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My drunk friend wandered into neighbours house

my3rdeye

my3rdeye

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Last night I have a party and posted FB invite. My roommate's sister lives at same number house one street over, so basically across the alley. She is at our party and gets a text saying her husband left door unlocked so it would be easy to get in, he wakes up to find my friend wandered in drunk in his house full of young children. And asking for me by name. Lucky he didn't get shot.
Anyway he leaves and doesn't turn up at my house. So I post on FB today that I know this happened and I am going to figure out who it is. No one has responded yet. Thinking of showing my roommates brother in law pictures of the 2 most likely offenders.
If it's friend 1 he is a drunken asshole and fuck him and I will tell him he is an idiot.
If it's friend 2 his wife just left him and he just lost his job and I would chalk it up to a bad week.
I don't know if I really want to know if its friend 2, but I do want to know if its friend 1.
But then again I feel like I am holding them to different standards. Not sure what to do...
 
I know drunk people can be super annoying - but the advice I want to dispose here is "no harm - no foul"
 
bagochina said:
You could just let it go...
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Bingo. and as ax said, no harm no foul. Since there is nothing that really needs to be settled, keeping the topic active perpetuates the whole thing. I'd let it fade into the background and let it disassemble into a distant memory. If there is more to the story to where it needs to be looked into then go by your gut feeling. But if nothing ended up happening and it was not a calculated event then let it go and face forward. At least that is what I'd do.
 
OP, my advice would be to read this book.

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He's probably embarrassed.
If I went to a place where I thought a party was meant to be and the door was unlocked, I'd stroll on in as well.
My drunk friends did the same thing to my old neighbours at a party I had once (the neighbours were #2a, my place was #2).
It's a silly mistake, but certainly nothing to make into a massive issue.
 
Shit happens - let it be.

You're acting as though this person intentionally set out to disrespect you, or cause you harm.

Posting on Facebook for all to see that you know what happened, and that you're going to find out who did it? Lol.

Stop being such a drama queen and find a more productive way to spend your time.
 
Sooo...OP, just so I understand, the problem is that one of your drunk friends wandered into a house with children in it? Is this a "think of the children" moment in every sense?

Unless he/she is specifically known as a paedophile, I fail to see how this is any more an issue than 'being influenced' by the other drunk people that children are likely to meet during the course of their life. Is it bad for you because this person used your name? And you are worried that you may be seen as possibly harming to the children?
 
Sounds like an honest mistake that anyone could've made (and I have made before).
 
I have a short story about my friend wandering to my neighbor's house, that ended in a very very bad way. and my point is, if I can let that go, then you should too:

so it was some weekend night and my friend was visiting from out of town and really drinking it up. I've got some pretty vocal female friends that used to live next to me, and at one point in the night they said something insulting to my friend. well I guess my drunk friend thought about this the whole night, and finally decided to give my neighbors the what-for at around 2 AM, banging on their door like the police. I knew that this was not good news at all, so I remember basically trying to herd my friend back to my house, and then he dropped his glasses and he somehow thought that I broke them even after I handed them back to him - well what proceeded on my front porch was literally the most brutal fist-fight (LOL did I just say "fist-fight"?) I have ever been in. all because of some stupid drunk misunderstanding

to err is human, to forgive is divine. just hanging on to things and letting it fester brings out the worst in a human being
 
did the they apologize or anything? at least say im pissed off ands you decidie to to this kind of shit ill runn you over in my car, reprstedllt. fucing punkis.
 
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