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Agenda behind porn?

^ EWWWW! NOOOOOO!! Not ever watching that!

When I am in a relationship with a woman or man and having sex regularly with them. I do not watch or read as much porn as I do when I am single. I have had ex's that wanted to watch porn before or during sex and I would tell them how it was a distraction and how there was no need for it.

I actually prefer to read porn rather than watch it but it has to be very well written and descriptive. I have read gay BDSM porn set in pre-AIDS NYC sex clubs, while at work or in public while on break from work. People could see the title but nobody asked what I was reading or asked what the book was about, as they were too busy on their phones. I got a thrill out of openly reading such hot sex that involved moderate/heavy SM, FFisting, anal sex, oral sex, piercing, branding-this is very common in pre-AIDS porn a sex slave gets let out of its cage, and branded or pierced by the 'Master' that it is predictable, kidnapping, sex in leather/police uniforms, and W/S in a fictional story in public like this.

I had an ex who would watch porn when he was manic and not having sex with me and he also loved sex talk on the phone, but instead of calling phone sex lines he would just put ads on Craigslist to find people to call him, and men and women always did. Especially if they were spun on meth, horny, and could not find someone to have sex with on Craigslist. He also would write porn for me.

Watching porn with a boyfriend is a turn off. Like you said, there's no need for it! Reading erotica can be very hot. I forgot about that. There are certain sites with some pretty sexy erotica.

So did your ex have people call him from Craigslist for phone sex while you two were together?! I wouldn't have been comfortable with that. He should've been having phone sex with you.
 
My friends that grew up on farms or ranches told me how they had fisted cows when a calf would get stuck in the mother cow's vagina. I asked one friend, if he would wear gloves and he said how he had done it so much from a young age when his daddy taught him how to fist a cow's vagina that he would reach in and scoop out the calf without thinking.



Motherfucker I'm trying to eat.
 
^ EWWWW! NOOOOOO!! Not ever watching that!



Watching porn with a boyfriend is a turn off. Like you said, there's no need for it! Reading erotica can be very hot. I forgot about that. There are certain sites with some pretty sexy erotica.

So did your ex have people call him from Craigslist for phone sex while you two were together?! I wouldn't have been comfortable with that. He should've been having phone sex with you.
Before I lived with my ex we had phone sex as we lived in completely different regions of the country, but I was not naive to think he would not watch porn or have phone sex, or sex with others. He would go manic and get hypersexual and want a sexual release even if it was from porn or phone sex.

The book I would read at work while on break was called Mr. Benson. Online and later in a leather bar for bisexual and gay men I met a male slave who in his online profile was looking to be kept by a wealthy Master because he had read this old novel. It was a fun read but it is not based on reality at all, but a friend who when he was alive was into submission told me before he died from heart issues that this pipe dream fantasy can be common among submissive or slave type gay men.
 
Before I lived with my ex we had phone sex as we lived in completely different regions of the country, but I was not naive to think he would not watch porn or have phone sex, or sex with others. He would go manic and get hypersexual and want a sexual release even if it was from porn or phone sex.

The book I would read at work while on break was called Mr. Benson. Online and later in a leather bar for bisexual and gay men I met a male slave who in his online profile was looking to be kept by a wealthy Master because he had read this old novel. It was a fun read but it is not based on reality at all, but a friend who when he was alive was into submission told me before he died from heart issues that this pipe dream fantasy can be common among submissive or slave type

Ah ok, well I guess you accepted the way he was. I don't deal with cheating or open relationships.

A male slave looking to be kept by a wealthy master...you mean like how some women are looking for a wealthy master? Haha Seems like the same thing. I don't blame women like that. Guys want to use them for their looks so they should use them for their money if that's what they choose to do.
 
Ah ok, well I guess you accepted the way he was. I don't deal with cheating or open relationships.

A male slave looking to be kept by a wealthy master...you mean like how some women are looking for a wealthy master? Haha Seems like the same thing. I don't blame women like that. Guys want to use them for their looks so they should use them for their money if that's what they choose to do.
My ex cheated on me and his husband-the husband and I were platonic friends-with another alcoholic sex pig he met on Craigslist. The sex pig was HIV+ but my ex fucked his ass without condoms. I wound up meeting the sex pig and he told me how I had the most perfect hands and arms for anal fisting but he had a horsecock dildo, red handkerchiefs, and some huge butt plug the size of a punching bag in his apartment. I was extremely careful for the next few weeks watching my ex for signs of HIV infection such as getting a bad flu, fever, blisters/sores or night sweats becoming extremely sick and then getting all well in less than 24-72 hours. This did not happen, so I guess the HIV+ sex pig was telling the truth when I asked if he was on HIV/AIDS meds. My ex is an idiot and I know he carried condoms but wanted to fuck that guy raw. I was not mad or hurt about the sex but the lying. My ex, myself, his husband, and our housemate are all bisexual but I was platonic friends with the husband and housemate. If my ex was infected with HIV or Hep C or anything I did not get infected but I always used condoms and practised safer sex.

Being kept by a sugar daddy or sugar mama is a form of prostitution, and it is very sad to see someone spiral down to that level of human suffering. I know men who wound up being kept and they wound up being abused, used, and tossed aside when the wealthy man or woman got tired of them.

They also got completely fucked. Both literally, and figuratively/metaphorically when the sugar daddy or sugar mama they married divorced them and left them with nothing. Even if these people had an education or worked a part time job they went from living a very wealthy or wealthy appearing lifestyle that they were used to, to poverty. The sugar daddies and sugar mamas were not nice, or kind people, and only care about themselves, and have the attractive and kept woman or man because it makes the wealthy person in power look successful or good.

I understand that sometimes people resort to prostitution as a means of survival since they are homeless, or basically almost homeless but it is not a good thing and I have never met any current or former prostitutes-women, men, and trans who did not wind up becoming used, damaged, and psycholocally abused by their clients or former clients. I also have met quite a number who became addicted to hard drugs, infected with HIV or developed AIDS, and many who were robbed, assaulted/beat up, trafficked, and raped by clients. This even happened especially in countries where prostitution is legaised, decriminalised, or tolerated. The majority of people who pay for sex are not always good people, or they know that it is a business transaction, based on the prostitute being paid for sex or sexual acts including sometimes fetish or BDSM/kinks, and many clients of prostitutes have the attitude or mentality that since they paid a prostitute for sex they can do whatever sex act they want including unsafe sex, or basically raping a person.

Porn films have been advertisement for prostitutes for many decades, as people in porn-women, men, and trans make more money from ho'ing on the side than from porn films.
 
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My ex cheated on me and his husband-the husband and I were platonic friends-with another alcoholic sex pig he met on Craigslist. The sex pig was HIV+ but my ex fucked his ass without condoms. I wound up meeting the sex pig and he told me how I had the most perfect hands and arms for anal fisting but he had a horsecock dildo, red handkerchiefs, and some huge butt plug the size of a punching bag in his apartment. I was extremely careful for the next few weeks watching my ex for signs of HIV infection such as getting a bad flu, fever, blisters/sores or night sweats becoming extremely sick and then getting all well in less than 24-72 hours. This did not happen, so I guess the HIV+ sex pig was telling the truth when I asked if he was on HIV/AIDS meds. My ex is an idiot and I know he carried condoms but wanted to fuck that guy raw. I was not mad or hurt about the sex but the lying. My ex, myself, his husband, and our housemate are all bisexual but I was platonic friends with the husband and housemate. If my ex was infected with HIV or Hep C or anything I did not get infected but I always used condoms and practised safer sex.

Being kept by a sugar daddy or sugar mama is a form of prostitution, and it is very sad to see someone spiral down to that level of human suffering. I know men who wound up being kept and they wound up being abused, used, and tossed aside when the wealthy man or woman got tired of them.

They also got completely fucked. Both literally, and figuratively/metaphorically when the sugar daddy or sugar mama they married divorced them and left them with nothing. Even if these people had an education or worked a part time job they went from living a very wealthy or wealthy appearing lifestyle that they were used to, to poverty. The sugar daddies and sugar mamas were not nice, or kind people, and only care about themselves, and have the attractive and kept woman or man because it makes the wealthy person in power look successful or good.

I understand that sometimes people resort to prostitution as a means of survival since they are homeless, or basically almost homeless but it is not a good thing and I have never met any current or former prostitutes-women, men, and trans who did not wind up becoming used, damaged, and psycholocally abused by their clients or former clients. I also have met quite a number who became addicted to hard drugs, infected with HIV or developed AIDS, and many who were robbed, assaulted/beat up, trafficked, and raped by clients. This even happened especially in countries where prostitution is legaised, decriminalised, or tolerated.

I realize this is far from the important thing here, but what is a "red handkerchief"? (I assume more than it sounds).
 
^ Good question.

It's a crazy world out there...Surely, there are some women who marry wealthy men and aren't abused. I couldn't marry just for someone's money, but some women do it and I ain't mad at 'em. Men are using them too, goes both ways.
 
I realize this is far from the important thing here, but what is a "red handkerchief"? (I assume more than it sounds).
It is an old code for someone liking anal fisting. I guess it signifies the bleeding that usually happens with anal fisting? I forgot that younger bisexual and gay men have never heard of this. It was used in the 1970s or earlier, and even in 1980s, 1990s, and early 2000s before bisexual and gay equality or to advertise sexual preferences in public places before mobile phones with apps.



 
^ Good question.

It's a crazy world out there...Surely, there are some women who marry wealthy men and aren't abused. I couldn't marry just for someone's money, but some women do it and I ain't mad at 'em. Men are using them too, goes both ways.
Heh you should watch the original very old film Sunset Boulevard.
 
I haven't read the rest of this thread, but no, there's no agenda behind pornography (a huge, huge category of content) other than pursuit of the almighty dollar. Have you seen how much amateur stuff there is online? Go to a free streaming porn site, organize it by category and you'll see what I mean. If I'm not mistaken it represents the biggest marketshare of pornography out there, these people who just point the camera and fuck. Did all those people get some kind of memo outlining their "agenda" in producing this content?

No of course not, people are just going to let their freak flags fly, and some people are gonna try and monetize that freak flag through clicks or ad revenue or whatever. It's as simple and banal as that.

I'm not convinced that any pornography really encapsulates sexuality as it truly exists between people...the act of observation changes that which is being observed after all, that's just physics lol...but I find the "moral panic" you find sometimes over porn to be really tiresome, just another iteration of the "don't be jerkin' it and spillin' your seed"-type crap that's used to control people and their urges. You find it at various times in history, here's an example:


Pornography (esp. the "porn industry") shares the same relationship to actual sexuality as fast food does to actual food, just a cheap consumer product you consume when you're horny or hungry but ultimately provides no real emotional or nutritional value. That doesn't mean that the average discerning, thinking person can't consume such content in moderation and be totally fine in the vast majority of cases IMO.
 
Tbh I think theirs no agenda at all now, it’s just supply and demand it’s there, all this religion talk its full of sins and making you guilty-feeling is nonsense. There’s good porn and bad porn. I bet all these years using porn has created safe solo sex and saved me a lot of bother from troublesome wrongen women! Not saying they are all bad, sure there are nice ones to meet. Just have fun and do it in moderation.
 
c'mon I don't mind that my data are being stolen, the algorithms are given me memes and porn movies that fit my mood in return.. they can try to sell me their bullshit, I have no money, won't buy anything anyway, they are wasting time with me.. stupid capitalist pigs
 
My friends that grew up on farms or ranches told me how they had fisted cows when a calf would get stuck in the mother cow's vagina. I asked one friend, if he would wear gloves and he said how he had done it so much from a young age when his daddy taught him how to fist a cow's vagina that he would reach in and scoop out the calf without thinking.



Heh, been there done that pal. Cow fisting was a day to day occurrence when I were down on t'farm. I remember when a calf got breeched once and died in the birth canal. The only way to get it out was for my mate to get a saw up there and cut the calves legs off in order to save the cow. You cant be squeamish on a farm...
 
Oh no! Baby Jesus, please rescue me from this sexual deviant. 🙏🏼

Heheh :LOL: Although I never took advantage of the situation myself, I was well aware of the possibilities. Honestly; bestiality, incest, paedophilia, necrophilia, rape and bum shagging blokes are on my 'out of order' list. Otherwise, pretty much anything goes...
 
Heheh :LOL: Although I never took advantage of the situation myself, I was well aware of the possibilities. Honestly; bestiality, incest, paedophilia, necrophilia, rape and bum shagging blokes are on my 'out of order' list. Otherwise, pretty much anything goes...

Anyone who does those things you mentioned should be lined up in the street with a bullet to the head, one-by-one. That's my fantasy.

 
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