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Gibberings CLXXXVI - Social Internet Chatting Since 1998

Kate, we've never had an issue before and you've always been lovely whenever we have spoken, but the comment about 'finding peace in 2 bottles of wine' is quite offensive. Many here, myself included, struggle with substance abuse, the forum exists to reduce the associated harms, not make scathing judgements.

If I 'find my peace' in a Morphine pill bottle, am I automatically an unfit parent?

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"The positive was I was going to try but be honest - but true to type she wasn't interested in listening or even discussing it. Just put me on ignore. Some way to deal with the world eh, no wonder she has so many issues. Bless her, its a shame for her and her family

@Kate, you are certainly right about this.
I just can´t edit this right.
 
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What everyone is trying to say, but being too kind about it. Is that she's a cunt. She needs to sort her life out or have her child put into care where it can be raised by someone who doesn't have so many things going wrong for them.
 
SproutOnSmack said:
Kate, we've never had an issue before and you've always been lovely whenever we have spoken, but the comment about 'finding peace in 2 bottles of wine' is quite offensive. Many here, myself included, struggle with substance abuse, the forum exists to reduce the associated harms, not make scathing judgements.

If I 'find my peace' in a Morphine pill bottle, am I automatically an unfit parent?

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True im in treatment for alcohol n opiate dependence. Alcohol is a drug.

Please can we all drop this now n go back to having a laugh. I really dont want this drama.

PLUR <3 (peace, love, unity n respect as Knock once told me)

Has anyone ever tried green tea suppliments?

Evey
 
breakcorefiend said:
yet again more truth, hopefully this will help evey to rethink her attitude to this place, i mean that in the nicest possible way, we don't need more of the prominent members sacking this place off, already lost a fair few from phase 1

I miss jancrow n ptch

Was speaking to jancrow on fb, he is doing very well btw in case anyone wanted to know :)
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Miss Jan too... why isn't he here???
 
Sorry folks if some of you have found my posts offensive or "bullying" today. Do you want me to delete them? Then I'll go back to being sweety eadd mummy with no opinions or concerns.

I do sincerely apologise for ruining your browsing.


Glad to hear Jancrow is ok - I miss him a lot too. And parttime x
 
On a lighter note: the walls of my flat are so thin I can hear my neighbours fart.
I can also hear, word for word, the domestic arguments from 2-7am, before being treated to the delightful sounds of 'make-up sex'.

It got to the point I began playing Death Metal on my speakers at full volume, they stopped soon after. I can only assume Cannibal Corpse's I Cum Blood was not conducive to the atmosphere.
 
Wenlock said:
What everyone is trying to say, but being too kind about it. Is that she's a cunt. She needs to sort her life out or have her child put into care where it can be raised by someone who doesn't have so many things going wrong for them.
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Check it out.... has Wenlock been lurking on Evey??

No one with join date December 2014 would already know THAT MUCH about ANY member here, surely?
 
Wenlock said:
What everyone is trying to say, but being too kind about it. Is that she's a cunt. She needs to sort her life out or have her child put into care where it can be raised by someone who doesn't have so many things going wrong for them.
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Not me.
 
I miss Ptch Too. We actually had some good debates n he exactly got me to rethink n change my viewpoints on a lot of things.

I said stuff to him in jest but I highly double he left here over me. He's been on this forum since 2007 n all the people hes disagreed with i highly doubt I'd drive him away.

Someone said he was starting a dj business, right? Well then he's probably putting his efforts into that.

I found PTCH to be an intelligent n humerous post but if he's left isn't coming back there's lot a lot we can do about it.

People come people go. It's how it works in a forum. Maybe PTCH will one day return like Chatty, Sadie, Kingme, kid n a few others have. Maybe he wont.

Nonetheless I wish him all the best n is happy n enjoying life.

Wenlock said:
What everyone is trying to say, but being too kind about it. Is that she's a cunt. She needs to sort her life out or have her child put into care where it can be raised by someone who doesn't have so many things going wrong for them.
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Feedback is noted.

lurching said:
Check it out.... has Wenlock been lurking on Evey??

No one with join date December 2014 would already know THAT MUCH about ANY member here, surely?
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Google Henri Tajfel's minimalists ecperiments. In-group favouritism out-group discrimination.
And Janis' Groupthink
Very interesting studies of group behaviour.

im sure that anyone who has seen videos of lilvidr n I interacting, and photos, will have no issues with my care of her or with her wellbeing. I don't think kinds to be concerned about would be smiling n laughing. [\b]

Evey
 
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Eveleivibe said:
True im in treatment for alcohol n opiate dependence. Alcohol is a drug.

Please can we all drop this now n go back to having a laugh. I really dont want this drama.

PLUR (peace, love, unity n respect as Knock once told me)

Has anyone ever tried green tea suppliments?

Evey
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Hi Evey.

As also a mom, i could help you.
I was 21 when i got pregnant and my ex and myself were pretty much into stimulants, i quitted everything when i got the "happy" news about my pregnancy. I was really deppressed during my pregnancy especially after i stopped smoking weed.
I didn't drink or anything until i "recently" moved out and i share a custody and i have time for myself.
Drinking and doing d is really horrible if you are taking care of your child!
Control your temptations, get some help, have fun when you know you got everything cleared up and under control.
Sharing is caring =D

I'll be glad to help anytime, i helped people before since i am not a stuck up person and basiclly a really nice person, braging =D

Green tea is my favourite, great and healthy boost :)
 
Every time you refer to 'lilvibe', I wonder whether you're referring to a pocket-sized sex toy.

Not that I'm implying that your daughter is, um, a.pocket-sized sex toy, you understand.
 
Sammy G said:
How many chances has she had already, Summer?

Nobody's being judgemental. Just airing legitimate concerns.
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Lots of chances yeah, but it's been what... 3 months now? Maybe during that time she's thought about her previous behaviour and from what I can see she seems to be trying to rectify it. People can always change, always, but if people just assume the worst and start making the same snidey comments as soon as Evey's come back then I really can't see how the situation is ever going to be different to how it was before.

breakcorefiend said:
evey came back literally on the minute her ban was lifted n resumed the usual, any time there's criticism she either ignores or kicks off, she steers most threads to her own agenda, I could go on.. i wont though..
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I haven't been able to see this at all. Maybe she's ignoring criticism because she's trying to be the better person and not cause arguments? I haven't noticed any kicking off or any of what you said since she's been back. I can see that for once I'm Mrs Unpopular opinion though so I think I'll leave it at that. If Evey starts being a dick again I'll be the first to say I was wrong but for now? Seriously, lay off her. Everyone deserves somewhere to vent and I think people should be free to post whatever the fuck they want without having the shit ripped out of them for it.

<3
 
I'm not drinking to the extent I was. I've only drank Friday n Saturday evening n it was cause my little one was staying with relatives n I was celebrating coming back on Bluelight (sad, I know hahaha but I love it here).
I'll pm you later if that's ok as just going through door. I just needed to mention that about the drinking to put any misconceptions to bed.
Thanks for your post its appreciated. Hope you n child are ok.

Sammy G said:
Every time you refer to 'lilvibe', I wonder whether you're referring to a pocket-sized sex toy.

Not that I'm implying that your daughter is, um, a.pocket-sized sex toy, you understand.
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hahahahaha ok Sammy G, for you, I'll refer to her as lilEvey :D
Better?

Evey
 
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