That's what motivates you? Or were you referring to my post?coffee tea sugar pee
We are made up of chemicals. I like good chemicals. We are not robots. So that is the problem. I think.And if we focus only on drugs, well... Almost every human being alive today takes some sort of drug, they just use different words (medication, cup of coffee/tea, herbal infusion, cigarette, drink, etc...). By the way, coffee has been illegal in the past and some saw it as a dangerous substance when it was first instroduced.
What I want is to quit my bad habits and work on building good ones instead, so I can hopefully have a better quality of life as I grow older.
I don't want to be sober all the time, don't even believe in that concept.
As if taking a substance capable of changing our brainchemistry is something completely artificial which should always be avoided. There is no natural (sober) state, every interaction we have with the environment changes our brainchemistry, incluiding of course the food we eat, the people we speak with, the amount of sleep we get, our stress levels, etc...
And if we focus only on drugs, well... Almost every human being alive today takes some sort of drug, they just use different words (medication, cup of coffee/tea, herbal infusion, cigarette, drink, etc...). By the way, coffee has been illegal in the past and some saw it as a dangerous substance when it was first instroduced.
Who is more sober, an individual experiencing very strong pain or the same individual feeling pain-free after taking a pill? What about a chronic insomniac vs someone who uses sleeping pills?
What I want is to quit my bad habits and work on building good ones instead, so I can hopefully have a better quality of life as I grow older.
That doesn’t actually make sense... Unless this forum was called “The Shithead Forum” and I was complaining people were shitheads... But it’s not.There are elements of truth in what you say and I’m sure you could find a few members and many posts that match each category of complaint that you have. Just as you could in every internet forum
However there are also many people seeking and giving quality advice about harm reduction, recovery, and mental health. It’s also a home for people struggling with issues that perhaps at this point in time limit their ability to be ideal citizens or progressive thinkers.
I don’t know exactly what you are looking for here but you can probably find it somewhere if you just ignore the bits that are irritating you. Otherwise there is always Toastmasters or the Rotary Club I guess.
In any case doesn’t make sense to sign up to the rugby club and then complain they aren’t playing lawn bowls.
I often don’t. Especially in the Holiday Season. Everything I write always sounds better in my head.That doesn’t actually make sense...
Very glad to hear it. I wasn’t suggesting that you should - unless it was getting you down too much or not meeting your needs. You are an asset to the community.You’ll just have to put up with my presence. I have no plan to leave.
I wasn’t suggesting that you should - unless it was getting you down too much or not meeting your needs.
Old grizzled any substance is a sad picture. People do deteriorate over time. Significantly. Be proud you're so together mentally. It's a blessing you don't want to waste you're a good guy.Lately listening to older long term amphetamine abusers lengthy rambles has also made me think sobriety is the better option. I do love my stims but I value my capacity for reasoned argument more.
Even if you'd rather not quit altogether, rationing can be a big help. It helped me immensely, especially financially. I also like that it gives me a sense of self-control.Couldn’t have said it better..
I think it really hit me when I began to see how many spices in my cabinet were either psychoactive or precursors to psychoactive substances. I have Chinese relatives that put so many poppy seeds in their baked goods I’d be surprised if they did t get high off em..
Then you’ve got AA/NA where “sobriety” really means chain smoking a pack a day and drinking a pot of coffee. Oh and if your doctor prescribes you a fat amount of Xanax, hydrocodone, and adderall that’s ok too cuz the super smart doctor man said it was!
I’ve said it many times before, my life got infinitely better when I stopped aiming for complete sobriety and began trying to work with the substances in a way that felt rightvto me. I’m pretty happy with where I’m at. While my AA touting parents struggle in denial unstable to speak truly about their issues cuz it’d ruin their reputation in the program.
-GC
Going on 13yrs for me (15 if you count the 2-year gap between the time I first tried an opiate and when i started using daily).Being dependent on drugs suck's, especially when its been going on for 20 years +.
The toll it takes on your cashflow.