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The one that got away....

mr.buffnstuff

mr.buffnstuff

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So let's have it then, who was the 'one that got away' in your life?
There was a girl I was sort of with at the end of school but I never got with her properly wanting to 'play the field' I guess looking back she was dam near perfect! Oh how things would have been different!

Who have you let get away and how different do you think your life would have been if you got with them?
 
Blimey. There have been a couple.

Most recent one was years back though. Jesus, she was (is) beautiful. Lives in London now. Moment well and truly passed. Thank you, drugs, depression and brewer's droop, for making me hesitate.

Would life have been any different? I dunno. It would still have ended in disillusionment and heartbreak on both sides, as these things inevitably do. Sometimes it's better to have something to wonder about, I reckon. Especially in a world that's been gradually stripped of all its wonder.
 
None for me.

Every choice I made, no matter how big or small, has led me here and every choice I made was exactly what I wanted at the time.

No regrets.
 
I thought the thread was about the book by Chris Ryan "The one who got away", about his escape during that botched Bravo Two Zero operation by his SAS Unit during the first Iraq war, quite interesting how he managed to escape on foot behind enemy lines, the story is likely to have been embellished with exageration but still, impressive feat.

I read the two other books about that mission as well, the one by Andy McNab, which is widely agreed to be bollocks and the one by Michael Asher, where he debunks a lot of the claims made by McNab about how the mission unfolded, quite interesting, he actually went to interview the local Iraqi farmers who first spotted the SAS personnel.
 
RLP said:
None for me.

Every choice I made, no matter how big or small, has led me here and every choice I made was exactly what I wanted at the time.

No regrets.
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I don't regret how my life is now. But man she had it all! Don't you ever wonder about things though? Even small changes in your life that change the path you go down completely.
Even just meeting someone at a party you weren't going to go to but did and then your life changes completely.
I think it would be interesting to see like a spider diagram of the paths my life could have gone down and the choices I made
 
mr.buffnstuff said:
I don't regret how my life is now. But man she had it all! Don't you ever wonder about things though? Even small changes in your life that change the path you go down completely.
Even just meeting someone at a party you weren't going to go to but did and then your life changes completely.
I think it would be interesting to see like a spider diagram of the paths my life could have gone down and the choices I made
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Genuinely don't wonder about things like that.

I think it'd be interesting to see your spider diagram but I'd look at it for five minutes and get back on with living in the here and now.

PS, and not just for you, girls that 'have it all' aren't necessarily perfect for you. Imperfections can be beautiful, perfection can be boring. Don't sweat the small stuff, enjoy the present. <3
 
Theres been quite a few for me, they made it very obvious they were interested during my poly/uni years. Some of them were really pretty/sexy and hot, i flirted a bit with them, but when it moved up a gear i got scared and ignored / blanked most of them so of course it was me that lost out as their attention shifted elsewhere. Good though, i didnt like being the focus of too much attention. Even had a girl knocking on my bedroom door for ages at 3am and stufff after a party, i was stoned to fuck, and i didnt even answer that knock when it could have been the easiest lay ever. Dunnow what else she could have wanted, a lighter ? a bit of hash ?
 
mydrugbuddy said:
Theres been quite a few for me, they made it very obvious they were interested during my poly/uni years. Some of them were really pretty/sexy and hot, i flirted a bit with them, but when it moved up a gear i got scared and ignored / blanked most of them so of course it was me that lost out as their attention shifted elsewhere. Good though, i didnt like being the focus of too much attention. Even had a girl knocking on my bedroom door for ages at 3am and stufff after a party, i was stoned to fuck, and i didnt even answer that knock when it could have been the easiest lay ever. Dunnow what else she could have wanted, a lighter ? a bit of hash ?
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Providing she didn't want a 'cuddle' your alright! Grrrr why the fuck would any guy just want to 'cuddle' at night -_-
 
I met this French-Canadian girl while travelling in Nicaragua a few years back who was absolutely awesome. We had a magical time together and it was obvious we really, really liked each other but I was with someone at the time and decided to stay faithful to her. I didn't write down her last name, phone number or e-mailadress and Ive never seen her again since we went our seperate ways. Of course, a few weeks after I returned home I broke up with the girl I was with and now sincerely regret letting her get away.
 
mr.buffnstuff said:
Providing she didn't want a 'cuddle' your alright! Grrrr why the fuck would any guy just want to 'cuddle' at night -_-
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im fairly certain she didnt want a cuddle. She stayed in the room next to mine. She liked me. It was either a lighter, some hash, or something more physical that she wanted. I dont think she wanted to talk about the party we'd both been to.
 
mr.buffnstuff said:
Providing she didn't want a 'cuddle' your alright! Grrrr why the fuck would any guy just want to 'cuddle' at night -_-
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Because he's full of drugs and drink? Or just lazy? :)

Some of the occasions on which I've had nothing but a cuddle have been far more memorable than most of the one-night-stands I've had.

Admittedly, going by the standard of my one-night-stands that ain't saying too much, but there's a lot to be said for encounters that don't just consist of a hasty leg-over.
 
Spent six years with a girl, a lovely girl, and left her for my present girl (19 years and going strong). Took me years, and I mean years, to get over the guilt of leaving her. Eventually greatly helped by her turning into someone I frankly didn't /don't recognize as the girl I spent six lovely years with. Life is strange.
 
For some inexplicable reason, I managed to pull an incredibly attractive girl when I was 16 and we were together for about a year. On top of that, in spite of me treating her like shit she stuck with me, and it was me who ended the relationship, due to being young, fickle and bored. Haven't been with anyone half as good looking since. No longer in touch with her either, all I have are a few photos as proof that once upon a time, I was able to score a hot chick.
 
sounds all too familliar that story RJ. I cannot believe the girls i had in my youth, these days i just feel they are all out of my league. :\ These days i tend to get more signs of interest from older females, and not so much from the 20 somethings that i prefer. I need to find one of them that likes older men. It is easier said than done.
 
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