CoastTwoCoast
Bluelighter
^ EWWWW! NOOOOOO!! Not ever watching that!
Watching porn with a boyfriend is a turn off. Like you said, there's no need for it! Reading erotica can be very hot. I forgot about that. There are certain sites with some pretty sexy erotica.
So did your ex have people call him from Craigslist for phone sex while you two were together?! I wouldn't have been comfortable with that. He should've been having phone sex with you.
When I am in a relationship with a woman or man and having sex regularly with them. I do not watch or read as much porn as I do when I am single. I have had ex's that wanted to watch porn before or during sex and I would tell them how it was a distraction and how there was no need for it.
I actually prefer to read porn rather than watch it but it has to be very well written and descriptive. I have read gay BDSM porn set in pre-AIDS NYC sex clubs, while at work or in public while on break from work. People could see the title but nobody asked what I was reading or asked what the book was about, as they were too busy on their phones. I got a thrill out of openly reading such hot sex that involved moderate/heavy SM, FFisting, anal sex, oral sex, piercing, branding-this is very common in pre-AIDS porn a sex slave gets let out of its cage, and branded or pierced by the 'Master' that it is predictable, kidnapping, sex in leather/police uniforms, and W/S in a fictional story in public like this.
I had an ex who would watch porn when he was manic and not having sex with me and he also loved sex talk on the phone, but instead of calling phone sex lines he would just put ads on Craigslist to find people to call him, and men and women always did. Especially if they were spun on meth, horny, and could not find someone to have sex with on Craigslist. He also would write porn for me.
Watching porn with a boyfriend is a turn off. Like you said, there's no need for it! Reading erotica can be very hot. I forgot about that. There are certain sites with some pretty sexy erotica.
So did your ex have people call him from Craigslist for phone sex while you two were together?! I wouldn't have been comfortable with that. He should've been having phone sex with you.