^ surely there are more Fins than just you on here eh Xammy?
I've met a few BLers in real life over the last 15 years, and it never did disappoint. It is quite amazing what a common denominator BL is....personalities almost always meshed seamlessly. I met a handful of bees from the Hive IRL too, and my goodness what madness ensued....now that there is a real common denominator! Dangerously good times followed those meet ups, and the front lines of the WOD pushed further out :D Whether meeting in the trenches or at command outposts the experiences never failed to deliver. Lasting friendships did however, given the eventual incarceration rate of such hobbies or professions....I knew 17-18 bees fairly well, and at least 13 (maybe more, some people just disappeared) got busted. Many of them twice! Those are not good odds! But still, I don't regret a goddamn thing :D