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I need YOUR advice ! need to stop masturbating !

Jabberwocky

Jabberwocky

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Hey,

For the past 6 years I have masterbated each day, a total of 20 days I have not masterbated. Now, I have no shame in it, BUT I need to stop it for:

- Better muscle
- More motivated.
etc.

May you please give me advice on other benefits from over-masterbating so I will stop.

thank you.
 
To be completely honest with you, masturbating every day isn't a bad thing - it's when you do it so many times a day that it starts to get in the way of your daily routine that it becomes a problem. If you have a porn addiction as well, try turning off all of your electronics and reading a book, or going for a walk, or snacking on something healthy. Do something that makes you happy besides masturbation.

If you have any other questions or would just like to talk, please feel free to message me. (:
 
Okay then. Well, all I can really tell you is, when you feel like you want to masturbate or you get horny, think about much happier you'd be if you didn't do it. think about all the more productive things you could be doing besides masturbating.
 
Someone move this to healthy living.
Don't obsess over it, just limit yourself to once or twice a week.
 
lovegluegunnin said:
To be completely honest with you, masturbating every day isn't a bad thing - it's when you do it so many times a day that it starts to get in the way of your daily routine that it becomes a problem. If you have a porn addiction as well, try turning off all of your electronics and reading a book, or going for a walk, or snacking on something healthy. Do something that makes you happy besides masturbation.

If you have any other questions or would just like to talk, please feel free to message me. (:
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Very well said. Do other hobbies that interests you so you don't think about masterbation all the time.
 
masturbation for girls is very different than masturbation for boys...

girls lose their energy through losing blood once a month, boys lose energy through semen

check out nofap reddit and install a porn blocker on your computer, and just stop masturbating

aim for 30 days, see how you feel and if you want to continue or whateva

it isnt healthy for a guy to masturbate once a day, you will notice significant changes in energy/motivation/confidence/health by not jacking off

also once you feel horny it can be worth taking a cold shower (put the cold ass water on your johnson), going for a run, doing something to distract yourself
 
I'm all for not masturbating for more energy. I feel something similar too. Actually just limiting masturbation to once a day even gives me more energy, instead of masturbating 2-3 times a day.
Probably abstaining completely will result in even more energy.
So on the one hand I understand why you say it isn't healthy to masturbate every day. On the other hand, isn't it good for your prostate to release once in a while ?
 
Yes, Thank You guys.

As I said, I have no personal feelings regarding masterbation, the reason why I wanted to stop was for better motivation & energy.

Thank You all,
 
Achten said:
So on the one hand I understand why you say it isn't healthy to masturbate every day. On the other hand, isn't it good for your prostate to release once in a while ?
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its all bs theres nothing to worry about your prostate by not masturbating

The politically incorrect truth is that the health benefits of orgasm are primarily related to sexual intercourse with another human being, specifically penile-vaginal intercourse (PVI) not masturbation. However, most of the existing prostate-cancer research inadvertently veiled this reality by asking poorly chosen questions. Researchers assumed that all ejaculations would have equal effects on prostate cancer (if any), so they counted masturbation, PVI and other orgasm-producing behavior simply as "ejaculation." Also, they had to rely on men's recollections about sexual activity decades earlier.
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governments are so fucked i think they want to keep everyone unhealthy at the root, so they benefit by spreading study's which say regular sex/masturbation is good for you, that way they can maintain the consumerist society selling us lotions for skin, shit for hair, diet shit :|
 
2000 years of pre-modern understandings inform us that daily ejaculation is not healthy for men. It depletes them and ages them. When you're 21 you won't notice but once you hit 30+ you will notice the effects of doing it all the time.

Most obvious signs: reduced motivation, lower energy, sore lower back and knees, and feeling of grogginess and lack of mental clarity, cold affects you more, not being able to get through a night of sleep without getting up to pee, a feeling of being less grounded, directionlessness, etc.

It's true that humans have always masturbated by the modern influx of sexual stimulus (marketing, porn, etc.) has caused men to do it way more than I think they otherwise would.

Either modern research is ignorant or there is a vested interest in keeping men's essence weak. Sometimes I wonder who is really running the medical establishment.
 
It appears as if the major purpose of a humans existence is to survive and produce offspring. If you put together ejaculation + woman you end up with the brain thinking 'Mission Accomplished. Take the rest of the day off.' and this leads to a lack of motivation and energy because you've already impregnated a woman that day so why bother doing anything else?
 
Actually I am fairly sure sex with a woman you love doesn't have nearly as much effect on energy as masturbation, it has something to do with prolactin release.
 
It's useful to examine the reasons why you masturbate. If you are getting genuinely hard and extremely aroused to the point that you have to do it, then that's reasonable. But if you force yourself to get an erection when your body isn't really in the mood, then there are probably psychological reasons for doing it. Many men who habitually masturbate regardless of their body's status do it out of comfort, to feel good when life isn't that great, when they're stressed, etc.

The psychology reasons can all be replaced by some other kind of activity, like exercise, hanging out with a good friend, listening to inspiring music, investing in a hobby, etc. Men who have busy, productive lives usually forget about masturbation until their body is genuinely horny. If you force yourself to get off when your body isn't really in the mood then that's when it can weaken you.
 
foreigner is right. its an addiction just like drugs. I'm not saying you have to quit. i'm just saying tone it down a bit. if you don't then when you have sex it wont be the same
 
In Dubio said:
It appears as if the major purpose of a humans existence is to survive and produce offspring. If you put together ejaculation + woman you end up with the brain thinking 'Mission Accomplished. Take the rest of the day off.' and this leads to a lack of motivation and energy because you've already impregnated a woman that day so why bother doing anything else?
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Theres always more women to impregnate why should your brain take the day off or maybe you could really make sure that that woman is pregnant by doing it again and again.
So I dont follow that logic.
What is when you masturbate at night then sleep and the next day you should be motivated again?
 
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