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lovegluegunnin said:
Yeah, lol. My mom is my best friend, my everything, my favorite parent as bad as that sounds. She's always on my mind, I feel like we're interconnected in the mind somehow, because we say the same things at the same time and almost never disagree. She cares for me like a mother should, she's realistic when giving me advice and punishing me when it comes to my wrongdoings. And since this is drug discussion, I'll throw in the fact she's my favorite person to smoke weed with lmao. One time we killed 7 blunts of OG kush in 2-3 days and just laid in bed and laughed our asses off and talked about anything and everything. After that, we continued our daily lives and she went back to being a regular mom, regular disciplinary figure. She's literally everything to me. I just want her to know how much I love her, how much I respect and care for her.


lol i made this thread about my mom


SORRY BOUT IT
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Dont apolgise, its lovely.

While my parents are very supportive and clearly love me we've never connected at all, they never understood me and I them.

My partners relationship with her parents is very similar to yours and its great to see, I actually look forward to Christmas with them. I wish I could laugh and share with my own like that. Usually just ends in me and my dad arguing.

Just hope I can be as connected to my kids :)
 
ScotchMist said:
Dont apolgise, its lovely.

While my parents are very supportive and clearly love me we've never connected at all, they never understood me and I them.

My partners relationship with her parents is very similar to yours and its great to see, I actually look forward to Christmas with them. I wish I could laugh and share with my own like that. Usually just ends in me and my dad arguing.

Just hope I can be as connected to my kids :)
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Oh, I was being sarcastic about the apology lmao. I'm not apologizing for sharing how I feel, that's just stupid. But thank you for the compliment. c: I actually didn't expect such a positive response from people.

At least you have that support and love, in the end that will bring you closer, one way or another. I learned that from experience with my dad. I don't have very much of a relationship with him, but his love and support for me has shown in him signing me up for school, fixing my room the way I'd like it and trying his hardest to comfort me when I'm in a manic high mood in my bipolar-schizophrenia cycles. Also, as long as you have that desire to be a good parent to your children deep in your heart, you have the ability to be a good parent. I don't have children, but I am a child and I find that once my father found the will to be a better father to me, he started becoming a better father.
 
lovegluegunnin said:
Oh, I was being sarcastic about the apology lmao. I'm not apologizing for sharing how I feel, that's just stupid. But thank you for the compliment. c: I actually didn't expect such a positive response from people.

At least you have that support and love, in the end that will bring you closer, one way or another. I learned that from experience with my dad. I don't have very much of a relationship with him, but his love and support for me has shown in him signing me up for school, fixing my room the way I'd like it and trying his hardest to comfort me when I'm in a manic high mood in my bipolar-schizophrenia cycles. Also, as long as you have that desire to be a good parent to your children deep in your heart, you have the ability to be a good parent. I don't have children, but I am a child and I find that once my father found the will to be a better father to me, he started becoming a better father.
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Ok, thats enough about your parents, it is the Tuesday/Friday thread after all ;)














Nice post though :)
 
Just got back from my latest appt with the Work Programme cunts.
Each appt is steadily becoming more & more of a battle between myself & my adviser.
He keeps trying to tell me that I have to do certain things and I then try to tell him that I don't have to do them and he says Yes you do and then I have to quote or show him the DWP rules. He tries to make me feel that I'm doing something wrong or that I will get in trouble if I don't do something and I try to explain that he is trying to make me feel bad or have done something wrong even though all I'm doing is going by the law as set out by the DWP.
He wanted me to give him my email and a copy of my CV to keep keep I next see him. I told him that I've already shown him that I have a cv & I do not have to allow him to keep a copy & I don't have to give him my email address.
He said that I do have to so I told him to make it a Mandatory activity then but he wouldn't do it cos he knows that it's against the law.
Gotta be careful though cos I know one slip up by me and the cunt will try and get me sanctioned.
It's a fucking battle every appt & I always come out feeling so angry.
 
maxalfie said:
Just got back from my latest appt with the Work Programme cunts.
Each appt is steadily becoming more & more of a battle between myself & my adviser.
He keeps trying to tell me that I have to do certain things and I then try to tell him that I don't have to do them and he says Yes you do and then I have to quote or show him the DWP rules. He tries to make me feel that I'm doing something wrong or that I will get in trouble if I don't do something and I try to explain that he is trying to make me feel bad or have done something wrong even though all I'm doing is going by the law as set out by the DWP.
He wanted me to give him my email and a copy of my CV to keep keep I next see him. I told him that I've already shown him that I have a cv & I do not have to allow him to keep a copy & I don't have to give him my email address.
He said that I do have to so I told him to make it a Mandatory activity then but he wouldn't do it cos he knows that it's against the law.
Gotta be careful though cos I know one slip up by me and the cunt will try and get me sanctioned.
It's a fucking battle every appt & I always come out feeling so angry.
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Good stuff max (or is it alf?) Where do you get your information? Do you share your tactics with other folk? I mean you obviously share it here which it is great but others down at the job centre?
 
Thanks Knock, yeah it's Max but have been called plenty of other names.
I get a lot of info from http://unemploymentmovement.com/forum/unemployment-and-job-centre-plus
They have loads of info about JSA etc & their Welfare to Work forum is great for Work Programme information and I I can't recall the name of the site itself but there's another one where you can read all freedom of information requests & responses to the DWP and other government depts.
I do try to share the information where I can but some folk are too afraid to go against what they are told to do, I can understand if they have kids and don't want to risk a sanction. Although sometimes by doing what you are told to do makes it easier to get a sanction against you.
Fight them where I can and it's good to see others doing the same thing as they inspire me to carry on.
 
Sick in bed watching Lifetime classic "Terror in the Family" where a young, pre-fame Hillary Swank beats the crap out of her parents. This movie is so unintentionally funny. The subject matter isn't, of course, but it's a fromage/cheese fest through and through and I can never resist the crap fondue that it is.
 
Hiya Max,

Thanks! :) Same, hope things get easier on your end soon. Keep fighting the good fight, and put those tossers in their place. I don't know much about the UK DHSS, but my husband tells me they're patronizing and treat you like shite. Best of luck, and know you have a lot of people here that have your back and appreciate the info you provide to help others. Take it easy, and have a good one.
 
knock, this tuesday thing is retarded. it's just like gibberings ..

why not just have a rolling friday thread?

ps: I love you still regardless ;p <3
 
lovegluegunnin said:
Ah that's better! Now I can still be on topic. Today I think I'll cater to my mom. She was crying last night, because she can't afford to buy my brother and I anything for Christmas. I keep telling her that I don't care about any of that gifting shit..I just wanna be around my family. But she still doesn't listen, she still feels like a failure. So today, it's gonna be about her. When she wakes up, I'm gonna make her something to drink while she has her first cigarette of the day. Then I'm gonna brush her hair, and put her makeup on. And then I'm gonna see if she wants to go for a ride in the car and blast some music. Today, I'm gonna show my mom some love. I'll update you guys, whether you care to have an update or not.
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Oh god I was crying cos I was depressed and now I'm crying cos that's lovely. Do update <3

edit: ooh i didn't realise i can post in closed threads
 
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