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Slow and Sensual OR Hard and Fast

A combination of both. There should always be variety so it doesn't get repetitive and boring.
 
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I like hard and fast with a variation of positions.

For me, good sex is when you can make fucking feel like making love.
 
Hmmm you both have me thinking, I guess different moods call for different tempos ;)

Today was slow and sensual for the most part, but to finish hard and fast. Mood can change over the course of making looove :D
 
soul mate said:
Hmmm you both have me thinking, I guess different moods call for different tempos ;)

Today was slow and sensual for the most part, but to finish hard and fast. Mood can change over the course of making looove :D
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I agree. My boyfriend and I start out with the intentions of taking it slow, and savoring every thrust and kiss, but then things get hotter and hotter until we're fucking like wild animals, while at the same time telling one another how much we love each other. We're a little crazy lol
 
lovegluegunnin said:
I agree. My boyfriend and I start out with the intentions of taking it slow, and savoring every thrust and kiss, but then things get hotter and hotter until we're fucking like wild animals, while at the same time telling one another how much we love each other. We're a little crazy lol
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Some of the things said during sex are hilarious, reflecting on it afterwards makes me laugh! Then there's staring into the eyes of partner afterwards, or sometimes during the ending. It's like "hello, I really know you now" or some other kind of "crazy" feeling/thought I can't put my finger on...maybe an emotion that is similar to the feeling of love, if not love...
 
soul mate said:
Some of the things said during sex are hilarious, reflecting on it afterwards makes me laugh! Then there's staring into the eyes of partner afterwards, or sometimes during the ending. It's like "hello, I really know you now" or some other kind of "crazy" feeling/thought I can't put my finger on...maybe an emotion that is similar to the feeling of love, if not love...
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Yeah...to me that's just the chemicals/endorphins(sp?) releasing in your brain that are trying to convince you that you're in love with that person, or it's lust. lol

I agree about the hilarity. After sex, my boyfriend likes to tease me about how dirty I spoke to him, or sometimes we laugh about the noises my pussy made when he put it back in after pulling out lol. But to refer back to the original point, to me, fast and hard > slow and sensual because I usually get off faster than my boyfriend that way, so he feels even more like a man for making me cum first.
 
lovegluegunnin said:
Yeah...to me that's just the chemicals/endorphins(sp?) releasing in your brain that are trying to convince you that you're in love with that person, or it's lust. lol

I agree about the hilarity. After sex, my boyfriend likes to tease me about how dirty I spoke to him, or sometimes we laugh about the noises my pussy made when he put it back in after pulling out lol. But to refer back to the original point, to me, fast and hard > slow and sensual because I usually get off faster than my boyfriend that way, so he feels even more like a man for making me cum first.
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lol about the pussy noises!! I like the vag muscle clenching and releasing after we finish, as well, and the twitchy legs my partner gets lolz :D No comment on the brain/love/chemicals, I'm still trying to work that one out with my partner.

Back on topic, I'm going to set myself a challenge: slow and sensual the whole way through next time, so she can cum first or just for the pleasure of it ;)
 
Really hard and as slow as can be managed.. the more sensual the better but sensual doesn't mean fucking lame so i guess passion is the correct word.. Hit it like a freight train with all the time in the world. what amazes me is how many people forget the versatility of their hips.. it a dance so loosen the hips and get the complex force vectors in both the x and Y directions and reap the heavenly resulting friction. <3
 
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soul mate said:
lol about the pussy noises!! I like the vag muscle clenching and releasing after we finish, as well, and the twitchy legs my partner gets lolz :D No comment on the brain/love/chemicals, I'm still trying to work that one out with my partner.

Back on topic, I'm going to set myself a challenge: slow and sensual the whole way through next time, so she can cum first or just for the pleasure of it ;)
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Sounds good. I wish you and your partner good luck and good fucking. (;
 
neversickanymore said:
Really hard and as slow as can be managed.. the more sensual the better but sensual doesn't mean fucking lame so i guess passion is the correct word.. Hit it like a freight train with all the time in the world. what amazes me is how many people forget the versatility of their hips.. it a dance so loosen the hips and get the complex force vectors in both the x and Y directions and reap the heavenly resulting friction. <3
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I like the physics in your explanation, z direction combined with x and y is also heavenly ;)
 
I don't care, as long as there's one hand around my throat and one wrapped in my hair.
 
Both, but neither can make me come fast because of that damn meth lol, and stim dick makes it hard to go hard and rough - its like trying to bash a pancake!
 
It really depends on my partner. I am very sensitive to the needs of my partner and I'm a pleaser. I don't get off if my partner isn't happy.
 
MagickalKat777 said:
It really depends on my partner. I am very sensitive to the needs of my partner and I'm a pleaser. I don't get off if my partner isn't happy.
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That's exactly how I am. I have to do what pleases my man first, I have to make sure he's just as into it as I am. Usually, I don't even care if I cum or not as long as he feels like a man (if that's what he wants) or feels satisfied and turned on like I am.
 
I like to be all up and down the spectrum.
Don't mind busting out some wild positions in the process. :D


To above poster word up. As long as loves in the air your doing something right.
Do what feels right, we're only animals.
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Bone it like you own it. Doesn't matter as much as long as you MEAN it. Smash that pussy/ass like it's the last poonanny like it's the last you'll ever get!
 
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