Boyfriend doesn't go down on me.

[Hurhel]

Lol I've got a hickey on my neck right now.

I love eating my girl's pussy so much.

I had a bet yesterday with her that whoever made it home first would get a blowjob/eaten out.

I won, but I ate her out anyway coz I love it!

Lucky girl!!

 

[Hurhel]

So what are you going to do about it? Talk to him? Leave him?

I wish it was that easy. Just to up and leave ...
We talked about the whole sex situation last night.
He doesn't want to have Sex during the week coz hes tired .
Which means only Saturday night is open for sex.
What to do ? Those are his feelings about sex right now. Quickies we can't really have coz it takes him over 45 minutes to come.

I guess I have to wait ...

 

[pofacedhoe]

Try 69? If he's easily grossed out by bodily fluid then eating you out should be easier when he's turned on and receiving pleasure.

good point

 

[pofacedhoe]

I wish it was that easy. Just to up and leave ...
We talked about the whole sex situation last night.
He doesn't want to have Sex during the week coz hes tired .
Which means only Saturday night is open for sex.
What to do ? Those are his feelings about sex right now. Quickies we can't really have coz it takes him over 45 minutes to come.

I guess I have to wait ...

bet he's looking at porn. i came way quicker during sex when i cut out porn for a month. instead of not cumming during anal sex i was cumming 10 mins into it

 

[rhun]

I wish it was that easy. Just to up and leave ...
We talked about the whole sex situation last night.
He doesn't want to have Sex during the week coz hes tired .
Which means only Saturday night is open for sex.
What to do ? Those are his feelings about sex right now. Quickies we can't really have coz it takes him over 45 minutes to come.

I guess I have to wait ...

I still don't get this. I have a 16 month old so I do get that it's a little harder when you have a baby. But not really. Until recently, we'd put him in his jumper or set him up with his toys and fuck on the couch. Or on the bed while he was napping. Or in the shower with the little guy parked in the bathroom in his high chair eating breakfast.

Now that he's a little older and more aware we no longer are so obvious. We try to fuck while he's asleep mostly but we still do it in the shower or under the covers while our son is playing with his toys in his play yard.

Are you just bitching about lack of sex or are you actively trying to get some? If I'm horny IDGAF if he's tired. And neither does he when he wakes up to me sucking his dick. If we can't fuck we fool around. Do you make out with your husband? Give each other massages? You gotta get yourself out of mom mode and make sure he isn't perceiving you that way too. Jump his bones.

45 minutes to come is a little ridiculous. I agree with PP, does he masturbate and/or watch porn? I would also try and figure out what gets him off quick. Get h turned on and tell him you guys can do WHATEVER he wants. Like just do something (fuck do everything) instead of complaining and being done over it.

There was a few months right after I had my son and the state of things down there, my body in general,and breastfeeding pretty much added up to no sex drive. But the biggest turn off was my son's father complaining about the lack of sex. If he had been aggressive and made the first move we would have started having sex again much sooner.

 

[pokepoke420]

Honestly, there are just some girls I don't like eating out. There are some girls I could go down on all day and night, and there are some I just can't. Some just have an odor/taste that aren't desirable. It's nothing against the chick, but we all got different flavors! I don't like strawberry, but I love chocolate. Does that make sense? Don't be self conscious about it though. Some girls like certain guys cum and will swallow, and that same girl won't even let another guy cum in their mouth after they've tasted it before.

I was hooking up with this beautiful Persian woman for a little while, but even after she showered, I still couldn't handle it. I could only do it when I was blacked out drunk. Again, it's nothing against her. Just wasn't my cup of tea.

 

[ghostandthedarknes]

Just tell him to go down or sleep on the couch. Serious, tell him this means a lot to you, and go from there.

 

[Illegitimate soul]

I've been feeling a bit self couse my bf hardly ever goes down on me. We're pretty new as far as relationships go, we've been dating for 3 months but have been fucking for 6. All around our relationship is great including our sex life, except for the fact that he doesn't seem to want to go down on me. He's done it twice before, once when he was drunk and once one of the first times we hooked up.

As far as hygiene goes I shower daily and wash my pussy twice in a row. I shave about once a week so I'm either cleanly shaven or there's just a bit of stubble. I have pretty big lips which I'm kinda self conscious about. I tend to produce a thick, creamy white discharge but that is my usual type (I'm on the pill and read up that that is normal) my pussy has a smell to it, but nothing fishy or gross just your average genital type smell I guess and I actually just tasted myself and it wasn't unpleasant to me.

It's really been bothering me because I feel like there's something wrong with my pussy, like it's undesirable or something. I know that some men simply don't like it or think that it's gross and I wonder if that's the kinda guy he is. If anybody could provide some input I'd really appreciate it, especially the men. I definitely plan on asking him about it, I'd just like some perspective first.[/QUOT.


Some guys just don't value a good cooter.

 

[LandsUnknown]

He sounds selfish, very selfish.

 

[Bagseed]

Just tell him to go down or sleep on the couch. Serious, tell him this means a lot to you, and go from there.

it's funny how this seems to be kind of acceptable, but if a man would say the same thing to a woman, not so much anymore....

 

[belligerent drunk]

^ double standards, my friend.

 

[Cosmic Trigger]

Do you go down on him? If so, stop until he goes down on you.

That should do it.

 

[giantsnmets]

To me thats insane. If you don't count quickies, specific times girl wanted to just give me BJ or HJ, And "special" type sex, like role playing or something I have probably gone down on the girl for a few minutes, but mostly until she comes probably 90-95% of the times I have had sex. To me nothing is sexier than making a girl come with my mouth. When I have made her orgasm super quick, or multiple within a few mins or less it is 10x better than if I got a BJ. and when I know shes freshly showered and I want to go the extra mile occasionally I'll spend some time eating her ass, and it's pretty cool when a girl gets off from that.
When I see a woman that I am attracted to big time my first thought is I'd love to lick her.
Most of the time with my long term gf the issue was opposite, while the idea of going down on a woman makes me hard, she is not especially a fan of BJ's, she liked doing it some of the time like to get me hard or going, but in situations where a GF or something would give you a BJ, she tends to give a HJ. She is not good at it all, and she knows it so I have a feeling that plays into it. I know I lick good, that almost make me love it more. So maybe he was told he is not good at it or something.
I did have an ex that did have a different smell than any other I've come across, so it probably cut me doing it in 1/2 but the main reason I didn't do it is because no matter what it took at least 45min for her to get off. And before thinking its me, it for sure is not, most any other who I've been with would at least say I know what I'm doing, even when she played with herself she said a quick masturbation session for her was 30 min. A friend of mine dated her years later, said same thing, and her eventual husband that was a friend of a friend said many times getting her off is like a chore. So if you take forever to orgasm, that could play a role.
But overall if A. what you want is him to go down on you, not always to completion, but maybe as a warm up and to get you going. B. To completion a few times a week, C. You are normal meaning orgasm within a few minutes, but under 10 or 15, Then he is the problem. Honestly I had a friend complain about the same thing to me that her husband literally did it like 5 times ever, I used to say I'll hook you up nothing needed in return, and was only kidding because didn't want to cheat on my GF, then I found out afterwards my GF was telling her and others when they chatted when some of them complained that I always did it and was amazing, that friend called me on it and when she separated with her husband many times I just went down on her, and on purpose looked for nothing else, and didn't try. Turns out she told me that was one of the sexiest things she ever did, thought it was hot I went down on her and after she came 4 or 5 times, stopped and didn't ask for anything back. My point on going on and on about this is I have many male friends that are somewhat close to my thinking and a few that like it but don't love it, only 1 I know hates it, and he is that girl I just mentioned Ex husband.

 

[Lennon Marley]

Hope you're feeling Ok, as feeling insecure can be horrible. I agree with the other comments, "talk to him". However, to be honest, if you have tasted yourself, and you're ok with it, he's being selfish and maybe needs a chat about needs and sharing. Some guys really don't like it, but feeling comfortable and safe can be the key here...... I personally, think it's good to explore bodies, likes and personal pleasure. Hope all goes well.......and go for it, talk to him.......