TheInvisibleStoner
Ex-Bluelighter
Ha yeah, I have done that and have regretted it later on. Easier when you are younger since easy to meet people. At 20 years probably best to keep it civil. She may indeed need his help one day for real.
your little quote re guns/triggers/"I'll be ready to pull it"'is pretty piss poor. Are you one of those people who prides themselves on "making fun of idiots for sport"?See what the problem is in the question?
NSFW:its the fact you’re calling him your boyfriend!
Never claimed to beNo offense lady, but you sound a little off your rocker.
why don’t you just turn to prostitution this way at least you’ll get paid for giving sex.S
Sorry mate, but that was a real asshole comment.
I suppose you believe us menopausal women have no biological reason to even continue to live?
Let alone have our efforts acknowledged and appreciated. I mean, I oughta be grateful, at the age of 47, to be allowed to suck his 51 y/o johnson per se.
can't write much but had a really lousy day ... long story but my job opportunity might get screwed up because I didn't have the correct version of birth certificate to apply for my Working With Children Clearance.
So had to ring boss, who was less than impressed. I still get to work but have to get the clearance done on Tuesday - need $50 for birth certificate thing, plus $87 for the application itself. The $87 can be refunded by the government to whatever bank account I like. So I called friend with benefits, and asked him he could lend me $137, to be reimbursed by government.
No, he couldn't. Could he lend me $50? Palpable reluctance.
Then I recalled that during COVID lockdown I had no money or food and he wouldn't even drive past my house to drop off a can of baked beans.
I reminded him of this, and he said, "why should I help you - obviously you spent your money on alcohol and (his special bugbear) cigarettes."
I said, " so what. If you are having sex with someone, you are obliged to feed them if they are starving,"
He said, "it doesn't work like that."
I said, "Actually, it does work like that,"
And hung up.
Then ruined it all by sending him a stupid text message, not apologising, but pointing out how I give him attention, emotional support, oral sex on demand more or less. In return I get lectures and "life advice". I am meant to be grateful for this. I am meant to be grateful ... for WHAT?
He also says my place is a dump, that I am crazy, that he's got better things to do ...
WELL MAYBE I HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO MYSELF
I hate our sordid sexual encounters, which make me feel like an unpaid prostitute.
The catch is he has my old computer - he was going to do "data retrieval" for me. In a grandiose outburst, I said I'd PAY him for the data retrieval. But I expect to get that laptop back, data retrieved or not .
I've only kept up this poxy thing because I am lonely. But with him, I am lonely and trapped. Without him, I'll be lonely but free.
I want a real friend.
He always constructs me as a mad woman. My craziness makes everything impossible, etc. But the facts are: he gets looked after and I don't. Not in any way. If I am lucky I get a lift in his car very occasionally.
No point distressing myself ... I got shit to do. Right now this is mainly cleaning up this joint.
My brother says he plus Dad will help me with the working clearance. I shouldn't have even asked "frenemy without benefits" in the first place - dunno WHAT I was thinking.
So deepyo
speak for urself
as any sane person should say me
ya bro we all here for ya
we gonna hold ur shit in our hand
man i saw this thread few days ago and i clicked it a few times just to see what's what and to see this it's just not for me I mean I don't wanna go to deep or some but this is a basic life question if u think about it, a basic survival skill that you need, a tool you already have.
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why don’t you just turn to prostitution this way at least you’ll get paid for giving sex.
Seems like your friend is getting all the benefits and you none.
I’m not saying this to insult you but at least you’d get paid?
Maybe your dads friend will pay you for sex, it doesn’t matter how old you are. I’ve seen some hit 65 year olds that are better in bed and kinkier than 18 yr olds.
May I ask how hot are you and do you have a big rack?
your little quote re guns/triggers/"I'll be ready to pull it"'is pretty piss poor. Are you one of those people who prides themselves on "making fun of idiots for sport"?
How am I troll? If the guy she’s with is screwing her and getting blown by her and she gets nothing in return, she might as well turn to prostitution at least she’d get paid for it instead of giving it away to the asshole for free and not getting nothing in return from the Bastard except his dick in her ass.aha ok you're a troll
thought so - know so now!
How’s it about me? I was called a troll, when all I said was the truth.Alright dude chill. She heard enough I am sure. Half that post was about yourself lol.
actually I oughta slap you but concept of me "getting a better deal" if I fellated the 72 year old made me laugh ....How am I troll? If the guy she’s with is screwing her and getting blown by her and she gets nothing in return, she might as well turn to prostitution at least she’d get paid for it instead of giving it away to the asshole for free and not getting nothing in return from the Bastard except his dick in her ass.
I’m no troll I’m just calling it like it is, she’s letting her father’s 72 year old friend feel her up, she’d probably get a better deal from sucking the old guy.
How am I trolling, for saying the truth?
if she’s giving it up to some guy who’s not her boyfriend or husband and just for benefits but isn’t getting any benefits from him she might as well sell her pussy, ass and mouth or whatever other orifice she could stick a Cock into.
she blatantly saying she gets nothing from the guy, might as well sell herself for whatever she can get.
the only thing different she’s doing from a prostitute is not getting paid.
I just happened to come across this thread and read this shit, I’m just here to learn how to use meds safely is all so I don’t overdose, and make some friends along the way if I can.
She’s the one who has no shame coming in here saying what she be kept to herself, this isn’t a porn site.
Good luck in your new endeavor MrsGamp, sorry if I offended you but seems like that guy was taking advantage of you and treating you like shit, I'm happy you got a new job and leave that asshole alone, he couldn't even give you a ride to the shelter, and you were on crutches, sounds like a real bum.However (Mods take note!) after much reflection (well about three minutes of reflection after a glass of wine) I think maybe I will request to have the thread deleted. It probably is too much info, plus some peeps have been pretty nasty, which ordinarily wouldn't bother me, but since this is my first week of work in two years, I am feeling non-constructively distracted by the issue of my "FWB" and the thread about my "FWB" ... eg right now should be doing marking!
That said many people have given
me sound advice and really helped me get things into proper perspective , most in PMs ...so thanks!