My current boyfriend doesn't understand Bluelight, well more like can't understand the point of talking to a load of strangers on the internet about drugs. Before he met me, he couldn't be bothered with the internet, and had hardly used it, preferring to live his life. I had to teach him his way around a PC properly. I think if he'd had access to his own computer things would be different.
He calls it Redlight, and says it's basically a dating site for druggies (He teases me as I've met a few of my boyfriends via BL)
He does see the Harm reduction side of it as being a good idea, but still teases me and sticks to his point about why spend your time talking about drugs when you could be taking them and living your life.