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we will wish evey the best

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however, if there is even the slightest hint of uncivil and disruptive communication either here or in eadd about this you will be dealt with using the highest order of the bl disciplinary system with extreme prejudice
Really? This makes me want to visit Bluelight even less than I currently do. I wasn't a fan of how EADD was affected by evey, so I'm not unhappy about the decision, but I'd prefer reading her bollocks over this shit, any day. I've no idea if you're actually alright, but you seem to be right up there with OTW, when it comes to perfect examples of wankers that make EADD such an alien place to visit.

This place really has gone to shit.
 
^ not a commemoration. it's an avenue for people to discuss the decision.

again, to further clarify, that comment was made based on a previous sentiment shared by the eadd mods that if evey was to leave members would celebrate the restriction of her access and bash her. if you wish to level criticism at me, then that's perfectly fine. i'd encourage to do so here or approach me by pm.
 
^ not a commemoration. it's an avenue for people to discuss the decision.

again, to further clarify, that comment was made based on a previous sentiment shared by the eadd mods that if evey was to leave members would celebrate the restriction of her access and bash her. if you wish to level criticism at me, then that's perfectly fine. i'd encourage to do so here or approach me by pm.


That's all well and good, but it's not how it comes across.
 
Inevitable, if a little sad.

For those arguing that this will cause Evey some kind of harm, I honestly believe you're overreacting. What's more harmful, continuing to let the (understandable) resentment toward Evey foment, as it has continued to do for a long time, regardless of any (marginal) improvements in her demeanour? Or making a decision which ultimately benefits the majority of the forum's users?

I think maybe there are some feelings of guilt fuelling this reaction, as I've seen some highly 'critical' posts about Evey from people who are now expressing their dismay at her ban.

I'm a firm believer that it's much crueller on the individual concerned (as well as the wider community) if the rules are consistently bent in order to accommodate them - it can often make them feel as if their disruptive behaviour is being validated to an extent (see Farmaz) and thus make them value their 'special' place in the community all the more. When they revert to their old ways (as Evey was consistently observed to do) and the consequent disciplinary action is taken, it has all the more emotional impact.

I'm sure Evey's feeling bad, and that's terrible, but just look at the last few days in Gibberings alone. That tells a far better story than I ever could.

And with that, eff yez all. Ní bheidh mo leithéid arís ann. ;)

I'm absolutly stunned how you could say that, after staff have been so tolerant towards you and your return after you actually attempted to get perma-banned with deliberate racism.
 
I'm absolutly stunned how you could say that, after staff have been so tolerant towards you and your return after you actually attempted to get perma-banned with deliberate racism.

That's entirely different from being a persistent nuisance though, isn't it?

Were I doing the same thing every week without fail, you may have a point. As it is, you're talking through yer top hat. Again. Moving on...
 
That's all well and good, but it's not how it comes across.

thank you for the rapid forgiveness. i apologize. wrong choice of words. i was trying to coordinate making this announcement in four different places. it was just something that was previously stressed. when i said "disruption about this" by "this" i meant in relation to people making fun of her for being banned. i don't think that would be right. i don't think any other cases of disruption should be welcome as well but they'll be treated on a case-by-case basis. comments are welcome as long as they're fair and balanced and the intention behind them is progressive discussion.
 
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I rarely post but what is the story about evey...........I've been a lurker/rare poster for ages and I've seen her post a lot but I've never seen anything offensive am I missing something?
 
Surely if people get pissed off with what Evey says then just block her and you won't have to see what she says.
 
Im also a rare poster, lurker, relatively new but also think it's pretty wide to do to someone especially if theyre vulnerable - unless they have got well personal or something? e.g. Racism. I'm already nervous and insecure enough about how I come across on here and in life in general in fact, just hope I dont annoy people enough that they want me banned lol

Sorry if i got it wrong but thats just how i feel.
 
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Im newish and only a part timer here but good luck evey. I feel a bit sad for her but respect the decision, as it sounds like it wasnt taken lightly. Im sure she will move on

apolagies didnt think:o
 
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What has being disabled got anything to do with it? I have no clue what the fuck you lot argue about, but I can't see why being disabled allows your own set of rules. How the fuck can you get banned from a forum anyway? Apart from being an absolute cunt, or selling drugs. Evey don't go doing anything dumb because of a forum ban. YA GET ME.
 
I hope you all feel very proud of yourselves, kicking a disabled person when she was trying to pick herself up from rock bottom.

I'm genuinely puzzled as to whom this is aimed. Maybe it's just knee-jerk hand-wringing, or maybe you can see some posts that I and others can't.

In any case, as has been repeated several times, Bluelight should not really be the main factor in Evey's attempts to 'pick herself up from rock bottom', if indeed 'rock bottom' is a fair description of where she is. I wouldn't know.

Wouldn't it be great if Evey were to use the time away from Bluelight in order to get the real professional help which she was constantly advised to seek, rather than dedicating her life to, and staking her happiness on, a bloody drugs forum? A social subforum at that?
 
...when she didn't do recreational drugs herself and made no bones about the fact that she looked down upon people who did (although sometimes intimating she'd been inspired to try heroin by hanging out here).

How could they deprive her of such a vital tool in her recovery?
 
I hope you all feel very proud of yourselves, kicking a disabled person when she was trying to pick herself up from rock bottom.

You what ?? I see no kicking of anyone and I certainly see no reason to reference a relatively minor disability that has absolutely no bearing on this sorry situation, if anything it's patronising.

'Proud' .......is it not the BL staff team that have taken this decision ....are you not part of that team ???

As far as kicking people, I guess it was fine for a member to persistently call staff cunts and Nazis and claim they were being victimised by staff for personnel reasons whilst you ( yes you ) stood by and did sweet FA about it.....inaction has led to this and you are as responsible as any other staff member ....deal with it or stop blaming others.

May be if you had engaged a little more on how to deal with this in the past rather than the 'do nothing' approach we wouldnt be in this mess now ??
 
Thisplace is a fucking shadow of it's former self. An inability to integrate evey and keep her under control is fucking pathetic, she's about as problematic as some spilled milk and y'all bitches crying about it.

Seriously, it's fucking lame. She's difficult and can be annoying but does she really ever do any real damage? No.

If you think she needs removing because she winds up other users then you're a fucking pussy and all the people getting so wound up by her that you're referring to are pussies too. Have a word with yourselves you wetbags.


Oh, keep it civil right....8(

As you were.
 
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