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Beautiful_disaster

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Well basically, me and my bf have been seeing each other for about 6 months now and at first he really wanted to see me all the time and go out and do things. Recently he's just not got any time for me. He has two jobs, is in a band, plays online games with his friends and plays football. He literally has something on most evenings and never has any time for us to do anything together. He finishes work and always has to do other work and then plays online games with his friends till the early hours. He only ever has like one evening a week after I finish work (bearing in mind i work 12 hour shifts yet i'm always happy to make time for him) to do something. He makes plans to see me on the weekend and then says on the day he is too busy with work related things.
Is he just messing me around?
 
Beautiful_disaster said:
Well basically, me and my bf have been seeing each other for about 6 months now and at first he really wanted to see me all the time and go out and do things. Recently he's just not got any time for me. He has two jobs, is in a band, plays online games with his friends and plays football. He literally has something on most evenings and never has any time for us to do anything together. He finishes work and always has to do other work and then plays online games with his friends till the early hours. He only ever has like one evening a week after I finish work (bearing in mind i work 12 hour shifts yet i'm always happy to make time for him) to do something. He makes plans to see me on the weekend and then says on the day he is too busy with work related things.
Is he just messing me around?
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I think you need to speak to him, I work 8-6 mon to friday and still have time to spend with a gf, if not then I make time saying I am spending the day with my gf rather than friends, of course I will always make time for my friends too. it's getting the balance right.

I think he is taking you for granted.
 
Most every relationship has a honeymoon period that comes to end. You just have to talk to him and find out what is going on with him and BOTH agree to make more time for each other. If he can't give you what you need maybe the relationship has run its course. You'll never know what the deal is just by trying to second guess him.
 
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