Blue_Phlame
Bluelight Crew
This discussion needed to happen, I'll respond to everyone's comments soon enough.
I’m not sure why this thread is still open either. Maybe we can close its once we have established it is just the usual crowd whining and complaining about a user agreement that doesn’t tolerate sexism, homophobia, perjorative attacks, and abusive behavior online?
constructive criticism is always welcome and even encouraged; if we're doing a poor job or people see areas where we could make improvements, such suggestions are always welcome. there is, however, a huge difference between constructive criticism and bashing/attacking/being a hateful dick for the sake of being a hateful dick, which some people seem incapable of understanding, or unwilling to admit that such a difference exists. unfortunately this topic and title are loaded and framed to encourage and promote denigrating the staff rather than be a place to discuss criticism so we can make improvements, and thus far its achieved its intended purpose and little else.
My mental health is more important than BL, I hope you understand. Give me some time to collect myself and prepare responses to everyone who commented on this thread., but you worse my patient through sometime yesterday or the day before.
If folks sincerely think staff are abusing "power, tell us where and we can try to improve. If we don't know or aren't told, how can we change? So far the accusations have been vague and broad, I think a certain specificity is the only thing that will enable us to explain and/or modify our conduct.
I'm gonna say that we aren't perfect but we are doing our best. There is always room for improvement though.
But the silence from B_P is telling. Its clear this is a chuck a bomb and run away thread. For that reason, I'd be for killing this topic.
^ I can appreciate responses like this, I agree with most of it except for the last part.
My mental health is more important than BL, I hope you understand. Give me some time to collect myself and prepare responses to everyone who commented on this thread.
I will say that if the BL higher up were abusing power.. You can't exactly express that problem openly. It's a catch 22,if the systems corrupt, you have to work against it surreptitiously, which can then be used as grounds publicly to suppress it.
This discussion needed to happen, I'll respond to everyone's comments soon enough.
New here.
Just thinking that there is an option to close a thread just because the mod is sure their answer is the answer and there is to be no further perspectives is quite annoying and closed-minded: Regardless of how many drugs and therapy one has endured. Times, stressors and environments change moment-to-moment. Wont name or link to threads but even with experience without an open-mind there can be some brain-rotting megalomania going on.
Ban me if you must... just does seem that one or two apples are tainting very healthy service.
and yet the thread remains open and people are freely criticizing staff.New here.
Just thinking that there is an option to close a thread just because the mod is sure their answer is the answer and there is to be no further perspectives is quite annoying and closed-minded...
Ok. You censored a meme that you took personally and refused to apologise despite objections .
Considering the post does not break guidelines and was actually ironically on point, you both just proved you abused your powers doing so and also acted like a total ass about it.
Also after being privy to the email exchange between staff and liquid method you also screwed up there big time. You really did.
You lie about having ip matches for alts. You ban on suspicion only which is crap and never admit you are wrong.
Also bls blatant lack of handling anything to do with the lounge. Nice one guys. Real great. Thanks for that.
Basically you guys mess up, dont listen to each other, dont have any open discussions with members without either manufacturing a banal response in staff, lose your shit and close it down or are in any way truthful anymore. Its too frustrating even bothering to talk to you, no wonder people who have been happily blrs for years crack the shits and dont care about you at all anymore.
Easier to talk behind our back innit? What are you- thirteen?
What beepers issue is, Im pretty sure he would have tried discussing this in staff so its telling he brought this up here.
Just cut the crap and stop pretending its all good and well back there and get your shit together bl . Jeez .
Ok. You censored a meme that you took personally and refused to apologise despite objections .
Considering the post does not break guidelines and was actually ironically on point, you both just proved you abused your powers doing so and also acted like a total ass about it.
Also after being privy to the email exchange between staff and liquid method you also screwed up there big time. You really did.
You lie about having ip matches for alts. You ban on suspicion only which is crap and never admit you are wrong.
Also bls blatant lack of handling anything to do with the lounge. Nice one guys. Real great. Thanks for that.
Basically you guys mess up, dont listen to each other, dont have any open discussions with members without either manufacturing a banal response in staff, lose your shit and close it down or are in any way truthful anymore. Its too frustrating even bothering to talk to you, no wonder people who have been happily blrs for years crack the shits and dont care about you at all anymore.
Easier to talk behind our back innit? What are you- thirteen?
What beepers issue is, Im pretty sure he would have tried discussing this in staff so its telling he brought this up here.
Just cut the crap and stop pretending its all good and well back there and get your shit together bl . Jeez .
Just thinking that there is an option to close a thread just because the mod is sure their answer is the answer and there is to be no further perspectives is quite annoying and closed-minded: Regardless of how many drugs and therapy one has endured..