I have no reason to tell them. Only a handful of my friends even know about bluelight or that I frequent the place and my user name has never really come up in discussion before.
people have friends irl?
Come to think of it...Id like to change my name to honor one of the great BL posters, one of my personal favorites, (Znegative).
How do I go about doing this?
I was thinking (Zalbinonegabish) but that might be too long. How about just Zneutral?