aihfl just explained the Pocahontas thing so I'll leave that be. Huckabee Sanders is the fucking worst. At least Spicer had the decency to look surprised at the things coming out of his mouth sometimes.
Thanks, SJ. I do believe the timing of our mother's health with the attempted ACA repeals might be the driving force to change his mind. It's shitty enough being in those doctors' rooms dealing with a parent's declining health and it's got to feel worse if you have even an inkling that a conscious choice you made might make it worse down the road. I never said a word to him about it because I know it's easy to connect those dots when it's staring you in the face. If he was just an asshole, I would have screamed in face for all of eternity. Some people won't be swayed due to tribalism or stubbornness on whatever the issue may be and whatever 'side' they are on of said issue. There are true believers and people who vote out of ignorance (again, on whatever 'side' they are on) and everything in between. In my experience, people (including myself in some cases) sometimes will only care about something once it affects them or someone close to them. Humans are dicks.
You got it, man. I have been blessed to know people from all walks of life and help put things in perspective. The work you do on yourself has to be constant. My brother has been successfully raising two small humans and he's doing a great job with it all while circumstances haven't often been great. I'd be hard pressed or completely unable to do the same. We have not always had the best of relationships (probably the smallest issue being our political views) but we need each other and it's helped us get closer and come back to being brothers. I don't need or want him to be more similar than different than me. I don't need or want him to vote the way I do if that's not where his conscience leads him. I'm just happy he did a little self-reflection, thought about his choice, and given more facts and time, was able to swallow a little pride and admit that (in his own opinion) he made a mistake. It's no small thing to admit a mistake/change of mind sometimes. We are now listening to each other and learning from each other and figuring out our common ground.
You either have zero reading comprehension skills and/or are trolling if that's what you took away from my post. Unless things have changed, this isn't the forum for either of those, so I'm not going to perpetuate a circular conversation that adds nothing to this thread or forum. I've got nothing against you and we've always gotten along pretty well (imo) and I really don't care about any drama that apparently went down in my long absence from the board but I just don't have the energy to argue about a post that looks like t_d madlibs. Maybe that's on me. I'm okay with it. To paraphrase the greatest Christmas movie of all time, "Come out to The Lounge, we'll have a few laughs." If not, take care, bud.