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How can i kill my sex drive for 14 plus days

bluecollartweeker

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I wasmt sure of this should be in S&R or here, sorry if its out of place mods.

My girlfriend is going to be away for two weeks, im a horny peice of shit, id never cheat on her, but sexual frusteration has consistantly made me argumentative and i self harm more at times compulsively.
I picked up 200 8mg codeine and used 100 of them to make a refined CWE that i plan ok usimg for the next dew days, ive used opioids in the past but luckily i have a low tollerence now. This should help breifly, should the next step be touring the local pharmascene for more BTC dope, or would loperamide kill libido as it is a (peripherally selective) opioid?
Im out of meth but might score crack next week and i know i wouldnt stop hitting that till its gone. I have half a gram of ketamine but i promised a friend a the other half from gram and cant afford more. What are some ways i can become temporarily impotent
 
It's a technique that is very hidden now a days. It's called self restraint. Sometime it's called self discipline.

Mostly founded by those who claim that one can actually control one's urges without chemical or physical assistance.

Focus on something else for two weeks. Not only is it possible but a useful tool in one's personal life skills.

Not only is it useful, it is absolutely free ...
 
It's a technique that is very hidden now a days. It's called self restraint. Sometime it's called self discipline.

Mostly founded by those who claim that one can actually control one's urges without chemical or physical assistance.

Focus on something else for two weeks. Not only is it possible but a useful tool in one's personal life skills.

Not only is it useful, it is absolutely free ...
I must clarify its less about sex and more about being alone in a bed at night, i hate myself and need to be touched to prove im not scum. I dont masterbate unless im absolutely blasted off bath salts because my body is like an emaciated charicature of what used to be a punk ass skid
 
I must clarify its less about sex and more about being alone in a bed at night, i hate myself and need to be touched to prove im not scum. I dont masterbate unless im absolutely blasted off bath salts because my body is like an emaciated charicature of what used to be a punk ass skid
I should clarify that if one hates oneself (per your post) then one just might be better off focusing on why you hate yourself rather than "sex" ... No one is perfect, but everyone deserves love

Up to you...

I have nothing to gain whichever way you decide to proceed. 👍
 
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Since you posted this question on a drugs forum, I'd say that ime opiates, benzos, psychedelics, and Soma all reduce sex drive and functionality to varying extents.

But it's a bad idea to use things like the above just for that purpose, imho.

If sexual frustration becomes a major issue, I'd try to find some way to overcome any issues with masturbation, and just simply knock one off. I'd look on it like any other basic bodily function really. It doesnt need to come with any baggage. You could quite easily avoid looking at your body if that's the issue.

It's by far the easiest, most obvious, least harmful solution to the problem, to help you get through the 2 weeks your g/f is away.

Otherwise you might be looking at cheating on your partner, either by hooking up with someone or paying for the service, which would definitely exarcebate your self hatred issues.
 
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I wasmt sure of this should be in S&R or here, sorry if its out of place mods.

My girlfriend is going to be away for two weeks, im a horny peice of shit, id never cheat on her, but sexual frusteration has consistantly made me argumentative and i self harm more at times compulsively.
I picked up 200 8mg codeine and used 100 of them to make a refined CWE that i plan ok usimg for the next dew days, ive used opioids in the past but luckily i have a low tollerence now. This should help breifly, should the next step be touring the local pharmascene for more BTC dope, or would loperamide kill libido as it is a (peripherally selective) opioid?
Im out of meth but might score crack next week and i know i wouldnt stop hitting that till its gone. I have half a gram of ketamine but i promised a friend a the other half from gram and cant afford more. What are some ways i can become temporarily impotent
Could you not just masturbate a lot?
 
Yeah I wouldn't try to do this with drugs, although some drugs do kill sex drive like opioids or whatever, you could end up with a far bigger problem.

I would take the issue to therapy. Coming from someone who has some of these same issues, and definitely DID fuck around on multiple partners because of lack of self control and good judgement, you definitely want to get to the root of that issue before you inadvertently blow up your life like I did.
 
I would agree that you should try therapy first, or other methods but I wanted to share this as well just for general info.

It should like you have some self esteem issues, do you know what these might stem from? You don't have to share here if you don't want, just something to think about

 
Since you posted this question on a drugs forum, I'd say that ime opiates, benzos, psychedelics, and Soma all reduce sex drive to varying extents.

But it's a bad idea to use things like the above just for that purpose, imho.

If sexual frustration becomes a major issue, I'd try to find some way to overcome any issues with masturbation, and just simply knock one off. I'd look on it like any other basic bodily function really. It doesnt need to come with any baggage. You could quite easily avoid looking at your body if that's the issue.

It's by far the easiest, most obvious, least harmful solution to the problem, to help you get through the 2 weeks your g/f is away.

Otherwise you might be looking at cheating on your partner, either by hooking up with someone or paying for the service, which would definitely exarcebate your self hatred issues.
Benzos actually get me devious as shit, 20mg desalkylgidazepam had me cumming in bathroom stalls multiple times over a bike tour, and offending my lover by asking for a mmf threesome, she was not happy.
Soma and codeine is the route ill be taking, maybe ill add sertraline duloxetine or quitiepine to help aswell. Thanks for listening to my question and actually telling me what i asked for, drugs are the tool, thanks man
 
I would agree that you should try therapy first, or other methods but I wanted to share this as well just for general info.

It should like you have some self esteem issues, do you know what these might stem from? You don't have to share here if you don't want, just something to think about

My self harm scars on my thighs and arms are hard to ignore, and im ashamed of my fetish (i crossdress and im into semi public risky stuff, makes me so ashamed after i cum)
My ex shamed me for my fetished and made certain to make me beleive i was pathetic and ugly, i trusted then for 6 years and then they cheated on me and the pain nearly lead me to suicide
 
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