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My wife let the other man do things that I have only been able to ask??

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Gemini10182

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about six months, me and my wife talked about doing a MFM threesome. We planned it out in our heads how it would go down. Fast forward it happened earlier today. Once it was the other man’s turn to have sex with her, after being penetrated, she suddenly starts moaning (really different than with me) talking in Spanish (she only talks in English any other time), I haven’t heard her speak any type of her native Spanish language in FOUR YEARS (which was the day we FIRST MET) until today. It’s like she let this other guy take over. I didn’t wanna look jealous or insecure so I held my tongue. After I was done, She allowed him to do anal and throat gag her (for about two minutes) and slap her face, choke her neck till it turned red she even let him ejaculate onto her face and even got it in her hair and nose. I was shocked as hell. I have asked her REPEATEDLY in the past to let me try these things with her but she ALWAYS dismissed it. I HAVE NEVER seen her behave like this, it was as if I wasn’t even there and I started to feel left out and got irritated. She even swore in her language as well. She has NEVER done or let me do ANY of these things to/with her. They kept going for like an HOUR AND A HALF until they were both sweaty after I was finished.
Hearing that from the kitchen made me cringe.

I felt like I got the short end of that whole ordeal like I wasn’t even there.
Was I wrong for not saying anything or stopping it from going too far?
 
Damn....threesomes are a slippery slope...shit can get uncomfortable very quickly if you aren't honest with yourself about what you are willing to allow. You should tell your wife you aren't comfortable with threesomes anymore because truth be told you are not. You take everything personal and are constantly comparing your experience to his instead of enjoying the fact that you have a woman that is sexually deviated enough to even participate.
 
You done fucked up letting that man near your women. If I was in your shoes id be very upset and feeling pretty damn low right about now. How do you even get over something like that? Just thinking of another man touching my women makes me angry. Could only imagine what you must have been feeling. Id probably screw her one last time and nut all over her face. ^^^As that member said, threesomes are a slippery slope.
 
Did u really think this would end well..I can understand swinging with couples but some dude just fucked your girls brains out and u were in the kitchen making them a sandwich..I would of prolly went insane and cut his dick off but that's just me in my crazy lil head
 
the dynamic with threesomes can so easily go wrong. its just so much different variables to take into account
 
I just can't help but wonder if a guy did his wife like this, he would automatically be an asshole, a pig, a dog, and etc...but a woman automatically gets the benefit of a doubt.
 
Yeah dude you fucked up the second you let someone else fuck your wife.

Honestly if your marriage is so fucked you have to bring in other people....

The basic rule of thumb with 3somes is two things, both parties in the relationship are there, the second is that it is the type of 3some both parties want.

If you let your wife do things you don't want in bed, you done lost the battle and you done lost your marriage. How do you think you can come back from this mentally?

Why did you let it get this far? I suppose you can talk to her and say lets start over, say you want a normal marriage and sex life, set down some mutual ground rules you both agree on, take her on a date, and hope for the best.

That a call all the divorce lawyers in town so you got the edge on the divorce.
 
haha he likes him more than you. Also she completely disrespects you for letting an other man fuck her and she shows it.
 
A lot of people feel more inhibited around a serious partner because they don't want that person to think less of them or lose respect if certain acts are done. And some people go all out in a random encounter because it feels like there is little to lose. And yes, this is a difficult thing to navigate.

I don't know how to save your situation. Even if she did those things with you now, they would feel forced and without passion. The memories of this will be hard to get past as long as you are with her. I hate to be that person online suggesting to just leave, but ya, I think at this point you may want to bail with the lesson learned.
 
This is very sad, and hurtful m did you talk to your wife about this afterward? I'm anxious to hear the outcome of all this, please keep us updated
 
Seriously though, it seems she tottally lost respect on you when you letted an other man fuck her, and she show this to you her way.
 
opiatekrzy said:
This is very sad, and hurtful m did you talk to your wife about this afterward? I'm anxious to hear the outcome of all this, please keep us updated
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She said that she didn't know why she did what she did, and smething just "took over"
 
Gemini10182 said:
hahaha to your mother bitch.
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This is productive. I kinda think you shouldn't have brought that dynamic in and meant to quote podface as well.

IME threesomes end with one party in tears, you are that one.

You really fucked up your marriage. You let this happen or suggested it, I forgot abd honestly don't care if it was your idea or not, it wouldn't happen in a relationship I was in. If I had to go thru that I would be all like "Bye Felicia" but if it was your idea I think you learned your lesson.

Either way I pronounce the time of death of your marriage the second you told your wife to fuck someone else.
 
This is why I'm scared to venture out and swing, for reasons like this.
Gemini, other than her saying something took over, is this gonna ruin your marriage?
 
opiatekrzy said:
This is why I'm scared to venture out and swing, for reasons like this.
Gemini, other than her saying something took over, is this gonna ruin your marriage?
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MOST LIKELY. I just have a feeling if a man did his wife like this with another woman, all hell would break loose The man would be an "asshole", insensitive, a douchebag, and people would be telling her to leave him, or GET REVENGE SEX, (which a lot of women do). But when it's the MAN that gets screwed over, the woman automatically gets all kinds of benefits of the doubt, or excuses for her "behavior". Oh she wasn't getting her needs at home, or wasn't satisfied right. But men gets ZERO sympathy, and we NEVER get the "benefit of the doubt when we screw up.
 
I just have a feeling if a man did his wife like this with another woman, all hell would break loose The man would be an "asshole", insensitive, a douchebag, and people would be telling her to leave him, or GET REVENGE SEX, (which a lot of women do). But when it's the MAN that gets screwed over, the woman automatically gets all kinds of benefits of the doubt, or excuses for her "behavior". Oh she wasn't getting her needs at home, or wasn't satisfied right. But men gets ZERO sympathy, and we NEVER get the "benefit of the doubt when we screw up.
 
^Damn dude reading between the lines I get the feeling you have trouble pleasing a woman.

Also kinda sexist and off topic as I am being.

I just realized this guy made this thread as part of his cuckold fetish and we are reinforcing it fo sho at least imho.

He only responded to the people talking shit to him so I think he likes the situation and wants to hear what a loser he is.
 
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