Lol ScotchMist that made me chuckle you saying you're on a coffee break haha n yea I get it.
I'm really not taking it personally. Knock told me it took him a year to find his feet here too. If members are made to feel like they are not allowed to show concern for people because they're not been here long n so forth they're not going to want to stick around. Other sub-forums are not like this.
New members are the future of BL n should feel wanted, integrated not told how don't know members the way others do n made to feel an outsider every time they show concern. This has happened before n it feels like I 'm not allowed to show concern for others in EADD because I don't have some badge that says "joined since (so many".
I'm not saying anymore on this as I don't want to come across as argumentative. It's just my opinions on the matter as it was the exact same thing when I tried showing concern for Brimz. I can't help caring about people. Not taking it personally, just expressing my feelings on the matter.
Evey