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When is he NOT going through a manic phase or unstable or aggravated by drugs? I’m enjoying the break too and that’s not just because I caught him talking shit about me in this thread that time, but it gets to be obnoxious with all the uncontrollable/unstable posting all over the place.
 
I mean to be fair, people talk shit in TL, it's what goes on here. Generally CH is a kind soul, a manic kind soul. I like the less emo CH that's emerged, I'd prefer all-caps exclamations of joy to posts inspired by Buzz Killington.
 
Xorkoth said:
I mean to be fair, people talk shit in TL, it's what goes on here. Generally CH is a kind soul, a manic kind soul. I like the less emo CH that's emerged, I'd prefer all-caps exclamations of joy to posts inspired by Buzz Killington.
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Yeah yeah, you’re a coddler. 😋There should be higher standards for mods in general and I agree with @devilsgospel. That’s all.

You don’t understand what I mean about shit talking. It wasn’t the fun/funny kind. It was snake in the grass/phony stuff.

That’s not the main point though. When someone is always manic and unstable, I don’t see how staff lets that person run wild. This isn’t something new. It’s been going on for quite a while.

So that’s why I just stay away when it gets to be too much.
 
Soso78 said:
That’s hot
I’m in pain
Fuuccckkkkkk I neeeeeed to fuuuccckkk
Why hasn’t he hit me up
Fffuuuccckkkk
I’m dying
-captain heroin-
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In a nutshell, yes. I’m not even trying to make fun of him, but I made my point.

When someone is mod, seems like staff should be reining that person in when it gets out of control.
 
CFC said:
Hey mate, I totally empathise with what you're saying. You shouldn't be made to feel like you can be censored on a whim without due process, and I am genuinely sorry if it felt/feels like that :confused: BL should be inviting to all and users should expect all staff to err on the side of tolerance and caution when it comes to moderating the content of what BLers post - and should especially avoid dealing with (and getting personally involved in) anything that revolves around them personally. Ultimately staff are, first and foremost, Bluelighters just like everyone else, with no special rights or privileges beyond negotiating the enforcement of the spirit of BL's rules and mission statement in a careful, measured and (hopefully) fair way.

While I obviously can't speak for CH, and have no intention to do so, I can clearly see he's been going through something of a manic phase - maybe aggravated by drugs and/or a lack thereof - and struggling a bit with judgement because of that. I appreciate that's probably little comfort to you and doesn't detract from the points you raised or excuse bad decisions. But I hope you can also understand that when in that state of mind, even the best folks are prone to doing dumb things that they wouldn't ordinarily do. Ultimately I hope you two can patch things up, but fwiw I know CH is pretty contrite about what went down.
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I'm glad you're treating me with understanding about this. It means a lot to be heard. I'll be honest though his personal issues are of little comfort to me as justification. I of course may not have a full understanding, but I don't feel it's out of line to say that someone who flies off the handle on a regular basis is the best shot caller for a HR forum. Once again I'm just trying to be frank and lay all my cards on the table. I'm not expecting any sort of official repercussions or witch hunt. Not that you are still in a position to anyways. I would like it known that I think a current Admin should know about this though.

You treated me with respect so I'll return the favor and not disrupt this thread with any unnecessary hostility. I feel a bit better now that I've been listened to.
 
Xorkoth said:
I mean to be fair, people talk shit in TL, it's what goes on here. Generally CH is a kind soul, a manic kind soul. I like the less emo CH that's emerged, I'd prefer all-caps exclamations of joy to posts inspired by Buzz Killington.
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TL is certainly the 1st ammendment area of the forum, we can get away with a lot here. But that is sorta my main point. Neither Daisy nor I did anything wrong besides say something he didn't like and we were respectively infracted and censored & insulted. I don't think any amount of personal/emotional issues justify using a position of authority to solve your own disagreements, especially when they're entirely one-sided. I think he needs to understand that. He doesn't sound nor act like he should have the power he does.
 
CFC said:
i think technically it's called a unicode black florette/kozuka mincho. i'm all apple enabled so ymmv
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I love my name, hey tramadol is beginning to work now.

I'm in emergency dept as I'm not very well .

It's lovely and empty but still waited all night

It's great.


I gotta go to work though and should have stayed home and not bothered coming here. Codeine eould have worked .

Thank God pain relief
Good fun
 
✿Dai₷y✿ said:
I love my name, hey tramadol is beginning to work now.

I'm in emergency dept as I'm not very well .

It's lovely and empty but still waited all night

It's great.


I gotta go to work though and should have stayed home and not bothered coming here. Codeine eould have worked .

Thank God pain relief
Good fun
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What's wrong 😢 PM me back pls
 
✿Dai₷y✿ said:
I love my name, hey tramadol is beginning to work now.

I'm in emergency dept as I'm not very well .

It's lovely and empty but still waited all night

It's great.


I gotta go to work though and should have stayed home and not bothered coming here. Codeine eould have worked .

Thank God pain relief
Good fun
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Awww you’re in ER now? Tramadol is great! Just make sure not to take it with anything else that raises serotonin significantly to avoid serotonin syndrome. Tramadol acts like an SSRI and an opiate. Feel better! *HUGS*
 
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