Chapter II: The Abyss is Eternal !

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Did I mention my hair got fucking massacred by a hairdresser and I had to pretend it was okay?

I look like Hitler. The hairdresser was working around a theory that my hair naturally falls into a side parting. Somewhere just above my left ear.
 
MrsGamp said:
Isn't it horrible when you go to the hairdresser's and you feel like they've wrecked your head but you have to pretend to like it?
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Fuck that, go to a better hairdresser or be honest. I honestly don’t understand how someone can pay for a service they are completely unhappy with.
 
MrsGamp said:
Usually this place is great but you have to get a particular person ... and she wasn't available today...:(
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Sooo.... you’re paying them. You tell them
what you want and if it’s not what you want tell them why it isn’t. I’ve paid all but 3 hairdressers in my life and those 3 left me looking ridiculous whilst I specifically told them what I wanted. I will not pay a shit hairdresser.
 
I had a genital wart when I was 22. Or rather a proto-wart. My B/F had these lumps on his testicles. And I was always saying "what the hell a re they? go to the doctor ..."
And he'd say, "oh, they're just 'cysts' and I've had them for ages."
Then I felt I had the beginnings of a bump. I went to GP who doused me in vinegar and said the bump was fine but I had prodomal wartiness.
I cried. I literally cried.
He said, "don't worry, you haven't lived until you've had genital warts."
I had to go to this terrible specialist who was expert at freeze-drying gential warts.
I was given literally ONE temezepam (Halcion) for "sedation" and then subjected to torture with dry ice, with an ultrasound camera. Dr Wart kept cheerfully pointing out all the spots on the monitor where I would've grown warts if I hadn't been so vigilant.
But I was lucky - I didn't get anything on my cervix, which is the main thing.
BTW we always used condoms. It's a myth that condoms protect you from all STDs.
This is too much info, isn't it? Sorry. I've had a little wine.
 
PrincessDiz said:
Sooo.... you’re paying them. You tell them
what you want and if it’s not what you want tell them why it isn’t. I’ve paid all but 3 hairdressers in my life and those 3 left me looking ridiculous whilst I specifically told them what I wanted. I will not pay a shit hairdresser.
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I need to get more assertive. I should've said "I want Lily and if she's not available I'll come back later."
I am reading an assertiveness training book called When I Say No I Feel Guilty.
 
MrsGamp said:
I need to get more assertive. I should've said "I want Lily and if she's not available I'll come back later.
I am reading an assertiveness training book called When I Say No I Feel Guilty.
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Yes, this, you definitely need to be more assertive. Stop paying for shit you don’t like. I wouldn’t have paid for that haircut. No chance. Saying No feels good! Do it more often. Use it for things which won’t cause much offence to start with then just go full on. No no nooooooo!
 
PrincessDiz said:
Yes, this, you definitely need to be more assertive. Stop paying for shit you don’t like. I wouldn’t have paid for that haircut. No chance. Saying No feels good! Do it more often. Use it for things which won’t cause much offence to start with then just go full on. No no nooooooo!
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Like most bad hair cuts it will be tolerable in about three weeks, But I am pissed off because on Monday I am going to a funeral and I am the "eulogist". That's why I went to get my hair trimmed. So I'd look respectable and so forth.
Unhappily I'll just have to "eugooglize" with weird hair.
 
BellaJewel said:
There’s no confusion on my part. I don’t want my friends to introduce me to someone new as my friends are, for the most part, mutually my ex boyfriend’s friends. It’s difficult to meet someone new during the pandemic as where I live restaurants, clubs and bars remain closed.
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go to a riot peaceful protest for Police brutality Systematic racism. always seems to draw a crowd of bored rich 20 somethings.
 
ghostandthedarknes said:
go to a riot peaceful protest for Police brutality Systematic racism. always seems to draw a crowd of bored rich 20 somethings.
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The conversation would not flow well with a racist for me. I have mixed race relatives and I am horrified by the way I’ve seen them treated. Over the past few months they’ve mentioned that COVID has been fortuitous in one way; it allows them to stay home and away from all the hostility and violence.
 
Captain.Heroin said:
Isn't it horrible when you go to the hairdresser's and you feel like they've been taping you the whole time?
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btw what's a decent torrentz-type website these days? i have a new laptop so its been a while, but I have the right app or whatever it is ... just need to find an authentically free and safe place from which to download films ...
 
MrsGamp said:
btw what's a decent torrentz-type website these days? i have a new laptop so its been a while, but I have the right app or whatever it is ... just need to find an authentically free and safe place from which to download films ...
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Why don't you just stream them? I mean, the quality is not 1080p or 4k, but it's still watchable at 720p. Here are a couple I use:

https://www.putlockers.cr/

https://www1.solarmovies.co/

You can also try an app called "Popcorn Time" that is quite good:

https://popcorntime.app/
 
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