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Drugs or women

Ismene2 said:
If you met a woman who demanded you give up drugs what would do?
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My initial response would be to tell her to fuck off. But in reality, it all comes down to how fit and dirty she is. ;)

I still wouldn't give up drugs though. In fact, I'd take even more just to spite the bitch 😀


To me, demanding that somebody should give up drugs is just as unreasonable as demanding that somebody should take drugs.

If you want to change the person you're with, you shouldn't be with that person...
 
My UK gf demanded I gave up drugs after her 1st acid trip went wrong.. problem I'm on drugs since 13 her only for 2 years. She was a nympho...so problems. I agree with fubz
 
endlessnameless said:
I wouldn't enter into a serious relationship with a woman while using drugs. I've done it before without her knowledge and it was an absoloute nightmare trying to hide my very physical addiction to Heroin. From not being able to score on the days we were supposed to meet up for dinner and drinks and either showing up late extremely ill and trying to hide it, or having to cancel at the last minute because none of my connects were picking up and I'd be in the throes of withdrawal. It made me look like I didnt care when truthfully I did - but thats something I'd never ever do again.

I'd get sober first, as I am so presently, and then go out and meet a woman. Its extremely difficult to hold down a relationship while in active addiction and the stress of it/having to all to often lie in an effort to hide it is utter hell - no way would I inflict that on her or myself ever again.
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Absolute spot on, bro.
I had a pretty similar experience with my last serious relationship, it was awful trying to balance out WORK, DOPE, MY EX. My Hustler MODE was ON 24/7, no exceptions. I fucked up so much, but hey we learn from our mistakes.
I wouldn't put another woman through that fucking ordeal again.
 
That's like asking food or water.

And contrary to what many here are claiming I think if you're a problematic drug user it helps to have a non druggy partner.

That doesn't mean I haven't fucked every relationship I've had dude to drugs or drug related mental health episodes.
 
The question is an impossible conundrum, based entirely on subjective experience of life on a whole, which nobody could ever possibly know the true answer to.

Borderline paradox.

Although I think the obvious answer would be human connection is far for fulfilling than drugs could ever be. We did not evolve from drug use. Very recent phenomenon in human history.
 
F.U.B.A.R. said:
My initial response would be to tell her to fuck off. But in reality, it all comes down to how fit and dirty she is. ;)

I still wouldn't give up drugs though. In fact, I'd take even more just to spite the bitch 😀
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Some great answers on here so far, some serious, some funny. This is my favourite so far though! 🤣

Could turn it into one of those rodeo situations where you're at it doggy and grab her pigtails but instead of saying your ass is fat or I fucked your sister you shout something like I've had a quarter gram of meth today already! And see how long you last...

Full disclosure, I like girls with fat asses and pigtails. Not so into meth anymore these days, though.

Or girl wakes up furious and instead of did you just cum on my ass while I was sleeping? It's did you just do a line off my ass while I was sleeping?!?!
 
Ismene2 said:
If you met a woman who demanded you give up drugs what would do? What comes first (or at least gets you to the vinegar strokes) drugs or women?

Thank you for sucking me off with your arse.
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Tell her to fuck off. Demands get you nowhere. Drugs 1000000%. Besides, YOU try taking epic quantities or opioids and tranquilisers and see if you still Gove a shit about sex.
Unless she agree to sell it for fent :D
 
In my case it's the drug or the man. I chose my partner because he's the best thing to ever happen to me and I seriously want us to grow old and grey together.

And yes he did give me an ultimatum. And I'd usually tell anyone doing that to fuck right the fuck off. The thing though is that I knew early on drug use (of anything apart from alcohol or weed) was an absolute deal-breaker for him, and he'd never consider entering a serious relationship with a user.

I kept my mouth shut and allowed him to fall in love with me 'cause I already had my heart set on him, and only fessed up some four years later when he was starting to suspect and it sorta became undeniable. So basically I cheated my way into the relationship and he felt justifiably betrayed.

There followed a year and a half of desperate arguments and bargaining during which we nearly broke up several times. I majorly fucked up by promising I wasn't gonna use on one particular occasion, and then used. He had been *just* about willing to say 'ok once on weekends' despite how much he hated the very idea, but that breach of a trust he'd very reluctantly extended put paid to that. He had been willing to take me at my word, and I haven't even got the excuse of being desperate at the time - I was no longer dependent, I just fancied some. Whatever tolerance he might have had towards 'junkies' I definitely squandered.
For context, he lives in a place where he sees first hand the work of drug cartels and where a lot of druggies rob people who are already poor, so I don't exactly fault him for his attitude.

... hardest choice of my life and I basically dream of needles at night. I fucking love heroin. But heroin can't love me back.
 
haha not a chance. Can join me, not moan or go. My ex when they caught me with a pipe in the garage watching porn she werent happy.
 
In the situation outlined in the OP, probably drugs as I really don’t like the idea of such an “ultimatum” & we (me and this hypothetical woman) probably wouldn’t be compatible anyway

But, in the most general sense, “drugs v women”, definitely the latter as an actual real connection with another human being gives one a much deeper, more meaningful and fulfilling connection than the fleeting pleasure of drugs
 
Burnt Offerings said:
In the situation outlined in the OP, probably drugs as I really don’t like the idea of such an “ultimatum” & we (me and this hypothetical woman) probably wouldn’t be compatible anyway

But, in the most general sense, “drugs v women”, definitely the latter as an actual real connection with another human being gives one a much deeper, more meaningful and fulfilling connection than the fleeting pleasure of drugs
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im not sure if the humans i know suck, or i have more and better drugs than you
 
Drugs. Why would I want to spend forever (or any amount of time) with somebody who hates something I love. Besides, that kind of arbitrary "drugs are bad" attitude suggests that they would be equally closed minded in other aspects of their life. Not to mention if they happened to consume legal drugs like alcohol or caffeine while condemning my choice of poison the cognitive dissonance would drive me mad.

No bueno.
 
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