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Dirty Sex Questions/Philosophy

I'm usually too ashamed to let my partner in on all the things going on in my head...

Its bad enough that I get crap for being a chubby chaser, add in that I'm a submissive, then add in that my list of things I like is about as long as the list of drugs I've done and my list of things I don't like or won't do is less than a tenth of that and yeah... Its a source of shame for me. I can't help it. I'm a Libra... I'm prone to being ashamed. Low self-esteem, etc.
 
As diverse as this world is, chances are you'll find someone who accepts you for you. Drugs, sex and all. You just have to be patient and keep your mind open. Good luck finding the guy or girl who breaks ur bed sew 2 speak. Lol
 
You know how much furniture has been broken? :x

Yeah eventually I know I will. I think for me that my sobering up has slowed me down and made me embarrassed. I never really gave a crap when I was flying high on mephedrone, rolling on molly all the time, etc. Hell that's usually when I would make an ad on Craigslist that went too far for most people and it got flagged out of existence in minutes haha.

Sometimes I really wish I could have "normal" sex though. Suck and fuck is boring!
 
Explain to me what kind of sex is exciting for you? If you don't want to share it in the forums you can pm me if you like. (:
 
I love my sex rough loud and wild. Your not doing it right if shits not sweaty and dirty.

My girl calls me papi an I love that shit! Haha

To know if its something that happened to you or your past you'd have to explain your past and what makes you think that.

Magickat embrace that about yourself. We are all freaks here and atleast you know what you like an aren't a prude. Lol

This is S.L.R. isn't it. :)
 
TheRapperGoneBad said:
I love my sex rough loud and wild. Your not doing it right if shits not sweaty and dirty.

My girl calls me papi an I love that shit! Haha

To know if its something that happened to you or your past you'd have to explain your past and what makes you think that.

Magickat embrace that about yourself. We are all freaks here and atleast you know what you like an aren't a prude. Lol

This is S.L.R. isn't it. :)
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My boyfriend loves it when I get loud and I love doing it, so I totally agree! He's a little shy about choking me though, so I'm gonna have to work on that with him lol
 
Love chokin a lil hair pullin some light slappin/booty slappin.

She likes and asks me to spit in her mouth. Shits so nasty to me I could never have some one straight spit in my mouth..

In the heat of the moment I quickly comply to her demands. %)
 
TheRapperGoneBad said:
Love chokin a lil hair pullin some light slappin/booty slappin.

She likes and asks me to spit in her mouth. Shits so nasty to me I could never have some one straight spit in my mouth..

In the heat of the moment I quickly comply to her demands. %)
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oh fuck that's gross lol

but to each is their own
 
TheRapperGoneBad said:
True that
Just another sacrifice I make for <3 lol. =D
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Yeah, sometimes sacrifices need to be made in relationships for them to work. I would explain mine, but there's no drug discussion allowed in here, if I'm not mistaken. A different sacrifice I've made is showing off my body...I used to show cleavage and wear short shorts not because I was trying to get guys to hit on me or because I was trying to get laid, but because it made me feel good about my body and gave me confidence. As a woman, confidence is crucial especially in a society like this and my boyfriend gives me that same confidence that I got from the skimpy clothing without me disrespecting him or going against his wishes. I really am blessed to have him. (:
 
TheRapperGoneBad said:
She likes and asks me to spit in her mouth.
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That is horrible, I used to think my habits were bad which I learned off the ex but that is a clear health risk, Jesus wept you need to fix up.

I find calling someone anything "Daddy" related kind of weird but each to their own, spitting in someones mouth though ffs :(
 
I love both sides of it , but usually ends PRETTY damn rough.. Most of my sexual encounters was in wild and crazy .. And did ALOT of drugs aswell , so yeah. Really twisted situations has occurred hehe... But I really miss that loving sex so much , in fact after being sober for a while now ... I just want to find someone who isn't THAT craazy anymore. Maybe I'm actually more twisted than ur average twisted guy haha :D
 
What do you class as Kiny, rough though I wonder?

The ex used to love fisting (vaginal) while having anal sex for example, is that "kinky" or "rough"
Is sticking a buttplug up her her & making her walk around like a dog on her hands & knees while I smacked her arse then "skull fucking" her kinky?

Maybe my attitude is different to most but people throw these words out with no real backing on what they have done & what they class as "Kinky" or "rough"
Before I got with the ex I would have said anal sex was "Kinky" now I don't even see fisting in that league.
 
Bodda said:
What do you class as Kiny, rough though I wonder?

The ex used to love fisting (vaginal) while having anal sex for example, is that "kinky" or "rough"
Is sticking a buttplug up her her & making her walk around like a dog on her hands & knees while I smacked her arse then "skull fucking" her kinky?

Maybe my attitude is different to most but people throw these words out with no real backing on what they have done & what they class as "Kinky" or "rough"
Before I got with the ex I would have said anal sex was "Kinky" now I don't even see fisting in that league.
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To me, rough would me hitting, choking, hard fucking to the point of bruising, etc.

Kinky is the stuff you included, as well as name calling and biting.
 
lovegluegunnin said:
My boyfriend loves it when I get loud and I love doing it, so I totally agree! He's a little shy about choking me though, so I'm gonna have to work on that with him lol
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Its usually women who get shy about choking. I couldn't get a few of my gfs to choke me when we were fucking. Well more than a few now that I think about it.

I would be like whats the big deal and they would say something like "its weird" or "that scares me". I am thinking I am not asking to choke you here. I think a bit of oxygen deprevation is good when cumming, but that's just me and I should say that it CAN be dangerous. I know people have killed themselves masturbating and choking themselves somehow.

But anyways yeah its weird to me when a woman is down with some kinky shit like getting fucked up her ass, hair pulling, dirty talk, rough sex and cum on her face but she won't choke me. People get weird about choking for some reason and I don't know why. Any thoughts on that?
 
It's kind of hard to share my kink with girls, it's even harder if I'm really into them. I just kind of...do it and see what they say. I haven't had a girl not be super turned on by it yet :)

As far as sex goes, I like to be rough. I bite and pull hair. I slam into the girl hard, and slap her ass. I dig my nails into her back and leave marks. I like watching her suck off her own juices after I pull out of her pussy.

Yeah, This is probably all rooted in some deep shit lol, but I don't care. I fucking love it.
 
dopemaster said:
Its usually women who get shy about choking. I couldn't get a few of my gfs to choke me when we were fucking. Well more than a few now that I think about it.

I would be like whats the big deal and they would say something like "its weird" or "that scares me". I am thinking I am not asking to choke you here. I think a bit of oxygen deprevation is good when cumming, but that's just me and I should say that it CAN be dangerous. I know people have killed themselves masturbating and choking themselves somehow.

But anyways yeah its weird to me when a woman is down with some kinky shit like getting fucked up her ass, hair pulling, dirty talk, rough sex and cum on her face but she won't choke me. People get weird about choking for some reason and I don't know why. Any thoughts on that?
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I think that's rather odd, too. Maybe she's a masochist, likes to have pain inflicted upon her and likes to be humiliated but doesn't want to hurt others when it comes to sex. I personally wouldn't mind choking my partner as long as we were safe about it and I didn't apply too much pressure to his adam's apple, as I know that's a very sensitive part of a male's body. Anything that I want a guy to do to me, I think it's only fair that I comply to do to him if he wants it. For instance, because my boyfriend lets me call him daddy, he likes to call me mommy and play with my tits while I ride him or when he's on top, missionary.
 
Animal Mother said:
It's kind of hard to share my kink with girls, it's even harder if I'm really into them. I just kind of...do it and see what they say. I haven't had a girl not be super turned on by it yet :)

As far as sex goes, I like to be rough. I bite and pull hair. I slam into the girl hard, and slap her ass. I dig my nails into her back and leave marks. I like watching her suck off her own juices after I pull out of her pussy.

Yeah, This is probably all rooted in some deep shit lol, but I don't care. I fucking love it.
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All of that is normal to me and is pretty sexy. I don't think it's rooted in deep shit, I think it's pretty normal to have different tastes in what's acceptable in bed and what isn't. And yeah, usually when men just do what they want to do instead of asking (that is, after consent is given to have sex to begin with), the woman is okay with it because they like the fact that the man they are with took charge. I know I personally love that.
 
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