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Alright, who here has fucked an escort?

$500- $1000 really man ? you are getting taken advantage of.... bro i live in NJ and never paid more than $200 for an escort

for real tho I'm super bored and horny lately so i been spending all my money on prostitutes... its fun, i like wrecking these girls the sex is always good but i feel dead on the inside
 
It's nice when you need it. First time was a high class woman, the type who charges more ($400/hr) but will pretend to be your girlfriend, let you do intimate type things, etc. Or you can find women on backpage and they usually charge $200/hr. There are a lot of older women and most are older than they look in pictures. Some are younger but they can be drug addicts or white trash types and sometimes you can't tell from the pics and description. It's a gamble. The last time was great. I found a 19 year old with a perfect body and saw her twice in one week while on vacation. I think if the woman is young, fit and friendly, it's much more fun than sitting alone masturbating. It's expensive so most people won't be able to do it often, but once in a while, it can be fun. It isn't really fulfilling beyond the simple sexual release, but sometimes that's all you need.
 
for money, fuck no.

whether they're $5 or $300, they share the same mindset... and they will fuck you for nothing.

if you do decide to go into such terroritory, the real mindset is you basically pay them to leave...

"escorts = street = prostitute = hooker" ^^lol @ Visionary_Kpsycho : they don't care about stds...
 
Lived 2 years in Spain, went to escorts when I had the money. It was cheap, I never went to brothels (dont like the idea + who knows if there are girls who dont even want to be there...). Just searched the non-professionals from certain site. Many of them were very hearty and told good stories, many offered beer or something else to drink when I was leaving. many of them felt like good people. Some did it because they had to get money somewhere which was quite sad. Some went as cheap as 20? / 30 min

Anyways, tried older women too, because why not. Had overall good time and miss it. Reason why I used prostitutes, well, thats the only source of sex for the last 4 years or so without one exception so figured why not. It was good time, but now I moved to Norway and cant afford it, got a new house to pay for too...
 
Visionary_Kpsycho said:
I never had, but heard that there are some pretty high class escorts that rock the shit out of you in the sack.

Anyone have any good experiences with them?
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Fuck no.

I feel like that would ruin the experience. Sex is good because of emotional attachment/attraction. If I knew she was faking it... I feel like that would be such a turn off I wouldn't even be able to get it up.

I'm not against paying for sex.... I'm just not into it personally.
 
Hessu said:
Lived 2 years in Spain, went to escorts when I had the money. It was cheap, I never went to brothels (dont like the idea + who knows if there are girls who dont even want to be there...). Just searched the non-professionals from certain site. Many of them were very hearty and told good stories, many offered beer or something else to drink when I was leaving. many of them felt like good people. Some did it because they had to get money somewhere which was quite sad. Some went as cheap as 20? / 30 min

Anyways, tried older women too, because why not. Had overall good time and miss it. Reason why I used prostitutes, well, thats the only source of sex for the last 4 years or so without one exception so figured why not. It was good time, but now I moved to Norway and cant afford it, got a new house to pay for too...
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Yap, I have been in Spain and I know there is a lot of prostitution there at low prices, I am sharing your opinion :)
 
I suppose people who cant easily avail of intercourse it's a must and those who can easily get laid and meet people without having to fork out 200 for an hour might be a well think of those who cant do what you can.
 
I have thought about it many times in the last year or so. Always in moments of very depressing loneliness. I am 25, I have an insane sex drive, and have hard time without being able to express love phsyically, which I realize says all sorts of bad things about me.

I might do it some day if the desire really strikes me. If I see a girl that seems caring and clean, i might go for it. I see nothing wrong with it as long as both parties are truly 100%consenting, and a condom. Realistically though, very unlikely that ill ever make the leap, especially in the USA where the legal status makes it sketchy for many reasons.

I'd hope the girl had an ok time. I am decent looking, have a really nice body, don't have a gigantic dick, and am always down to provide party favors. If she just laid there and took it, I'd never be able to cum. Also would hope i could find a girl who was down with a couple minutes of cuddling at some point. I'm all about that shit.
 
RedRum OG said:
I have thought about it many times in the last year or so. Always in moments of very depressing loneliness. I am 25, I have an insane sex drive, and have hard time without being able to express love phsyically, which I realize says all sorts of bad things about me.

I might do it some day if the desire really strikes me. If I see a girl that seems caring and clean, i might go for it. I see nothing wrong with it as long as both parties are truly 100%consenting, and a condom. Realistically though, very unlikely that ill ever make the leap, especially in the USA where the legal status makes it sketchy for many reasons.

I'd hope the girl had an ok time. I am decent looking, have a really nice body, don't have a gigantic dick, and am always down to provide party favors. If she just laid there and took it, I'd never be able to cum. Also would hope i could find a girl who was down with a couple minutes of cuddling at some point. I'm all about that shit.
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Although I do not claim to be an expert on the subject or anything but I really think you're going to be disappointed with almost any escort. Basically they will tell you they are only there to get you off (they are not there to derive any pleasure other than taking your money) usually kissing, cuddling, you know any shit that shows someone really cares about you is pretty much out the window. And yes, they will sometimes just lay there or wiggle around ridiculously to where it's obvious it's not real. I don't know about anyone else but I can think of better things to do with that kind of money!
 
BeachBum4u said:
Although I do not claim to be an expert on the subject or anything but I really think you're going to be disappointed with almost any escort. Basically they will tell you they are only there to get you off (they are not there to derive any pleasure other than taking your money) usually kissing, cuddling, you know any shit that shows someone really cares about you is pretty much out the window. And yes, they will sometimes just lay there or wiggle around ridiculously to where it's obvious it's not real. I don't know about anyone else but I can think of better things to do with that kind of money!
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You are right. But that is how escort business works...
 
Boku_ said:
Oh my dear when i think of a city like New York with it's back streets in industrial areas full of pimped out and drug affected street hookers giving blow jobs in the front seat of John's cars all while avoiding cops and earning enough money to keep their pimps happy so the working girls are not assaulted i tell myself how much better things are for sex workers and their clients when prostitution is legal and regulated. In Australia we don't have anywhere the same level of men operating as pimps forcing women to work for the finical gain of the pimp and for the most part sex workers down under work in Brothels or independently out of a hotel room or apartment without any legal hassles and even the women working the cheaper end of the market don't have to walk the side walk to get clients.

i know you are located in NY mikehunt and in The majority of the United States of American and in a city like New York in particular the act of a women accepting cash to in return provide a sexual service is highly illegal and not tolerated by law enforcement at all but to be honest mikehunt i don't know how you can say "nope" you haven't paid for it, a blow job in your car by the Lincoln tunnel and hand job happy ending are still sexual services that have been paid for with cash in return for sexual services and whether you want to admit it or not you have paid a girl to get you to orgasm and that by definition is using the services of a prostitute.

I am not criticising you mikehunt for getting a bj or happy ending massage as i have had hundreds of massages with happy ending since the late 90's as well as bj's and full service sex with prostitutes seeing as sex work is legal where i live and if not a legally licensed brothel more a massage shop the does extras that police don't waste their time prosecuting these businesses which is the direct opposite of the law enforcement approach in most US cities with their Vice squads and websites showing mug shots of Johns and hookers who have been caught participating in either buying or selling sex. My question is mikehunt if you lived visited somewhere like Holland Germany Singapore Thailand or Australia where prostitution is legal and tolerated you would surely enjoy paid sex with a prostitute if you could afford it seeing as their would be no imminent threat of legal ramification for the act of consensual paid sex.

I view paying for sex or selling sex in the illegal street scene in the US as a dirty degrading and dangerous thing in america not because of the moral argument but because the law makers in America are too blind to see that a decriminalised and legal sex worker industry is far more safe and clean for the actual women wishing to sell their bodies compared to a system of laws the marginalise sex workers and gives them no rights. I personally blame Evangelical Christians, other religious conservatives and radical feminists in America who push their agenda and influence American law makers to keep the status quo of prostitution illegal and sex workers as a criminalised and prohibited section of society.

A regulated and legal sex worker industry is more about women's rights and the best outcome as far as sex worker health and safety situations overall, The only other approach to prostitution that is as equally wrong as the American prohibition attitude is what is called the Scandinavian approach or "Nordic model' that happens in European Countries like Finland, Norway and Sweden where sex work is decriminalised for the women who wish to sell sex but completely irrationally it is illegal for a man to pay a women for sex or sexual services and the Police in the countries that have implemented the Nordic model will investigate. charge, prosecute and fine any male who is found to have paid a women for sex. Naturally this approach is idiotic to say the least because it forces women who wish to make money for sex underground in order to allow their male clients to pay for sex without legal hassles. This misguided Nordic model states it supports women's rights but how can they say that when this method takes away the fundamental right of a woman to voluntary provide a sexual service to a client in return for payment. Interestingly rates of assaults against sex workers is far higher in Countries with the Nordic model compared to nations that have decriminalised sex work. Do a quick google search of escorts in Stockholm Sweden to see how successful the Nordic model is at stopping prostitution from occurring in Sweden. And at the same time ask any sex workers who may use escort review sites like Punter Planet in Australia if they want a illegal sex work industry( You know for the sex workers own protection of course. Because making it illegal for a woman to be paid for sexual is so much more liberating and safe for a sex worker LOL) or a legal and regulated sex worker industry.

The parallels between prohibition of sex work and the war on drugs is astonishing. In both cases law makers and law enforcement fight an unwinnable battle to stop supply while attempting to reduce demand but people wanting to use drugs or men wanting to have sex are a unstoppable occurrence. Where there is a demand for goods or service they're will always be a person willing to supply it. If countries that had the foresight and progressive thinking to legalise sex work also legalised recreational drugs for personal use the sheer amount of harm reduction that would be achieved overnight would be unbelievable. But unfortunate for the end drug user who would benefit the most from a legal and regulated recreational drug market the majority of political leaders in the world super powers of the likes of USA, China and Great Britain continue to persevere with the war on drugs meaning the outlook for end drug users globally looks distressing and erroneous to say the least. I could go on but i won't.
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Legalised prostitution completely legalises sex trafficking, and sexual abuse/rape, and sexual slavery/exploitation of men, women, trans people, and children who are forced into prostitution.

In all of the countries that you listed as being so free because they have legalised prostitution, the underage girls, and adult women are under control and abused by pimps, and many do walk the streets in tippel zones.

https://www.nytimes.com/roomfordeba...lizing-prostitution-leads-to-more-trafficking
 
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You sound like an legal sex industry abolishment supporter priest they call him. You must be of the radical feminist attitude that believes a legal sex industry is a legalized state sponsored abuse of women which would be true if not for the actual preference of women involved in the sex industry who openly prefer to work in a legal and regulatory guided sex industry.

Ok so we live in a cunt of a world where men force women and underage girls into sex work which of course is terrible but the fact is clear the vast majority of legal sex industry hookers are happy to hook and earn money from having sex with paying men.

In Australian cities legal cases of underage girls or non English speaking women being trafficked into the country against their will to be forced into sex work inside a legal brothel is that rare all you need to do is google court cases of
forced and exploited women by legal brothel owners/operators. You will be lucky if you get half a dozen news articles dated within the last ten years.

Yes many sex workers come from abusive or broken families/relationships they're are thousands of sex workers both local and Asian born who made a voluntary choice to undertake sex work in the Australian sex industry
 
https://www.nytimes.com/roomfordeba...lizing-prostitution-leads-to-more-trafficking
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there is no evidence in this article whatsoever, just somebody's opinion and the uncited claim that trafficking increased in Amsterdam, which itself is probably not related to legalization.

fwiw i think prostitution is kinda gross and shouldn't be considered an option except in the case of disability/etc but i'm not in favor of banning it in cases where people freely choose to do it. a priori, if it is possible at all for someone to sell sex of their own free will, they should be allowed to.
 
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been there but a few times we ended up together. one was a former dancer (no... two). they good peeps and have a lot to share. certainly enhanced my life in ways... some ways will be a part of me and my life forever.
 
pofacedhoe said:
which is worse

regulated sex industry?

unregulated?

people will do it either way
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It depends how the women are treated. For decades prostitution was illegal in Thailand but they're was a thriving Go Go bar scene and sex was sold openly with the local Thai police tolerating the Thai sex industry as long as the Go Go bar owners didn't mistreat or exploit the girls selling their bodies. Sex tourism is a huge money earner for Thailand's economy so since the early 1980's and the whole global HIV/AIDS awareness movement the Thai government has funded sexual health clinic's for the Thai sex workers benefit.

In Australian cities they're is both a regulated sex industry and a underground unregulated sex industry.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UP4YHTNsW4A&t=253s
 
Yes I've paid and don't care what people think. I tell my case manager, my psychiatrist, my mom, it's the oldest profession in the book.
 
pofacedhoe said:
which is worse

regulated sex industry?

unregulated?

people will do it either way
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I personally support the idea of an inspected sex industry, with suppliers having to meet standards.
I think sex workers would be best served by a licensing system, similar to the systems operated in many other industries.
Sex workers would be expected to train and pass examinations.
 
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