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Ladies, would you like to be pampered by your man? What if he was really good at it!

little BIG Pecker

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Ladies, would you like to be pampered by your man...

Would you like it if your man gave you body & foot massages everyday, gave you oral sex often (like when you got off a long day of work), kissed your feet, cooked you breakfast, cuddled & gave you a lot of sweet kisses all over.

What if we was really good it, hand great hands for massaging and touching, and was great with his tongue...

And your man of course would not be needy. He'd be a non-jealous type guy.. A really laid back type of guy that enjoys giving you pleasure.. He's just a man that wants to put his energy into showing his love for you.

I want to be that type of guy when I get married, BUT

I'm thinking maybe women really don't want that. Maybe that is a little passive for a way for a man to treat his woman

So, I'm asking you ladies... Please respond to the answers


1) Yes! What woman wouldn't want that! That is the way a man should treat his woman!

2) No.. Sounds nice, but I'd rather be the passive one and be the one giving my man oral, massages, and cooking him breakfast. That is the way a woman should act.


Thanks Ladies!
 
I don't think there's any one way a woman or a man "should" act. People should do what's right for them.

For me though - yes I want my man to be affectionate and all, but I wouldn't want hand and foot massages everyday, or at all really. I'd rather be the one giving that to him. An occasional back rub would be nice. I wouldn't want him to kiss my feet, either, and as for oral, I'm not that big a fan of recieving it. If given a choice I'd rather give it to him. Cooking me breakfast - maybe on my birthday or something? But I'd honestly rather cook for him.

The only thing on your list I would want is lots of kissing and holding and affection :)
 
Sorry but this question is ridiculous. Basically the same as asking a woman if 1. She wants to be dominated all the time, or 2. Be the dominate one. Relationships aren't black and white.
 
Everyone is different.

That being said, my boyfriend is super sweet and he's always kissing me and cuddling and it works for us.
 
how'd that make you a lil bitch? you could make her work for the pleasure. kiss all over her but also use 'punishment' in bed. make her please you also THEN when she's been really good show her affection. nothing wrong with appreciating what a good girl you have
 
how'd that make you a lil bitch? you could make her work for the pleasure. kiss all over her but also use 'punishment' in bed. make her please you also THEN when she's been really good show her affection. nothing wrong with appreciating what a good girl you have

I agree she has to be a good gal definitely!
 
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