I’m bluelight’s resident porn star- ask me anything

[asvarohn]

@SoCalShordie Are there a lot of bi/lesbian porn stars, or are most of the cis women in porn heterosexual?

i'm not sure i get behind the logic of this question, so i'm going to ask something similar, but in my words:
in lesbian porn, are there many heterosexual women who just play the part, or are most true lesbians/bi?
and do some lesbian porn stars play the part of a heterosexual woman? i would think this is less common.

 

[SoCalShordie]

@SoCalShordie Are there a lot of bi/lesbian porn stars, or are most of the cis women in porn heterosexual?

Most of the girls are bi, myself included. A few girls that are strictly dickly lol and a couple of lesbians. Even a gold star lesbian, Lily Cade.

 

[SoCalShordie]

i'm not sure i get behind the logic of this question, so i'm going to ask something similar, but in my words:
in lesbian porn, are there many heterosexual women who just play the part, or are most true lesbians/bi?
and do some lesbian porn stars play the part of a heterosexual woman? i would think this is less common.

Most of the women I worked with are truly bisexual and loved being with other women, including myself, always a total bummer though when a girl clearly doesn’t like girls and is just acting for a check

 

[SoCalShordie]

i'm not sure i get behind the logic of this question, so i'm going to ask something similar, but in my words:
in lesbian porn, are there many heterosexual women who just play the part, or are most true lesbians/bi?
and do some lesbian porn stars play the part of a heterosexual woman? i would think this is less common.

My Favorite Girls I Worked With Who Are NOT Gay For Pay —

Remy LaCroix
Adriana Chechik
Chloe Lynn
Bailey Blue aka Dahlia Sky

Omg sorry I just drew a total blank you guys lol I had a drink tonight and I’m so tired from these lil monsters that I completely had a brain cell die just now

 

[asvarohn]

gay for pay sounds like it.
in your case, i guess it's pay for fun? though i think it's still a job and probably a hard one, too.
is there also straight for pay?
like gays (males or females) who do the straight porn?

 

[SoCalShordie]

gay for pay sounds like it.
in your case, i guess it's pay for fun? though i think it's still a job and probably a hard one, too.
is there also straight for pay?
like gays (males or females) who do the straight porn?

Yes, absolutely! Tons of guys who are straight for pay lol

 

[ageingpartyfiend]

Yes, absolutely! Tons of guys who are straight for pay lol

am surprised - how do they manage to get/keep turned on if they are truly gay? must be bi surely?

 

[chippermonk]

am surprised - how do they manage to get/keep turned on if they are truly gay? must be bi surely?

Behind every male performer is a good fluffer just outside of camera range

 

[ageingpartyfiend]

Behind every male performer is a good fluffer just outside of camera range

they'd have to be real good...

 

[arrall]

am surprised - how do they manage to get/keep turned on if they are truly gay? must be bi surely?

this.
I've thought about doing sex work or porn as a top but I couldn't see myself being able to stay hard with a man as a lesbian (trans women), even with Viagra/Cialis.
So all the money will have to be made w women or outside of full-service for me.

 

[asvarohn]

I couldn't see myself being able to stay hard with a man as a lesbian (trans women), even with Viagra/Cialis.

this is confusing (being diplomatic here) on so many levels

 

[JahBeeuS]

this.
I've thought about doing sex work or porn as a top but I couldn't see myself being able to stay hard with a man as a lesbian (trans women), even with Viagra/Cialis.
So all the money will have to be made w women or outside of full-service for me.

There are female tops?

Isn't that just pegging?

@SoCalShordie - you ever been a top?

 

[Robi]

There are female tops?

Isn't that just pegging?

@SoCalShordie - you ever been a top?

Oh there's female tops alright

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

I started that way and then started shooting up. Funny story, I was watching the Ray Charles movie in my apartment alone one afternoon and I was like “well shit, if a blind man can shoot up with no issues I bet I can too. Let’s give it a try.”

LOL
That's the attitude I like to see.

Also, I know this is uncommon, but I don’t go to NA meetings

I am with you 100% here too, I fucking HATE NA meetings, a sad bunch of old timers who have nothing to do but moan about how bad it was when they were on the junk, I walked out of there in pure disgust.

They see all "drugs" the same, how can someone see LSD, 2-CB or N,N DMT the same as Crack or Heroin? It's beyond my Logic to say the least.

I always ask this to American people I like, you ever been to the Appalachia? I am truly obsessed with that place, you know how most American people are crazy about our Royal Family & all that stuff well I am that way for the Appalachia.
"But I must leave old North Carolina
I must leave you all alone,
I'm going across that Blue Ridge mountain
East Kentucky will be my home.
When I was lost out on the mountain
The wild dove mourning in the air,
I missed that gal from North Carolina
With dark brown eyes and coal black hair.
When I'm sleeping I dream about her
When I'm awake I see no rest,
Every moment seems like an hour
And many a tear I've shed o'r her."


You may have Competition here @mal3volent as my #1 BL member

 

[Dr. John Thackery]

I do plan on telling them, when they’re old enough, about my drug addiction and homelessness. I want them to learn from me, not to be like me.

yea it doesn’t work like that with drug addicts. if we could learn from others mistakes, nobody would become addicts. this is a lesson you only learn first hand, especially if you’re predisposed to being an addict.

even if your kids evade addiction they are 100% guaranteed sickness suffering amd experiencing dying. ….nobody avoids the horrors that being a living mortal being brings. plus the world is overcrowded 4x past its carrying capacity and it will be mass death when the sustainability bubble bursts. i could never have it on my conscience that sentenced someone to these horrors.

do you still use anything at all?

is dad around??

 

[SoCalShordie]

yea it doesn’t work like that with drug addicts. if we could learn from others mistakes, nobody would become addicts. this is a lesson you only learn first hand, especially if you’re predisposed to being an addict.

even if your kids evade addiction they are 100% guaranteed sickness suffering amd experiencing dying. ….nobody avoids the horrors that being a living mortal being brings. plus the world is overcrowded 4x past its carrying capacity and it will be mass death when the sustainability bubble bursts. i could never have it on my conscience that sentenced someone to these horrors.

do you still use anything at all?

is dad around??

No, I don’t use anything anymore. I do have an occasional drink once my kids are asleep. Yes, the father of my children and I married. Not really understanding whatever you said before that.

 

[SoCalShordie]

yea it doesn’t work like that with drug addicts. if we could learn from others mistakes, nobody would become addicts. this is a lesson you only learn first hand, especially if you’re predisposed to being an addict.

even if your kids evade addiction they are 100% guaranteed sickness suffering amd experiencing dying. ….nobody avoids the horrors that being a living mortal being brings. plus the world is overcrowded 4x past its carrying capacity and it will be mass death when the sustainability bubble bursts. i could never have it on my conscience that sentenced someone to these horrors.

do you still use anything at all?

is dad around??

Btw I’m a huge fan of yours, doctor. Was just thinking about The Knick earlier today. How strange.

 

[SoCalShordie]

LOL
That's the attitude I like to see.

I am with you 100% here too, I fucking HATE NA meetings, a sad bunch of old timers who have nothing to do but moan about how bad it was when they were on the junk, I walked out of there in pure disgust.

They see all "drugs" the same, how can someone see LSD, 2-CB or N,N DMT the same as Crack or Heroin? It's beyond my Logic to say the least.

I always ask this to American people I like, you ever been to the Appalachia? I am truly obsessed with that place, you know how most American people are crazy about our Royal Family & all that stuff well I am that way for the Appalachia.
"But I must leave old North Carolina
I must leave you all alone,
I'm going across that Blue Ridge mountain
East Kentucky will be my home.
When I was lost out on the mountain
The wild dove mourning in the air,
I missed that gal from North Carolina
With dark brown eyes and coal black hair.
When I'm sleeping I dream about her
When I'm awake I see no rest,
Every moment seems like an hour
And many a tear I've shed o'r her."


You may have Competition here @mal3volent as my #1 BL member

I was raised by my grandmother who is from Kentucky lol

 

[SoCalShordie]

Behind every male performer is a good fluffer just outside of camera range

Fluffers aren’t actually a thing lol

 

[Dr. John Thackery]

No, I don’t use anything anymore. I do have an occasional drink once my kids are asleep. Yes, the father of my children and I married. Not really understanding whatever you said before that.

you can ignore the rant it’s efilist ranting.

that’s great about quitting dope and having the whole family together (dad). you probably already discussed it but what were you using in porn and what drugs are most popular in the industry?