I think they could just be narcissistic. I'm sure there's a specific term for it.
Like, "I'm too good for you". Come play chase.
A lot of ghosting is done by people, highest proportion females.
With a Conduct Disorder called Passive Aggressive Conduct Disorder.
Which has its origin in the years after your born wit a parent / s.
That cause the disorder by not reacting to the baby s expression s of anger,
in a healthy way. And often carrying the same disorder as the kid will develop.
It is the same disorder that cause Men to hit their Wive.
But the therapy developed for men showing physical Passive Aggressive behaviour.
Has a high percentage rate, but doesn t work when given to a female.
Which till last time i checked there was no cure as of then.
The effect s are felt mostly psychological, and can give a person complex -PTSD.
Rumoured to be worse the PTSD. The disorder shows itself by the person who hasn t learned to healthful show anger. But instead reside to Physical, Psychological and Emotional Abuse. en more often get violent, females often try this too.
But physically unmatched use Psychological: Gas lighting, a very creepy movie on the subject. And one of many skills the abuser uses to hurt and manipulate with loads of mind-fuck. Psychological aggression, the song "When a men loves a Woman - Percy Sledge" comes to mind. Good description how you might end up if you step in their trap.
And Emotional abuse, so using affection,the concept s love/ marriage/ kids as weapons. And sexual deprivation when necessary, withholding affection.
Knew about Physical/ Sexual Abuse, that was not done. But Gaslighting in a relation ship. That was never talked about.
Then again this and other conduct disorders where taken from the DSM.
So fall outside the Psyche-logic Metal Healthcare institute, they not trained to see these anymore. Except physical abuse and rape. Sad but i would trust my gut.
Basically my advise, not happening a 2-nd time this life yo me. As its so sneaky,
and uspoken off. I got lured in without questioning myself or listening to my belly.
I got married too it with as bonus 2 kids. That she took from me using 2 false notification s to the cops. 1 that i stalked her; meaning in Law- following her at night. Threat s to kill her. Via media seek contact and irritate her.
And the 1 inch punch to finish of: DUI with my Kids on board. I have no car, no licence, no intent. And like i mentioned notification s are not checked for fact s.
A very imo bizarre move to your kid s as Mom, as you literally block there Dad out of the picture. Without having a Children/ Relation Judge involved.
Damaging for my Kid s, and leaving helpless on the other side.
The only one according to Law who is allowed to split kid s of one or both their parent s. Dangerous woman, always very intriguing at first sight but superficial within.
Easily covered with bad youth other psyche logical and/ or physical complaint s.
To keep you distracted from reality. Till you after 5 years start believing it too.
Beautiful and dangerous. Damaged from day 1 and un-repairable and hardly unrecognised till now. Bail out if in doubt my advice or thread carefully.
