sex and drug used to be a great combo - dont work anymore

[ZosoUK]

having recently replied to a similar thread that didnt get too many replies, i thought i would start a new 1 as the last 1 didnt get barely any response and im sure there must be 100's of members here who hhave had similar experiences or can add in some info on this

i will preface this by saying there was an old post i had bookmarked at some point all about drugs & sex/horniness - i read the whole thing

im assuming this is the right place for this but feel free mods to move it - maybe it would get more attention elsewhere

so....

anyone like me who likes to partake in some drugs, fire up a ton of porn
(no current GF) this is all about jerking off to porn really

so, what gear are you using??? and does it work - truly work

ive been thru everything known over the past 20yrs - dropped my first "white dove " (E) in 1994, moving onto speed in 95 and was hammering the original decent e's and proper quality coke by 1998

i will say i only had real real clean coke i could fuck on twice - (without viagra) BUT nothing seems to work anymore ??? :/

im about to turn 45, ive been on AND off every anti-depressant available over the past 10yrs - you name it - ive tried it, EVERY single one has affected my actual drive to different degrees tho mostly i still had that infact, not so much in my head, strictly in my dick - but with most GFs ive usually gotten around it quite easily

so getting hard has been a big problem on some of them, or stamina etc - the original prozac probably affected me the least - ive just gone back onto Citalopram and its killed my dick , takes forever to get wood !

i never had a problem before , just a few yrs ago i could fuck like a pornstar & me & my then gf certainly did - 3somes, 10hrs sessions - drink and drug fueled and amazing sober too

however i will say there is a HUGE difference between jerking off to the same boring old shitty porn and having a real girl on all fours in front of you !
ive had no problems with girlfriends really - even when loaded on mdma or a whole bottle of vodka - infact both of those used to make for mega sessions, hard for hours

up until 40 i could fuck at the drop of a hat - no matter what i was on !
(my last bit of action was in january & No ISSUES AT ALL)

i even did a 3some totally straight ! (got some amazing pics off that if im allowed to post them ???)

but right now its almost a waste of time loading up pornhub or something - all the fetishes & things that used to work wonders just bore me now ! all just borng -
drugs or no drugs

i know any drug use is gonna have a dramatic affect but its hardly daily at all - but again all the things that used to make me mega horny & hard now have the opposite effect, some of them make me wanna start to get freaky but my dick has other ideas, this is the problem, ill get mentally horny but my dick will die a sad death :

meth - supposedly the sex wonder sex drug didnt work for me at all - and infact led me into the ER - worst experience of my life

coke - especially when its was twice the quality back in the 90s, now a few lines gets me horny and tells me "yeah lets get it on " get jerking ....but my dick says "no i dont think so " (not without viagra at least ) and that can take a lot - im talking up to 10 pills & still only 1/2 fixes things and sometimes it still doesnt

mdma used to work wonders and push me into 8hr+ sessions with or without a girl - wether its the quality of it now or just me but it ant cutting it at all anymore & yeah again without 10 viagra it just aint happening

any knd of speed/ritalin/vyvanse etc is totally not gonna work, ive tried all the research chemicals recently too (3-fph etc - hexen ) & all have the opposite effect , again they may push me into looking at porn
but it all just kills my dick and just makes me edgy not horny!

GBL/GHB = first few times made me horny as a 15 yr old & worked wonders- probably the most effective yet but the last time i tried it didnt have the same affect at all and actually had some nasty blackouts

i enjoy various kind of opiates - just for the chill factor, oxys/ soma / tapentadol/ tramadol - but no opiate makes me horny -usually the exact opposite - all make me wanna get the porn on at least but again its limp dick city - if i took any of those with my last GF it was game over - she could be dressed up to the nines like a porn star but nothing on my end !

i will say i just had a bag of KET last w and that did a reasonable job - avoiding the k=holes of course ! the best in a while but even with that i find theres a fine line

but its as simple as this, almost any drug is gonna work against me, viagra will help out to a certain degree- ive often taken 10 before though but then probably get hard or do but wont cum

i know the anti-depressants are gonna seriously hit my libido and just the depression itself leaves me in a "whats the point" mode tho i still spend a probably unhealthy amount of time persuing porn - tho i soon get bored and have to keep switching around

i just had my testosterone tested a week ago & its "normal" - however the GP normal range is huge & ridiculous - you can be very low & that will still be classed as normal !

now the best solution to this i ive found is to get some "testosterone Prop" - I.M inject 1.0ml that in ya thigh 3x a wk and i will notice a huge difference - i can go to jerking off 3x in 2hrs - however cumming is not as intense and sometimes kinda totally numb so its not magic - i got it for bodybuilding not for my dick ! test is what its all about really tho i think

if anyone else has any other suggestions that work id love to hear them cos this is a huge issue for me right now

i used to be obessed with sex , now im barely interested and the drugs that used to work or that everyone swears by are just not working

i guess the answer really is to ease off on the jerking/porn and wait until get another GF = then sober sex is usually no problem & enjoyable enough

just wondering if anyones found a decent drug booster/combo cos coke, meth etc just aint it for me
many thanks for any replies

 

[jhjhsdi]

The right dose of ket can be amazing for sex for me, well, more for her I guess because I'll fuck for hours making her cum multiple times but not cumming myself for ages and normally not until I am frantically jerking off while she licks/sucks my balls/Gooch, lol.

Small dose of mephedrone? I used to have amazing sex on that. It's hard to come by now though.

Weed used to make me mega horny. Like I would just look at my Mrs once I was stoned and be like 'right you're getting it' and I'd be way more into taking my time with mega tech foreplay

 

[Jabberwocky]

Well, it might be that you watch too much porn. Stop watching porn for a while and you will sure start to be interested in your girl. Make this rule - You cum only with women, no masturbation. Porn can destroy relationships and make men not be stimulated by normals sex. try to learn another additude about sex, look forward to it as having a good time since having erection problems can lead you to stress out and cause more which leads to bad bad circle. Try to focus on your partner and her enjoyment, it makes me super hard. If i try to focus on myself and just cum i wont have fun.
Try some rough stuff, like choking or bonding. In long relationships the spark can be lost but it can be found back, but you need to be honest to each other and it's hard. But you can find something cool about each other.
Start doing B-12 and magnesium + zinc.
Also aswagandha is a super good supplement.
Those will boost your testosterone.

 

[ZosoUK]

Well, it might be that you watch too much porn. Stop watching porn for a while and you will sure start to be interested in your girl. Make this rule - You cum only with women, no masturbation. Porn can destroy relationships and make men not be stimulated by normals sex. try to learn another additude about sex, look forward to it as having a good time since having erection problems can lead you to stress out and cause more which leads to bad bad circle. Try to focus on your partner and her enjoyment, it makes me super hard. If i try to focus on myself and just cum i wont have fun.
Try some rough stuff, like choking or bonding. In long relationships the spark can be lost but it can be found back, but you need to be honest to each other and it's hard. But you can find something cool about each other.
Start doing B-12 and magnesium + zinc.
Also aswagandha is a super good supplement.
Those will boost your testosterone.

thankyou for your long considered answer - well firstly there is no "HER " = ive been single since januaury which doesnt help cos im sure if i was with with a GF right now - especially if i didnt touch drugs id be just fine ! i Do believe in the whole "excessive porn phenomenom" = im cetainly one thats looked at it pretty much daily for 22yrs - wife/gF or not and i do find it rather desensitising & numbing - infact 90% of it just bores me to death now !

and i take a bunch of vits included b12 & mag etc

thankyou

if i skip a day of porn/jerking i feel somethings off = i should probably go a week or 2 , i know ive tried that in the past to great effect !

but your right about "boners " -- tho i will say as i did in my original post the anti depressnts have a huge effect & then if i add in any of the usual drugs = it just dies a pathetic death !
but theres also a huge mental issue of just general "horniness " - its just not there like it used to be and the drugs that would bring it on dont even do that anymore !

when the gyms reopen i shall be be geting fit again and back on the I.M testosterone = it does a great job !

 

[Jabberwocky]

thankyou for your long considered answer - well firstly there is no "HER " = ive been single since januaury which doesnt help cos im sure if i was with with a GF right now - especially if i didnt touch drugs id be just fine ! i Do believe in the whole "excessive porn phenomenom" = im cetainly one thats looked at it pretty much daily for 22yrs - wife/gF or not and i do find it rather desensitising & numbing - infact 90% of it just bores me to death now !

and i take a bunch of vits included b12 & mag etc

thankyou

if i skip a day of porn/jerking i feel somethings off = i should probably go a week or 2 , i know ive tried that in the past to great effect !

but your right about "boners " -- tho i will say as i did in my original post the anti depressnts have a huge effect & then if i add in any of the usual drugs = it just dies a pathetic death !
but theres also a huge mental issue of just general "horniness " - its just not there like it used to be and the drugs that would bring it on dont even do that anymore !

when the gyms reopen i shall be be geting fit again and back on the I.M testosterone = it does a great job !

Well, i went noFap for like 6 months and fucked tons of girls during that time, because i couldn't masturbate it gave me motivation to find something to fuck. If i go fap now, i bet i will have worse sex tonight with my GF so i wont do it. I only do it when she's somewhere and i can't fuck. Try going for it some time, it bet you'll have a blast. If you have problem with it, just make a rule that you fap once a week and don't watch porn doing it.
Learn about long term effects of porn, how HD video porn has caused erectile dysfunction on young males that watch it - it's actually disturbing what it does to your brain. 22 years sounds terrible man, i really hope you the best.
The problem is that porn is really exciting and requires less efforts to get you hard. The more you watch the more you pamper your brain. Real sex requires a lot of physical efforts and body movement compared to porn. When you're doing some other movements while having sex, your brain isn't getting pampered and requires more efforts and then it starts to lose it's erection. You will try hard to get yourself hard, but it's frustrating and stressful when it doesn't work. Even if you manage to get one, you will most probably finish early.

 

[Jabberwocky]

I also should add that this is more of a personal philosophy.
I hate hedonism and i think it leads to degeneracy.
I think you need to do work to get rewards.
You little fucker want to fap? Fuck you, you get pussy. No easy cumming for you little retard.
That's my inner dialogue.

 

[Captain.Heroin]

It's not the masturbation but porn that ruins sexual dynamics and I've been over this before, but specifically, sex drugs to me are not stimulants. People are weird fucking on stimulants. Like some people it's good, 99% no. Just no.

I'm not surprised you liked ketamine for this purpose - psychedelics tend to be awesome for sex for me.

Have you considered having sober sex more? It's not terrible.

 

[Captain.Heroin]

I also should add that this is more of a personal philosophy.
I hate hedonism and i think it leads to degeneracy.
I think you need to do work to get rewards.
You little fucker want to fap? Fuck you, you get pussy. No easy cumming for you little retard.
That's my inner dialogue.

...I loved this post, and honestly, if I jerk off I get no "pleasure" from it, it's just like, alleviating a need/urge and I feel like I wasted my boner if I have to jerk off.

I used to *really like* masturbation. I cannot tell when that changed for me... am guessing sometime this year.

 

[Jabberwocky]

It's not the masturbation but porn that ruins sexual dynamics and I've been over this before, but specifically, sex drugs to me are not stimulants. People are weird fucking on stimulants. Like some people it's good, 99% no. Just no.

I'm not surprised you liked ketamine for this purpose - psychedelics tend to be awesome for sex for me.

Have you considered having sober sex more? It's not terrible.

Ye, not having sober sex can lead to you having sex only on stimulants. I watched this youtube video about meth addict who liked to have lots of sex he said he couldn't enjoy sex in years after that because no meth. It makes you kinky tho i like it.

 

[Captain.Heroin]

Ye, not having sober sex can lead to you having sex only on stimulants. I watched this youtube video about meth addict who liked to have lots of sex he said he couldn't enjoy sex in years after that because no meth. It makes you kinky tho i like it.

Yes, this, I've heard it "ruins sex" for some guys. I don't get it, I enjoy sex a LOT more off stims. If anything I'll want to do meth AFTER sex but like... I am so glad I am abstaining.

 

[Flower Fairy]

I'd say get off citalopam and try a different antidepressant for a start as that's the worst one for sexuel disfunction

 

[ZosoUK]

I'd say get off citalopam and try a different antidepressant for a start as that's the worst one for sexuel disfunction

yeah sadly, ive been thru just about any anti-depressant available, apart from the old school stuff and citalopram has worked the best for my depression & obviously thats more important in the grand scheme than getting a boner etc

 

[Flower Fairy]

ive been thru just about any anti-depressant available,

And me and now I'm going back around again, mirtazapine for like the 4th time

I don't have a sex drive, good job I'm single lol, but this is the first time mirtazapine has affected my sex drive normally it don't

 

[ZosoUK]

Have you considered having sober sex more? It's not terrible.

oh yeah 90% of ACTUAL sex ive had has been totally sober, i was married for 10yrs and apart from a couple of drunken sessions all the sex in those 10yrs was sober ! when i got divorced i then had a TON of drunken sex which amazes me now - cos im talking a whole bottle of jack daniels - and hours of sex ! i had an amazing 8hr session once on mdma thatll ill never forget - it was perfect !!

its not really about sex with a woman, im usually just fine - tho i do tend to need a bit extra, like her dressing up & slutty make up etc

its just ive been single since january and its jerking off to porn & adding in the drugs to enhance things or just even get me going in the first place - most of them do infact get me going but then work against me

 

[ZosoUK]

And me and now I'm going back around again, mirtazapine for like the 4th time

I don't have a sex drive, good job I'm single lol, but this is the first time mirtazapine has affected my sex drive normally it don't

yeah i was actually on mirtazipine over xmas time for a few months - gotta say it certainly helps sleep and for a while i was on both : mirtazipine & citalopram & that was a pretty decent combination really !

gotta say this time last yr i went about 6months off all anti depressants and it certainly made a huge difference in my sex drive & ability etc - unfortuantly my depression came back real strong so i had to go back on

 

[Flower Fairy]

yeah i was actually on mirtazipine over xmas time for a few months - gotta say it certainly helps sleep

Yeah but then your body gets used to it and now I'm up to 30mg fro, but going above that does the opposite and it's more stimulating

gotta say this time last yr i went about 6months off all anti depressants

Me too then the pandemic hit and I couldn't sleep so went back in them

 

[wudbutcher]

I'm confused. I've never considered jerking off as sex.