The ANGRY thread v3

[alasdairm]

... for one i am not gay and 2nd ive no need for these sort of sites

sure. sure.

right im not going to name names but when you contact a mod you expect a reply after a while especially when you basically begging for help now this has happened twice now ive just been fobbed off not and totally against what bluelight stands for

when i was staff member, i tried as hard as possible to provide a response to any pm in a timely fashion. bluelight staff are all volunteers and it's possible they may not be able to respond as fast as either of you would like.

if the pm was bl business (e.g. reopening a closed thread, help with the archive or whatever) you could try pm'ing the other forum staff or reporting the post in question to bring it t the attention of all forum staff. if that doesn't work, escalate the issue to the smods who oversee eadd.

i understand that you perhaps feel entitled to a certain level of 'customer service' at bluelight and may be frustrated but, to be frank, moaning about this kind of thing publicly and throwing staff under the bus doesn't seem like the most productive way to solve the problem, does it?

alasdair

 

[foolsgold]

since when did i throw any one under a bus first off its was before Christmas when i asked and it was a plea for help when i was really screwed up and suicidal and sorry but alasdair your attitude these last two day has been very bitchy like every damn comment is a personal attack on you and i dont like been talked down to like that

 

[alasdairm]

you're in the forum, publicly whining about forum staff and i'm the bitchy one?

ok.



if you're having issues with which you need help and you're feeling suicidal, then that is awful. maybe you'll find that bluelight's the dark side is a better place to get help than the staff of a regional drug discussion and social forum?

alasdair

 

[alasdairm]

fg, please take my comments at face value. i know it sounds like i'm being bitchy but, in some of your comments recently - and in some comments by other eadd'ers - there's a sense of entitlement on display that i find out of keeping with a community such as this and eadd in particular.

for me, posting on bluelight is a privilege but some people (and i am not referring to you specifically here) use this placeas if it's some kind of right. rudely (perhaps inadvertantly) demanding help from moderators, taking but not giving back, expecting others to do stuff for them that they're quite able to do themselves, etc.

alasdair

 

[Allein]

right im not going to name names but when you contact a mod you expect a reply after a while especially when you basically begging for help now this has happened twice now ive just been fobbed off not and totally against what bluelight stands for

I don't know who you contacted, can't have been me we exchanged messages last night, we all have various shit going down IRL I suspect it's nothign more than that.

Drop me a line of I can help, I'm on a roll having managed to not only get through the day at work but got a whole load of stuff off my plate....didnt even do that cheeky bump till 1PM

 

[SummerSerenade]

Pissed right off and feel like I just have to write it because it feels like my head is going to explode. Nothing major major (that I know of at least...) but lots of small to medium shit things that have added up over the last day and now I feel like punching someone.

Also was running down the stairs just now (I really should know better with stairs after last month) and of course I fell down half of them, almost did a very impressive roll and smashed my arm on the bannister. Swelled up instantly and is now massively bruised and hurts like fuck. Knowing my luck at the moment I've probably broken it or something.

This is what happens when you (don't) take drugs. 8)

 

[Sprout]

Postie didn't turn up, damn him!
My mail is clearly the most important bit of mail circulating the Northern Hemisphere!

Sarcasm aside, how's your arm now, Summer?

 

[SummerSerenade]

My postie did turn up and my arm isn't nearly as bad as I thought it was. The sun has even come out. So today is definitely an improvement on yesterday so far. Thanks for asking

 

[Pagey]

I'm angry, furious, disgusted, shocked, scared by the election results.

Fuck this absolute bullshit. I'm feeling more and more like I've been written into an Orwellian novel. Really thought we had a fucking chance for improvement this time.

If I see Cameron's gloaty, shiny, sweaty, obnoxious, piglike face one more time I might just break something.

 

[StoneHappyMonday]

In other news, you look quite like my gf when naked and from behind.

Well you do. (shrug)

 

[Urbain]

Offft.

 

[felix]

I just looked up the definition of the word "inappropriate".

edit: "decorum" was the other word word I was racking my drunken brain for.

 

[StoneHappyMonday]

Why?

 

[felix]

Why?

Why? For someone as right-on as yourself, I'm surprised it needs spelled out.

 

[joe90]

She looks like your girlfriends naked arse ?

 

[StoneHappyMonday]

Well I wasn't the one who put naked pics of myself on here so others could comment on them. What's right-on got to do with nakedness? I don't have a problem with the naked female or male form. And its a fact Pagey looks just like my gf from behind.

What's inappropriate?

 

[StoneHappyMonday]

She looks like your girlfriends naked arse ?

Her arse does yes. And she poses the same. And she's about the same stature.

WTF is wrong with you lot? Ask Pagey if she thinks my comment was inappropriate.

 

[StoneHappyMonday]

I just looked up the definition of the word "inappropriate".

edit: "decorum" was the other word word I was racking my drunken brain for.

I don't think dignity was at the forefront of her mind in the pictures. They were fairly classy though. Well, the one I'm commenting on was. Dunno about the pussy shot. Dignity is something else.

 

[felix]

In context:

I'm angry, furious, disgusted, shocked, scared by the election results.

Fuck this absolute bullshit. I'm feeling more and more like I've been written into an Orwellian novel. Really thought we had a fucking chance for improvement this time.

If I see Cameron's gloaty, shiny, sweaty, obnoxious, piglike face one more time I might just break something.

In other news, you look quite like my gf when naked and from behind.

Well you do. (shrug)

That.

Is that how you would speak to a 21 year old woman in real life, if she said that to you?

I'm not the most PC person in the world, but come on.

Well I wasn't the one who put naked pics of myself on here so others could comment on them. What's right-on got to do with nakedness? I don't have a problem with the naked female or male form. And its a fact Pagey looks just like my gf from behind.

What's inappropriate?

Discussion threads are separate entities.

That wasn't fucking cool or funny at all. Think about it.

 

[StoneHappyMonday]

You're pissed too I see.

I was providing a light-hearted response. See if Pagey disapproves before you get on your pissed high horses.

Jesus Christ.

Pagey spends quite some time in this thread berating the world around her. I didn't think a distracting comment would go amiss. You're being the right on idiot missing the context Felix.

Probably because you're pissed.