You've just agreed with me: you're basically saying homosexuality is something that can/should be cured - that's homophobia 101 (and btw homophobia means fear, not hatred of gays (actually homophobia literally means fear of something that's the same as you)). Saying homosexuals are equal to heterosexuals because they can both have heterosexual sex if they want is just complete bollocks any way you look at it - surely you can see it's not an argument.
Christianity opposes love in the form of an "impure" way, drawing a distinction between desires of the flesh, and that of the spirit. (Romans 8:6) using your body and desires in a way that glorifies God (1corinthians 10-31).
This opposition to what is considered false or perverse passions, is just as applicable to heterosexualism:
Matthew 5:28" I say to you that he who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart"[
So if it's homophobic, it's also heterophobic. Basically it would hate all people except asexuals.
Is it homophobic to say homosexual activity is wrong? It depends on how you define Homophobia. Most definitions (And I've just googled about 5) tend to suggest it is an aversion, or negativity towards people who identify themselves with being homosexuals.
google: "dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people"
Dictionary.com" unreasoning fear of or antipathy toward homosexuals and homosexuality. "
Oxford dictionary "Dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people."
m-w :"irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals "
But Christ does not teach of hate and dislike of sexual sinners, it teaches of love and respect to those who sin sexually. The precise opposite to these definitions.
John chapter 8:
When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
11 She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
"Neither do I condemn thee", being the key words of Jesus here. Christians should follow such attitude, when dealing with the subject of sexual sin.
Homophobia, is a dislike or prejudice against those who identify themselves with being gay. Christianity teaches love and forgiveness to those who sin sexually. This is why I do not think it should be defined "homophobic".
(if ya gonna disagree with all of this regardless, at least do it dignifiedly. I've spent ages writing that concisely and digging out all the appropriate verses off google.
MistyPants said:
You've lost me Raas.. Your posts contain as many contradictions as the bible itself.
How can Intercourse between the same sex is wrong be construed as anything but hateful and opposition to it
So it depends on precise definition. Homophobia seems to refer to a dislike or aversion to homosexuals, where Christiannity teaches the precise opposite. It does however dislike homosexual activity, I don't think the term "homophobia" quite fits this description. Correct me if you feel it does.
The term "phobia" also connotes fear and aversion, which arent really words associated with a Christian approach - following the teachings of Jesus and NT .
virtual said:
I've tried but you just don't seem to be getting the christian message

, just some over-literal logic-twisting word game using an arbitrary bunch of translated documents as if they were some magic almanac that answers all queries.
I'm expounding Christian held beliefs with appropriate verses, so that you know i'm structured and it can be validated.
Virtual said:
The glowing heart of your religion which i keep on higlighting does answer all questions, but it has to go via your own reason and your heart (or you have to work it out yourself, not get the answer from some 2000 year old authority from a desert). Maybe one day you'll learn how to do grown up christianity grasshopper
It takes into account our fallibility (We can't even decide amongst us whether homosexual intercourse is right or wrong) and gives scripture to lend support to our "own reason and heart". That's why I'm a Christian, the bible coincides with discerned reason and is much more than a "bunch of fairytales" as ColtDan described it.
But then ColtDan is a true great theological expert who knows all, so probably best disregarding all this converse.