniform (they're cute). As I said before I'd also like to play dress up and try on things like those cool Victorian era dresses.

Speaking of clothing. My friend says I'm strange because I find women that wear more traditional and less revealing clothing much more sexy than women that show a lot of skin and follow modern fashion trends. I really miss the goth fad that was happeningg 20-25 years ago because a lot of girls I went to school with wore all that cool clothing. I like a women that have multiple layers of clothing and dress very modest. The type that wear stuff like bloomers and large ankle length dress with those platform boots. I'd like to be short as well maybe just under 5 feet tall. I'm very attracted to short girls for some reason.

Girls that opt for the knee length skirts and tights instead of the mini skit with shirt that shows off their mid drift. Women that dress modest and act modest really turn me on I don't know why. Like I wish fashion would shift again and 1950s era fashion for women would come back into style. I'm also really into long hair for some reason and bangs.

Anyway, that's my fucked up fetish. I blame all the cartoons and movies like Freaky Friday I watched growing up. I basically want to be able to jump from person to person at will. Or better yet just have the ability to shapeshift and manifest enough money that I could blow several thousands of dollars on cosplay and playing dress up.

I don't know why I'm like that. I've been like this since I figured out how to cum.

The surprising thing is I'm not alone at all. There are millions of porn videos, video games, novels, comics, and manga that cater to this fetish. From time to time I'll get the urge to interact with that content and it usually results in an all day wank session.

Thankfully, it has not been an issue with my sex like IRL. I just keep it to myself. If there was a machine that allowed me to do soul/mind swapping I'd sell off everything I owned to get one. But if they were real I doubt they would ever sell such a thing on the open market. Since it would cause a lot of problems if a criminal got ahold of one.

What is crazy to me is how common this is in the meida. I swear every show had at least one episode where this happens and 90% of the time it's always a male swapping places with a female.

For a long time I tried to stop it but I can't help myself. If I see something to do with body swapping or shapeshifting I instantly get horny.

I like the 1960s and 70s for women to come back, im not the biggest fan of the current style with the nose rings and werid hair thing going on. I use to like emo look I dont like it too much anymore, cant wait till current style is gone. It dont fit American women atleast theres a German gal I seen with it looks alright.

 

[HeadphonesandLSD]

I like the 1960s and 70s for women to come back, im not the biggest fan of the current style with the nose rings and werid hair thing going on. I use to like emo look I dont like it too much anymore, cant wait till current style is gone. It dont fit American women atleast theres a German gal I seen with it looks alright.

Yeah I really hate the current pop culture look they all seem to be emulating. I took my friend to an arcade in the city for a tournament in 2016. We were standing on the sidewalk smoking a left handed cigarette on a busy street near a college so a lot of young women were walking by heading to class.

I saw every color of the rainbow walk by. After they passed by and were out of ear shot I told my friend: "The worse part about the hair dye is they all think they're unique".

I can't hate.

Back in 1999 I had really long hair with a center part. I was going to a salon once every few months because I liked getting the shampoo. My Dad's friend owned the place. I let her talk me into trying some new hair dye she wanted to try.

I had stripes of bright orange and yellow in my hair for months. From the part all the way below my shoulders. Took that stuff forever to grow out. I hated all the attention I got due to it and people were laughing at. Some thought it was cool but it was stupid and I'd never do it again. I guess I was 20 years too early to be considered cool for having bright hair.

 

[fuckabout89]

Yeah I really hate the current pop culture look they all seem to be emulating. I took my friend to an arcade in the city for a tournament in 2016. We were standing on the sidewalk smoking a left handed cigarette on a busy street near a college so a lot of young women were walking by heading to class.

I saw every color of the rainbow walk by. After they passed by and were out of ear shot I told my friend: "The worse part about the hair dye is they all think they're unique".

I can't hate.

Back in 1999 I had really long hair with a center part. I was going to a salon once every few months because I liked getting the shampoo. My Dad's friend owned the place. I let her talk me into trying some new hair dye she wanted to try.

I had stripes of bright orange and yellow in my hair for months. From the part all the way below my shoulders. Took that stuff forever to grow out. I hated all the attention I got due to it and people were laughing at. Some thought it was cool but it was stupid and I'd never do it again. I guess I was 20 years too early to be considered cool for having bright hair.

Yeah a lot people gonna regret tattoos when their 70 years old . I geuss one or two isnt bad on a grandpa but faces full of them arms and legs lol.

 

[HeadphonesandLSD]

Yeah a lot people gonna regret tattoos when their 70 years old . I geuss one or two isnt bad on a grandpa but faces full of them arms and legs lol.

My Grandfather had four tattoos on his arms from his days in the army and he said he regretted getting them.

It really bothers me that the cops are openly wearing tattoos now. They look like a gang of thugs (because they are). I know a lot of them are former military now but the women they're hiring all get the full sleeves to. The only ones that I've seen that aren't like that are the state troopers. But the state troopers have always been clean cut.

I'm not totally anti-tattoo don't get me wrong. If you have one in a place where you can cover it I think they're rad. It's better when it's a secret and it has meaning. But the tats I see people getting now are just random stuff they think looks cool.

I have a friend that regrets all his tats. He lived with a tattoo artist for awhile and got a bunch of free one. He's got tats all down his arms and letters on his fingers that spell out "GAME OVER".

We were tripping on LSD one day (I think could have been something else) and I caught him staring at his arms. He got really sad and nearly cried. He said he hated those tattoos because they looked like shit and he got them when he was going through a phase of drinking too much alcohol everyday. He had to quit drinking because he started throwing up black stuff any time he tried to drink liquor. He got to the point where he couldn't even handle beer anymore. Long story short after a DUI charge and the health problems he gave it up.

Once he sobered up he realized he'd made a huge mistake because now he he'll have that ink on him until the day he dies.

 

[Chaurus]

^ It used to be that only wild folks had em.

 

[HeadphonesandLSD]

^ It used to be that only wild folks had em.

Yeah it has become a fad with all the shows on TV about them. I'm surprised it's suddenly socially acceptable. When I was really little people with tats were people no one wanted to fuck with. They were either in the military, in prison or part of a group you didn't want to anger. Now I see tats on everyone including the young girl I saw yesterday stocking the shelves at food lion.

For me it's a turn off. I don't really know why. I can't help it.

You like what you like I guess. Someone once made a comment here when I last spoke about women. Something like "no wonder you can't find a woman". Since my standards are kind of old school.

That's what I'm looking for in a partner. Someone old school that takes pride in being a woman and wants to do what women did for their families for thousand of years and just a couple of generations ago. I want a strong woman that wants to do the things women used to do. A strong woman is what keeps a house in order and working together. She's a problem solver. She runs the house because she's the queen. What she says goes. But all the while she is loving, caring, willing to listen, gives good advice and solves domestic issues before they get out of control.

I was born too late I guess. I think it's terrible that the media has pushed this lie that being a home maker/stay at home mom is a bad thing. It isn't slavery or oppression. It's the glue that holds a family unit together. Without a strong woman running your house the house can't survive.

I'm here to tell you it's very hard to find a good strong woman these days. If you find one you better grab her and hold on tight. It might be your only chance.

 

[Kellsee]

You know what my fetish is? It’s kinda selfish I know. But I can’t help it and I’ll never see yall face to face so idgaf lol sorry but ya know what I mean


I wanna be tied up…not completely naked but maybe just in my bra and panties. I want my arms tied up above my head so my blood runs down into the right places. I want my legs tied down cause I know I’m gonna be squirming but also so I cant leave. Make me stay there. Don’t let me run away. Then I want a man to tease the fuck outta me and touch me like I’ve never been touched before. For hours until I finally do

I know that sounds stupid cause it’s so selfish but for just once I’m gonna be ok with that

 

[Kellsee]

I kinda have a beautiful body so I don’t understand why a man would have any problem with that

Always in a hurry

 

[opiatekrzy]

I kinda have a beautiful body so I don’t understand why a man would have any problem with that

Always in a hurry

There's nothing better then enjoying a woman's body and presence during sex and prolonging orgasm. Honestly that's the worst part of chemsex ; busting a nut - because the ecstasy and intense euphoria of foreplay comes to an end. A real man doesnt hurry fast it's all about the journey

 

[BadBoy377]

The surprising thing is I'm not alone at all. There are millions of porn videos, video games, novels, comics, and manga that cater to this fetish. From time to time I'll get the urge to interact with that content and it usually results in an all day wank session.

Are there substances fueling these all day wank sessions?

No judgement, just curious?

 

[opiatekrzy]

Are there substances these all day wank sessions?

No judgement, just curious?

I wish I still had the sexual desire to dedicate several hours on jerking off just naturally without any drugs. I'm 40 yrs old and when I'm sober I don't jerk off I can go on average three months until I finally manage to just jerk off. This is during times I wasnt sexually active. At least in my 20s I would jerk off every few days. From age 14 till now at 40 I been sexually active except two years. Sorry for rambling I took a break from meth and finally did some today

 

[BadBoy377]

Maybe you can guess from my username....

Not really. But I'm a bit ignorant. Give us (me) a clue?

 

[BadBoy377]

I wish I still had the sexual desire to dedicate several hours on jerking off just naturally without any drugs. I'm 40 yrs old and when I'm sober I don't jerk off I can go on average three months until I finally manage to just jerk off. This is during times I wasnt sexually active. At least in my 20s I would jerk off every few days. From age 14 till now at 40 I been sexually active except two years. Sorry for rambling I took a break from meth and finally did some today

You're gonna have to try a bit harder here if you think that counts as a ramble, friend. Yay, meth.

 

[opiatekrzy]

You're gonna have to try a bit harder here if you think that counts as a ramble, friend. Yay, meth.

Lol!! I'm casually buzzed trust me you don't want to see one of my novels tweaking

 

[Kellsee]

There's nothing better then enjoying a woman's body and presence during sex and prolonging orgasm. Honestly that's the worst part of chemsex ; busting a nut - because the ecstasy and intense euphoria of foreplay comes to an end. A real man doesnt hurry fast it's all about the journey

Yeah I can’t get into sex just for the sex….if that makes sense.
I don’t even know what I’m capable of sexually. I don’t think I’m ever gonna find out cause it would take someone that I’m never gonna find. I’ll probably never get to have sex again lol who cares. Fml

 

[opiatekrzy]

Yeah I can’t get into sex just for the sex….if that makes sense.
I don’t even know what I’m capable of sexually. I don’t think I’m ever gonna find out cause it would take someone that I’m never gonna find. I’ll probably never get to have sex again lol who cares. Fml

I was able to find connection with my two baby mothers when it came to sex. My first baby mother was beyond words can explain but my second baby mom it definitely was lacking compared to the first relationship.all in for both partners I depended on amphetamines.
I had sex with a few more short term partners and in all reality it was mediocre at best even with stimulants. I lost all hope that I'll find a partner that I can be compatible with for mind blowing sex. It's fair to say sex isn't even enjoyable anymore for me because I keep remembering the honey moon periods from before. I often wonder if I'll ever find that special someone in life or soul mate. I would put all stimulants down just for that possiblity. So yeah I can definitely relate to what you are saying.

 

[opiatekrzy]

I was able to find connection with my two baby mothers when it came to sex. My first baby mother was beyond words can explain but my second baby mom it definitely was lacking compared to the first relationship.all in for both partners I depended on amphetamines.
I had sex with a few more short term partners and in all reality it was mediocre at best even with stimulants. I lost all hope that I'll find a partner that I can be compatible with for mind blowing sex. It's fair to say sex isn't even enjoyable anymore for me because I keep remembering the honey moon periods from before. I often wonder if I'll ever find that special someone in life or soul mate. I would put all stimulants down just for that possiblity. So yeah I can definitely relate to what you are saying.

Sorry for bumping. I did meth a little while ago after taking a seven day break so I feel like rambling. I also agree I feel like I'll never have sex again. Lately it's been so hard just to find a girl to give me the time of day. These past two years single has been hard. I miss companionship so much

 

[Kellsee]

I would put all stimulants down just for that possiblity.

That’s a bold claim to make. I couldn’t put opiates down for my children so I know I couldn’t put them down for a partner.

Sometimes I think it comes down to our expectations. Anytime we are depending on something or someone outside of us to make us happy or feel good I think we’re creating limitations that will eventually disappoint us. I think I’m gonna start training myself to be completely content without anything or anyone. I may start fasting

Chemistry plays a huge part in how good the sex is. When someone refers to a sex partner as a dead fuck I’m always wondering what that actually says about them cause I’d probably be a dead fuck too to someone I didnt really want to be fucking me.

Lately I’ve been trying to figure out what I like and don’t like cause if I ever commit to someone again that mofo is gonna be schooled in what it takes to make me feel good lol of course I’m willing to reciprocate and do the same for them. But I think that being willing to invest that energy and effort is the game changer

 

[opiatekrzy]

What I was trying to say was I would put down chemsex just to find my soul mate, because even chemsex with other females wasnt special like it used to be with the two females I experienced it with .Who referred to a sex partner as a dead fuck? I'm having trouble trying to understand what your saying.