whats the last thing you did

[BlindHelperMonkey]

that you are truly ashamed of yourself for doing.





for reasons that if you dont already you probably wont ever know - i was in a horrific mood the other night. on getting home, i caught a group of kids, maybe ten years old - smoking, looking real cool in the process mind, but smoking nonetheless. i gave them a brief, somewhat convincing lecture - then took half of their tobacco off them. i now feel thoroughly ashamed of myself....



































...yeah, should have took the lot






so what have you got on your conscience?

 

[Jabberwocky]

I put a lot of cream on my coconut cake this evening. That means I will have to do a lot of exercise tomorrow to make up for the amount of fat and sugar consumed. Surf's up, duuude! :D

 

[NightsEpiphany]

 

[Raasyvibe]

lol BHM, you come out with the most positive threads don't you.

Not so shameful but on my mind recently:

I knew an 18 y/o girl who was physically handicapped and wheelchair bound. Despite her physical limitations she refused to let it get her down and would go out to her favourite pub and drink every week. Sadly she would get into some bad states and become very troublesome and became known to the police.

One of her bad traits would be to go out drinking, become drunk and have no-way of getting home - all the taxis refused her as she would rarely have enough money to pay them - sometimes she would Knock on random peoples doors in the middle of the night when she was stuck.

One of those nights she appealed to my sympathy to help her out... I was very pissed off as I didn't have the time to deal with her and she was taking advantage of my good conscience.... relying on me rather than helping herself.

I took her all the way to a youth hostel but they were full on vacancies, everywhere was taken up as it was holiday season. It got to a point where i'd had enough of her. I couldn't leave her on her own, so I called the police... though she begged me not to. I hoped that they would do something and she would think twice about her behaviour.

The police - who were also fed up of having to take her miles away to her care-home each week - turned up and I left.

A week after that incident she died. I'm not sure if it was suicide or not. But I've no doubt the post depression from this was a factor. She always told me "I have to go out, I have to make the effort... if you can't live life you'll give up on it". I feel I did the best thing possible by calling the police... Well at least I thought so til I learned of her death. Has been playing on my mind.

 

[soaring peace]

Drunk girl in a wheel chair.
Could also fit into the wierd stuuf you found thread and probably win.

Anyways. I was cringing when I read that. Didn't know how it was gunna end.
You did nothing wrong. Neither did the police. You gave her a little bit of leeway because of the chair, but not to the point of being patronizing or allowing her to take you for a mug.
Actually quite a nice story

 

[Marmalade]

^ This.

Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of Raas. Quite the opposite in fact. You acted more solid than a lot of people would. That situation would have certainly tested my patience.

You should feel chuffed that you helped her to the level you did imo.

Any involvement you had towards her demise is most likely purely imaginary.

 

[mydrugbuddy]

Argh, its allways risky getting involved with vulnerable people that have mental issues too. They could make false accusations against you. Ideally you could have let her kip on your sofa for the night or something, but we do not live in such innocent times, where such an action could be deemed as predatory or w/e even though that was the last thing on your mind.

 

[kingme]

well last thing i did that im truly ashamed of was DUI... no harm caused, but i felt like shit for doing it...

 

[Raasyvibe]

Drunk girl in a wheel chair.
Could also fit into the wierd stuuf you found thread and probably win.

lmao

Argh, its allways risky getting involved with vulnerable people that have mental issues too. They could make false accusations against you. Ideally you could have let her kip on your sofa for the night or something, but we do not live in such innocent times, where such an action could be deemed as predatory or w/e even though that was the last thing on your mind.

No her access to my own house was an impossibility for many reasons.

Anyways. I was cringing when I read that. Didn't know how it was gunna end.
You did nothing wrong. Neither did the police. You gave her a little bit of leeway because of the chair, but not to the point of being patronizing or allowing her to take you for a mug.
Actually quite a nice story

^ This.

Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of Raas. Quite the opposite in fact. You acted more solid than a lot of people would. That situation would have certainly tested my patience.

You should feel chuffed that you helped her to the level you did imo.

Any involvement you had towards her demise is most likely purely imaginary.

I suspected the police would do something to stop her going out again, as this was a re-occurring problem. I think she suspected this also, she was very insistant that I didn't call the police... she stopped me several times.

She would have hated being stuck in a home, unable to go out. No I don't feel ashamed or that i did something that was not right. My conscience is clear. But it has been on my mind nonetheless.

well last thing i did that im truly ashamed of was DUI... no harm caused, but i felt like shit for doing it...

lol... don't get me started on DUI's

 

[BlindHelperMonkey]

i was trying to clear some space the other day, going through old clothes - just kept thinking

nah, not that

thatll come in handy for.... something


etc.



eventually found a couple pairs of socks full of huge, gaping holes you could fit half your foot through. totally unwearable - so i threw them out













......feel so bad about it now. poor socky wocks

 

[Bodda]

Stealing a mobility scooter then selling it to some Roma gypsies.

You gotta STOP this tobacco issue, your going to get in trouble one day, I really feel for those poor kids.
Laws of Karma & Cosmic balance BHM can be savage, raising up on some kids aint cool.......imo, tbh (marmz )

 

[mr.buffnstuff]

Stealing a mobility scooter then selling it to some Roma gypsies.

You gotta STOP this tobacco issue, your going to get in trouble one day, I really feel for those poor kids.
Laws of Karma & Cosmic balance BHM can be savage, raising up on some kids aint cool.......imo, tbh (marmz )

imagine hoe creepy he looked walking onto the skate park up to a bunch of preeteen boys with his hood up and nursing his 'semi'....
takes me back to my childhood days.....