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Things that turn you off

Gormur

Gormur

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I'll start with the physical, or superficial if that's the term you prefer. I'm straight and I prefer women who don't have tattoos or cosmetic surgery such as facial alterations and breast implants. I don't like the way these things look and prefer a natural look. I don't know, when I see tattoos I automatically think that person is expressing Samoan culture. If it's a guy though I typically ignore whatever it is since I'm not trying to figure out why they have body art or whatever else. I also don't like girls piercing their ears because of the holes and earrings are just ugly to me, but I can overlook that since so many of them have pierced their ears, or whatever else I suppose

Non-superficial stuff would be a person who's flaky and rude, like they don't apologize for being unorganized but they get mad instead. I can't handle that. I also like people who don't text because I hate it, but I know a lot of people like to text shit even if it's not important. I just like somebody who respects what I like without being needy. I like a good listener so if the other person isn't going to listen to me and decides to forget everything I tell them then I'll be their friend but nothing more. I think this last part is why I'm not interested in relationships. People don't want to listen unless they have something to say or they want something from me that's not related to love and I don't like that
 
I too don't like women with tattoos.

As for other things, im fairly tolerant of most personalities. I'd say a big turn off for me is comparing me to your ex's, good or bad.
 
I dont like prominent tats, one or two subtle ones on specific locations can be a huge turn on...

I also dont like piercings except for ears and belly button...

I also like girls to be au naturel; not too much make up, tho I really want a girl to have long nails in a pretty color, no plastic chirurgy neither...

I cant stand rude or vulgar girls, also stupidity is a turn off as well as being prude...

Bad hygiene or not really very well self care are huge turn offs... Clothes can be a turn off as well as also be a huge turn on...

Bad breath turns me off as well as no manners, especially eating manners...

A not girly enough voice is also a huge turn off for me...

Feet can be a really huge turn off, I very rarely can appreciate feet so also shoes in which toes are visible mostly turn me off...

Dreadlocks turn me off as well as girls with too short hair, I especially dislike shaven hair for a girl (also for a guy I find this not likeable, I strongly associate shaven hair with a macho attitude and arrogance...).

Pubic hair is a huge turn off...

Im going to stop now, but Im sure there are more turn offs for me personally.
 
Selfishness, hurry, lack of communication, lack of empathy, lack of horniness and/or not interested of me for myself, rejection for too many times.
 
Stupid people, and like super polite people. Jealousy, anyone that has an inflated ego. Liars, alcoholics, drama queens.

Christians + although, they are also a delicacy.

STDs - did you know gonorrhea, chlamydia cases are up 25% from two years ago. Gross
 
Stupidity..after a while sometimes not long at all you can tell when someone has no life experience or intelligence at all about anything it's just too much.
 
Guys who talk too much are a REAL turn off. Dreadlocks and beards are absolutely disgusting. I've kissed exactly one dude with a beard and it reminded me of the one time I went down a girl. 🤢 Bad hygiene, face tats, guys who've actually named their cock (and yes, I've met TWO of them!), guys who brag about how good they fuck but can't get it up, and hardcore vegans. Oh, and guys with super huge gauges in their ears.
 
Illyria99 said:
Guys who talk too much are a REAL turn off. Dreadlocks and beards are absolutely disgusting. I've kissed exactly one dude with a beard and it reminded me of the one time I went down a girl. 🤢 Bad hygiene, face tats, guys who've actually named their cock (and yes, I've met TWO of them!), guys who brag about how good they fuck but can't get it up, and hardcore vegans. Oh, and guys with super huge gauges in their ears.
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Actually this ∆∆∆ those are all really good turn offs. .. although I don't mind trimmed beard , but not way can I get down with a grizzly Adams mf.
 
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