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How would you react if your boyfriend wanted to cross dress during sex?

Would you fuck these transvestites?





Since you are from Brasil what are the TV/CD, and TS/TG hookers like there? I have heard of the Brasilian shemales or ladyboys, but are there the opposite and women who imitate men or claim to be bisexual but not trans or butch lesbians?


In Brazil, not only when it comes to shemales, it is possible to find everything, from exotic animals to criminals, from monstruosities to beauties. To me, I like young shemales, from 18 to 25, they are my favorite, but now I am getting too old to be attractive under their eyes
 
In Brazil, not only when it comes to shemales, it is possible to find everything, from exotic animals to criminals, from monstruosities to beauties. To me, I like young shemales, from 18 to 25, they are my favorite, but now I am getting too old to be attractive under their eyes
Is the novel Cidade de Deus by Paulo Lins accurate about the favelas or slums of Rio in the 1970s and early 1980s?

I did not understand the Brasilian-African religion Candomblé that reminded me of Santeria with the orixás, possession, rapture, etc. Do you know anyone who practises it or who was possessed or an avatar for the spirits in a ceremony?

How much cocaine was Marcos Valle on when this music video was filmed, and did he have sex with most of the models in the video?

 
Is the novel Cidade de Deus by Paulo Lins accurate about the favelas or slums of Rio in the 1970s and early 1980s?

I did not understand the Brasilian-African religion Candomblé that reminded me of Santeria with the orixás, possession, rapture, etc. Do you know anyone who practises it or who was possessed or an avatar for the spirits in a ceremony?

How much cocaine was Marcos Valle on when this music video was filmed, and did he have sex with most of the models in the video?



This video is an accurate description of Rio's lifestyle in early 80s. Cocaine, models, for those who have money, of course.

Candomblé has its origin from the slaves, it was a way by which the slaves were manifesting their African-inspired culture.
 
This video is an accurate description of Rio's lifestyle in early 80s. Cocaine, models, for those who have money, of course.

Candomblé has its origin from the slaves, it was a way by which the slaves were manifesting their African-inspired culture.
Is the religion of Santo Daime with Ayahuasca popular in Brasil or is it more for people who were born into this religion/culture?

I never took Ayahuasca or DMT as the people I know who took it wound up having bad trips, thought they were going insane or dying on it, or some got really, really into it and thought what they saw or experienced while tripping was more real than reality, others got involved in sketchy cults in Peru, and one person claimed he would see the entities they saw on Ayahuasca when they were not on it or any drugs at all.

This is the video where Marcos looks like he was on an all day cocaine binge, especially at the end on the beach.

Yes the song is about exercise, running, bronzing in the sun, cardiovascular exercise, sweating, weightlifting/body building and flexing like Charles Atlas or a narcisscistic muscle queen, but this was back when cocaine was thought to be harmless, and it was still a status symbol of having money or being upper class.

 
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Did you ever inhale the drug this song is about? If so what were the effects of it like?



I never inhaled Amyl/Butyl or poppers, or Ethyl chloride but friends of mine did in dance clubs.

I did inhale nitrous-oxide 5-6 times, on its own, while stoned on pot, and once on Psilocybin mushrooms after smoking pot and having funny visuals.
 
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I’d be pretty pissed of my boyfriend wasn’t wearing a dress in bed. At least to start with. It would likely really make me doubt my heterosexuality if they weren’t.
 
Did you ever inhale the drug this song is about? If so what were the effects of it like?



I never inhaled Amyl/Butyl or poppers, or Ethyl chloride but friends of mine did in dance clubs.

I did inhale nitrous-oxide 5-6 times, on its own, while stoned on pot, and once on Psilocybin mushrooms after smoking pot and having funny visuals.




Rita Lee was the vocalist of Mutantes, one of the most psychedelic Brazilian bands. It is worth checking.

Man, actually Televisão = TV, this song is about the alienation caused by TV

Ayahuasca is quite common in Brazil, the Santo Daime churches are everywhere and DMT is easily obtained since it is legal.

I have taken "lança perfume" it is a mixture of ether and chloroform, quite toxic, In this context of drugs I would rather glue for shoes.
 
Do people ever have bad trips on the Ayahuasca/DMT? Did you inhale this type of glue?


Yeah man glue (I dont know the name of the molecule nevertheless) was very fashionable when I was an adolescent beginning my journey into the drug lifestyle.

As all hallucinogenics, DMT/ayahuasca is not different, there is a high risk of bad trips.
 
Yeah man glue (I dont know the name of the molecule nevertheless) was very fashionable when I was an adolescent beginning my journey into the drug lifestyle.

As all hallucinogenics, DMT/ayahuasca is not different, there is a high risk of bad trips.
So what happened when you inhaled the glue?

I know people who go to Peru or to Brasil to take Ayahuasca. They are not Peruvian or Brasilian, and they get very into the Ayahuasca cults, certain shamans, and they believe that what they see, and experience on Ayahuasca/DMT is more real than actual reality. One person I know claimed they see or experiences Ayahuasca/DMT entities while not on the drugs. How do Brasilians and Peruvians who take Ayahuasca as part of their religion/culture view these Ayahuasca drug tourists?

I never took Ayahuasca or DMT as it seems super intense, the vomiting from Ayahuasca is not anything I would enjoy, and I am not native Peruvian or Brasilian. Also when I was tripping and using drugs LSD, mushrooms, pot/hashish were all just fine and easily available. I also read about Isabel Allende taking it and having a bad trip.
 
I definitely think that there are girls out there that are okay with cross dressing ranging from simple tollerance to adoration or even arousal. You're even more in the green if it's mostly just a bedroom/fetish thing rather than a lifestyle choice.
My ex had mixed feelings about my desire to wear women's cloths. At first she encouraged it but sometimes she would use it as a source to pry on when she needed an emotional punching bag. She stopped doing this for the most part, but she also began telling me that "no girl"(at least not "hot" girls..) will tolerate my love for feeling feminine.
I don't really think this is true but I am beginning to realise it will be more difficult since I don't really appeal to the women that want big hairy masculine alpha males.
I like to wear form fitting pants even when I'm out in public. I have nice legs/bum/hips and I like to express it. I often times use a gaff to tuck so that I can wear pretty panties without worrying about my dick flopping out. (Which can be quite annoying and frequent since I'm rather well endowed considering my build/ personality)
Funny how life changes.

I wrote in this thread 6 years ago and I'm a completely different person now.

I never crossdress any more and part of me wishes I didn't for mental and physical health reasons.
I'm much more secure with my masculinity now and I even have a sexy beard and I feel more attractive than ever (though a lot of that has to do with my self confidence/esteem being much better these days than past)
 
Funny how life changes.

I wrote in this thread 6 years ago and I'm a completely different person now.

I never crossdress any more and part of me wishes I didn't for mental and physical health reasons.
I'm much more secure with my masculinity now and I even have a sexy beard and I feel more attractive than ever (though a lot of that has to do with my self confidence/esteem being much better these days than past)
Why do you wish you had never cross dressed? Did you think that cross dressing, being a drag queen, or female impersonator was going to make you transsexual/transgender? What sort of physical and mental health issues arose because of you cross dressing?

I am just wondering and curious, as I have met and know bisexual and gay men who cross dress, who are part time drag queens, and some who are female impersonators and they do not have physical health or mental health related issues due to cross dressing, being a man imitating a woman, being a drag queen, etc. Well except for makeup allergies, and their shaved/waxed body hair growing back in and itching.

Pay attention to the last part of this interview with The Steve Lady.
 
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Why do you wish you had never cross dressed? Did you think that cross dressing, being a drag queen, or female impersonator was going to make you transsexual/transgender? What sort of physical and mental health issues arose because of you cross dressing?

I am just wondering and curious, as I have met and know bisexual and gay men who cross dress, who are part time drag queens, and some who are female impersonators and they do not have physical health or mental health related issues due to cross dressing, being a man imitating a woman, being a drag queen, etc. Well except for makeup allergies, and their shaved/waxed body hair growing back in and itching.

Pay attention to the last part of this interview with The Steve Lady.

It's actually a long story that deserves more than a summary and I can't spare the time right this moment..

But basically long story short I at one point was very confused about my sexuality and I did not know what I wanted to be or be with.

After much soul searching I realized that I'm really just... pretty straight lol
And I've learned to enjoy being a man.
Part of the problem before was that I didn't know HOW to be a man.

I'll explain more later but there it is in brief(s instead of panties :p )
 
It's actually a long story that deserves more than a summary and I can't spare the time right this moment..

But basically long story short I at one point was very confused about my sexuality and I did not know what I wanted to be or be with.

After much soul searching I realized that I'm really just... pretty straight lol
And I've learned to enjoy being a man.
Part of the problem before was that I didn't know HOW to be a man.

I'll explain more later but there it is in brief(s instead of panties :p )
This sounds like a really interesting story. I invite you to start a thread “How I Learned to be a Man”. Seriously.
 
I personally would not be turned on by a guy who enjoyed slipping into something silky, other than boxers I think.

A bit of black eyeliner isn’t necessarily a bad thing on a guy, however, a full face of makeup would not be a turn on.
 
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