Good thinking. Quite a lot of posters are lurkers for a few months before they become posters. So welcome to the Bluelight (BL) family.
If you'd like a thread where you could get to know Bluelighters and Greenlighters You may be interested in the
New Members Introductions (NMI) Social Thread . There also an
Adoption Programme which is basically a programme where current members (Bluelighters) befriend new members (Greenlighters) and help them settle into the site. If you decided that you'd like to become "adopted," feel welcome to post a reply to the adoption thread, expressing your interest which a bit about you (if you wish). The thread is also one of the sticky threads at the top of New Members Introductions (NMI) sub-forum.
If you're looking to speak to people who may be more local to you, you may also wish to check out
North and South American Social & Drug Discussion .
Please feel free to ask any question re site.
Hope you have an ace BL experience!
Evey