Gibberings CLXXXVI - Social Internet Chatting Since 1998

[Don Luigi]

No, none at all.

She was always the alternative, sort of gothy type. When she had come out to others before telling me, her countenance had changed a bit and I commented on it but I just thought she was being a wee bit eccentric. Just to clarify, this is a biological male. They have never been overly effeminate and always a realmetal head who can really shred on guitar. For some reason, I see these as solid bloke qualities haha.

I thought she was taking the piss when she first told me, until she showed me that the hands were bald. For some reason, I see this as a solid female quality.

Can'ta fault a bit of solid.

 

[Sadie]

Awww Don, you're such a lovely boy and an awesome mate.

I knew I always liked you, I just always thought it was because of your pervy nature though

And no, you CAN'T fault a bit of solid!!!!

 

[Eveleivibe]

I wonder how Scotchy went in his Christening. I hope it went ok. He's a great mod he is fair play. Has anyone heard from Allein?

Evey

 

[BigG]

No, none at all.

She was always the alternative, sort of gothy type. When she had come out to others before telling me, her countenance had changed a bit and I commented on it but I just thought she was being a wee bit eccentric. Just to clarify, this is a biological male. They have never been overly effeminate and always a realmetal head who can really shred on guitar. For some reason, I see these as solid bloke qualities haha.

I thought she was taking the piss when she first told me, until she showed me that the hands were bald. For some reason, I see this as a solid female quality.

Can'ta fault a bit of solid.

How old is she Don?

 

[Don Luigi]

She's 29.

She says she's always known and was, until a few months ago, in a relationship with a woman. I knew she'd been going to counseling for years but I always just thought it was just for the usual anxiety/depression. She only likes women so she considers herself a lesbian.

Obviously, it's been too soon for her to have started any sort of hormone treatment so who knows what path her mind will dander down in the period until then.

 

[BigG]

I was just wondering whether it would be easier being younger or older coming out...especially in a small town where everyone knows everyone else and wants to know everyone else's business.

I guess it would be tough whatever age but maybe being younger (I class 29 as young) may be slightly easier than being older.

You are a good friend to her being so supportive.

 

[Eveleivibe]

She's 29.

She says she's always known and was, until a few months ago, in a relationship with a woman. I knew she'd been going to counseling for years but I always just thought it was just for the usual anxiety/depression. She only likes women so she considers herself a lesbian.

Obviously, it's been too soon for her to have started any sort of hormone treatment so who knows what path her mind will dander down in the period until then.

Hope it works out for her.
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Note to the masses who enjoyed ripping me apart n saying I'm disruptive etc - you do realise I spent hours the day before I returned, creating a post in Support, affectively defending EADD---and the people, community here etc? Has anyone actually read it? I took a lot of time in producing that so please no more automatically thinking the worst of me.
Please at least read my post defending EADD

http://www.bluelight.org/vb/threads...ashamed-of-The-Shrine?p=12831338#post12831338
It's quite long as I felt passionate about EADD n it's how I felt from the heart about the community etc. thank yiiu it appreciated.

Evey

 

[One Thousand Words]

On a lighter note: the walls of my flat are so thin I can hear my neighbours fart.
I can also hear, word for word, the domestic arguments from 2-7am, before being treated to the delightful sounds of 'make-up sex'.

It got to the point I began playing Death Metal on my speakers at full volume, they stopped soon after. I can only assume Cannibal Corpse's I Cum Blood was not conducive to the atmosphere.

You should wait for a low in the conversation and shout out, "she's right you know!"

 

[BecomingJulie]

I'm absolutely hanging together today. I stayed at my friend's house last night, who has just recently come out as being transgender. The copious amounts of drink really helped to normalise things and get some tough questions asked.

Another one Say hi from me ..... 29 sounds like a good age to do it, wish I hadn't waited so long .....

 

[Sprout]

At one point during the 'amorous' proceedings, I debated knocking on to ask 'can I join in? 'Cause it sure sounds like a lot of *fucking* fun!'. I then reminded myself the dude was over a foot taller than myself and of a build a pro-wrestler would envy...

 

[Sadie]

You should wait for a low in the conversation and shout out, "she's right you know!"

I'm sat in a silent room with my headphones on and burst out laughing so hard at that it made the damn dog jump!!!!! That's bloody hilarious! YASSSSSSS

 

[Don Luigi]

You should wait for a low in the conversation and shout out, "she's right you know!"

Haha. Yes!

Reminds me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzfGvq7bWI0

Another one Say hi from me ..... 29 sounds like a good age to do it, wish I hadn't waited so long .....

If you don't want to answer, tis' fine, but at what age did you come out?

People are commending me for being a good mate but I don't see it as that. I just see it as being mates, and support in this sort of thing is not something you can separate from being mates. She has not slighted me or betrayed me so nothing should change. Nobody has disowned her over it, but there are a few people who have become virtual strangers; were your friends ok with it/how long did it take for it to feel normal?

 

[ScotchMist]

Evening all,

Gotta say reading the past few pages haven't been very pleasant.

Appears like nothing more than bullying to me..! Evey has no doubt deserved some harsh words in the past due to her behaviour but since her return I've seen nothing to warrant what she's had thrown at her this evening.

She's putting a brave face on but id imagine it's hurt her quite a lot...

I dont know what to say really, I'm pretty supprised at some of you..

 

[ColtDan]

I can't believe you're trying to persuade someone who is known on this site to have severe addiction problems, currently receiving treatment and has a repeated tendency to attempt an OD, to take more stronger drugs.

Lol. DMT is none addictive, harmless, & is known to help people

 

[ponch]

Evening all,

Gotta say reading the past few pages haven't been very pleasant.

Appears like nothing more than bullying to me..! Evey has no doubt deserved some harsh words in the past due to her behaviour but since her return I've seen nothing to warrant what she's had thrown at her this evening.

She's putting a brave face on but id imagine it's hurt her quite a lot...

I dont know what to say really, I'm pretty supprised at some of you..

Indeed, some pretty harsh stuff posted but at the same time you can understand peoples frustrations. It's not just about today but a gradual build up of emotions.

 

[Sadie]

What Scotch said....


Now, Can we please end this topic of conversation. Not only is it repetitive it has become non productive ( I'll bite my tongue here )

MOVING ALONG PEOPLE......

 

[Raasyvibe]

Lol. DMT is none addictive, harmless, & is known to help people

No Dan, yet some of the other drugs you suggested certainly are. You've been asking her to take DMT, stimulants (speed variety I assume) and I think MXE. DMT also is one of the - if not the - strongest psychedelic there is... considering you previously agreed to a post by Kate that she may have psychological problems, do you really think it's a good idea to facebook her youtube videos to get her excited???

 

[Eveleivibe]

Scotchy how did the Christening go?

Just finished reading to lilEvey. Think Enid Blyton was wise n maybe this may sound daft but I've learnt a thing or two from reading her books.
Anyway off to listen to Ella Henderson, have a cuppa tea n chill out.

Nos da

Evey

 

[Sprout]

I'm shocked to hear of the negativity surrounding your friend's decision, Don.
Is transgenderism still such a taboo that people become 'complete strangers' if one expresses a gender-identity issue?!

To me, it seems absurd that such archaic, baseless opposition still exists.

I wish your friend all the best.

 

[p4nda]

Missing my Irish Cream so much, it's horrible.

Corgis are so amazingly cute